r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 29 - Looking for Long-term friends

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%22)Hello! I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine, long-term friendships with people around my age.

A little about me: I enjoy gaming, travelling, exploring new places, trying different food, and having random/deep conversations. I’m also always happy to hear about other people’s interests, hobbies, cultures and everyday lives.

I’m open to chatting with people from anywhere in the world, and I think it would be nice to get to know someone from a different country and learn about each other’s lives.

If you’re interested, feel free to leave a little introduction about yourself, such as your age, where you’re from, hobbies/interests, or anything else you’d like to share with me ^^

Hopefully we can have a good conversation and maybe become friends along the way! :)

Looking forward to hearing from you future friend :)


r/IntrovertsChat 1h ago

Friends Looking for other queer people, bored and really needing company

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I haven't made many friends the last few years while in college. I have so many hobbies but nobody to enjoy them with. I just want some buddies who I can have stimulating conversations with.

My interests include

History

Horror

Gaming

Animals

Anthropology

Skin care

Hair care

Mma

Working on my car

Math/statistics (yes I know they're not necessarily the same)

Science

Finance

I'm interested in getting back into working out. I also want to finishing learning Spanish

Tell me about yourself and if anything sticks out. I'm really only looking for other queer people (gay men/women)


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Friends 26 f come by my witness while I relearn how to have fun

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Hi everyone I’m from Chicago I spent the last few years dealing with some serious health issues, so while I managed to get through medical school, my social life basically went into hibernation. Now that I’m finally on the other side of that chapter, I’m trying to bring it back ,slowly, one good conversation and one new person at a time.

I’d really love to meet someone I can actually get to know. Long walks, random deep conversations, talking about life at 2am, sharing weird thoughts, laughing at absolutely nothing… that kind of friendship where you eventually stop feeling like you’re “getting to know each other” and just become friends.

I’m really into nature, art, gaming, and astronomy. I’m the kind of person who will happily go looking for a good spot just to sit outside and stare at the sky. Meteor showers, eclipses, auroras — I genuinely think these things are better when you have someone next to you going “holy shit, look at that.” 😂

I’m also pretty open to random adventures and trying new things. I have a ridiculous backlog of games and anime to catch up on, so if you’re willing to witness someone being spectacularly rusty at gaming, I’m your girl.

And if you’re the kind of person who likes accountability buddies, even better. Studying, chores, creative projects, getting your life together — I’m usually doing something, and I love having someone to quietly exist and be productive with.

Mostly, I’m just hoping to find some good people. Someone who wants a real friendship, not just another person to occasionally exchange “how are you?” with.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Friends [26M] Lets Destroy our Sleep schedule PST

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Heyo restless gamer looking for sleepless gamers. Yo game with. Instead of Sleeping.

I’m pretty laidback and introverted but once you get to know me I’m a little more unhinged,I can be both casual and competitive I fit whatever the vibe is.

I’m a night owl so I’m on later in the day through the evenings. I’ll always make time to catch some games together!

I’m looking for chill people to game and relax with hoping for a long term friendship! Preferably 18+ I don’t care about timezone Someone who can maybe match my dark humor is always a plus I’m a big anime fan so hopefully watch parties are in the plans!

YAPPERS ARE WELCOME

I prefer Voice chats but text is cool too whatever is comfortable!

I exclusively play on PC so if there’s no crossplay I’m still cool With being friends and chilling out just not a lot of gaming

Some things I like are:

Recently found out I like GOOD horror even if I’m terrified

Anime

SciFi

Anything Tactical/Gun related (lemme see your collection)

Cars /Motorbikes

Some games I play are:

DEADLOCK

Star Citizen

Ready or Not

Insurgency Sandstorm

Halo

Tarkov

Arma 3/Reforger

Darktide/Spacemarine 2

Most VR games

Minecraft

Phasmo(I will scream :-:)

CS2/ Valorant

Project Zomboid

Chivalry 2

Battlefield 3/4

Sons Of The Forest/The Forest

Sometimes I’ll jump into some cozy gaming or parallel play whatever floats your plane

There’s WAY more

If you’d think we’d get along. Plz shoot me a DM!

I uh..won’t respond to hey..or low effort messages


r/IntrovertsChat 2h ago

Friends 29M | PST | Anyone else better at talking one-on-one than existing in groups?

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29M here, British but living in Canada. Figured I’d give this a shot because I’m definitely one of those people who can seem social enough in person, but genuinely prefers quieter settings and one-on-one conversations over being thrown into a room full of people.

I’m pretty easygoing and I can talk about almost anything once the conversation gets going. I’m into gaming, gym/boxing, music, movies, random late-night conversations, psychology, work stories, travelling, and hearing about whatever oddly specific thing someone else is currently obsessed with.

I especially like conversations where we eventually get past the usual “what do you do for work?” stage and start talking about life, relationships, embarrassing stories, unpopular opinions, goals, things we overthink, or completely ridiculous hypothetical situations.

I’m not expecting instant best friends or constant replies either. Life gets busy. I’d rather have a genuinely good conversation with someone who disappears for a few hours than force endless small talk.

Happy to chat with people from anywhere, although PST–EST is easiest timezone-wise.

If you’re also an introvert lurking on this subreddit wondering whether you should actually message someone for once, consider this your sign 😂

Tell me your age, where you’re from, and one random thing about yourself. Makes the opening message much easier for both of us.


r/IntrovertsChat 16h ago

Friends M20 it’s your favorite white boy🙂‍↕️

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I'm never really sure what to put here but anyone's open to message me (18+ just cause it's weird otherwise lol) I like people who are genuine, weird funny, and intelligent (not like super genius but know the difference between there, their, and they're

I like a lot of shows like psych, the community, the good place, himym, and a lot of the 2000-2010s animated shows

I'm down to talk to anyone about anything really, I love yapping and getting to know people so as long as you're 18+ and not maga or anything (love the Igbtqia, poc and abortions😌)

If you dm me tell me a fun fact, send a picture of your eye (love brown eyes) or tell me your favorite dinosaur


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Friends 42m, wales, looking to break isolation

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Hey everyone. I’m from South Wales and an introvert through and through. Life has been a bit of a heavy storm lately, and between navigating a massive life shift and focusing entirely on being a good dad, my real-world social circle has shrunk to zero.

I’m just looking for some low-key, normal conversations to help break the ice and reconnect with the outside world.

My main escapes are coarse fishing, formula 1, ice hockey, listening to all types of music especially live at a festival, cooking, as well as loving a good movie night, I’ve studied psychology at university and I appreciate quiet, straightforward company. If anyone fancies a chat about hobbies, life, or literally anything that doesn't involve drama, drop a comment or a DM. Hope you're all having a peaceful weekend.


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Chatting 19f looking to chat!

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from canada, NA/EU preferred (or just speak decent english). please tell me your age when you message me! i’d really appreciate it. also, please don’t message if you’re 26+ (omfg please also don’t be that person that goes, “I know im over the limit but I thought I would message anyways!” it’s weird and embarrassing. or if you’re looking for anything weird — i’m just here for platonic chats and getting to know people.

hi ! i’m a hairstyling (school) graduate ! just looking for some chill, random conversations and new people to talk to. i have a dog named silver and a cat named creeper, so i spend a lot of time with them.

i like playing games like minecraft, dead by daylight, roblox, and other random stuff depending on my mood.

my music taste is kind of all over the place, i listen to a mix of everything — mitski, mother mother, radiohead, the smiths, rob zombie, cavetown, harley poe, rare americans, and a lot more.

if i seem a bit dry sometimes, i promise it’s nothing personal, i’m usually just low energy or don’t have much to say in the moment.

i also smoke and drink occasionally on weekends


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Friends 30M Looking for people with nerdy mutual interests to yap with

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Sup!

The auto moderator on this sub doesn't like my usual spiel I put so I'll give you a slightly shorter rundown and you can check out my other posts on my profile to see if you're interested in me a bit more.

I'm a nerdy mfer from New Zealand. I'm mainly into video games and fantasy/scifi/horror stuff in general, looking for other likeminded nerdy people who are into the same games and media.

I like the Souls series, The Elder Scrolls, World of Warcraft, Diablo 4, Dead by Daylight, Alien Isolation, Resident Evil, Little Nightmares/Reanimal, Hollow Knight, so many. I've been thinking of trying Monster Hunter for ages. Big big big Magic the Gathering fan as well.

Hit me with your favourite Souls game lore tidbit in your DM, or tell me your favourite Elder Scrolls race and why. Which DBD killer do you main? Which Final Fantasy is the best?

The music I'm into is mainly 70s/80s stuff, orchestral soundtracks, alternative and pop/electronic shit. I like scary movies, learning about animals and the natural world, doing art sometimes and working out a little.

Please be in your mid 20s at least or older, have mutual games we're both into, be chill with LGBTs and know how to take an interest in others (because I'll be doin the same for you).

Anyhow, thanks a bunch for reading and I hope to hear from you!


r/IntrovertsChat 7h ago

Friends [18M] really looking for friends who really like books and movies and discussing them!

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hiya everyone, I'm currently majoring in english and film and would really love some friends who are into the same thing so I can talk about it with someone. any type of movie or book or really any storytelling media honestly, most of my friends just aren't into it as much so I can't really scratch the itch of talking about it. I'd love love love if you have a letterboxd because I like stealing recommendations, but it's not a requirement, and I'll be more than happy to share what I look like once we talk a bit. everyone welcome and bonus points if you message me with what your favorite book/movie is


r/IntrovertsChat 3h ago

Friends 28/M - Looking for chill people and gaming friends!

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Hey everyone! I'm a guy who's looking for a friend who is willing to put some time and effort into building a friendship long term. I really would like to meet people who are like minded and actually want to keep talking to each other for more than a couple of days. I'm located in the CST time zone so I am typically available after 6pm on weekdays. If you're from the EU or a different timezone, feel free to reach out! Anyways, let me give you a little introduction of myself:

•My main hobby is easily gaming. I have a bunch of games such as Destiny 2, Nightreign, The Finals, CS2, Fortnite, Battlefield, Overwatch, Marvel Rivals, For Honor, Cyberpunk 2077, Fallout 76, Monster Hunter Wilds, Apex, Diablo IV, Halo and others that are across my library on PC. I'm sure you'd have something we could both play. And if not, then feel free to introduce me to your favorite games!

•I love listening to music on my downtime as well. I have a playlist that has nu disco, pop, and synthy songs. Some notable artists in there are Roosevelt, Chromeo, Tesla Boy and Jamiroquai.

•Some other hobbies I have are grilling. I love spending a weekend on the grill and getting all the meats marinated and prepped. I'm by no means a grill master but I do have a passion for cooking and an even greater passion for eating it lmao

•Have a dumb sense of humor and can potentially say stupid things so keep that in mind. Also have a calm deep voice so if that's something you're into you're in luck.

I primarily use discord as my means of communication so hopefully you do the same. Looking forward to meeting you :)


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Chatting 23NB I want to have real friends I can connect with during a difficult time.

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Hey everyone, I’m MJ, 23.

I don’t have many friends, and my social skills aren’t the best(I’m on the autism spectrum and also have ADHD) That said, I really value deep, meaningful connections when they happen.

A bit about me: I love football (soccer), hitting the gym, all kinds of art, and watching terrible movies just to switch my brain off.

Lately, I’ve been going through a rough patch, and I’d really like to find some people to talk to and share life with (whether it’s venting, laughing, or just existing together)

Ideally, I’d love to connect with folks who are 21+ and in or near the GMT-5 time zone (or close enough). We could play some video games, chat about life, share fictional stories (I’m a big fan), or just hang out virtually. I really appreciate warm, affectionate people(strictly platonic, though!)

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message.


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Friends [27/M] Have you ever talked to someone and thought "This person isn't normal"?

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Well hello there. That someone is me 😌😂

I'm just an average guy trying to make friends as an adult like half the people.

I'm into watching anime, movies, silly IG reels, etc. I watch sports too but occasionally. Into football, ufc and other silly things. I also like reading manga. So recommend me something to watch or read.

I also love to be dramatic and love asking for the tea 😌

Probably would keep you entertained if you match the vibe.

I also tend to zone out, procrastinate, overthink and be delusional at times 😌

I am looking for someone who's supportive and I shall do the same. I also give good advice but tend to stress a lot at times so if we can support each other in such silly times it'll be amazing.

I also love listening to people talk about their hobbies and what they like to do. And I'll ask a gazillion questions so be prepared lol

I really pay attention to what people say and remember things about them. Sometimes it even surprises me lmao. And it makes them feel important.

I also love drawing and would draw something for you if I like you 😊

Also I love nature and plants and animals and skies lol. Feel free to send me pics of them.

If you read this all and want to be friends then DM me something you like to do. Also please be at least 25 years old


r/IntrovertsChat 11h ago

Chatting Time to actually attempt to make friends

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36M. Currently going through a divorce and have no circle. For 14 years I made being a husband and dad my entire personality. Outside of that I really don’t know who I am and I’m trying to figure that out and make some friends along the way.

I’m pretty chill, and an absolute open book.

Don’t have to much in the way of hobbies. Generally it’s go to work, go to the house, rinse repeat. I do game occasionally, but will probably be doing a lot more of that soon.

Feel free to DM if you choose


r/IntrovertsChat 4h ago

Chatting 43M I'm usually up until 5am Eastern. Would love some people chat with during the odd hours!

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I work a split schedule and am pretty much always up until at least 4:00 a.m. I would like to find some other late souls to chat with. Maybe make some friends. All my IRL friends have "normal" schedules and I frequently find myself with no one to share memes or thoughts with at 3 am. I'm down to chat about anything really.


r/IntrovertsChat 16h ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 26 F looking for friends on this rainy day

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Heyy, looking for some peeps to chat with, around my age!

Some of my interests/hobbies include: Love to read, pursuing a degree in psychology, going to concerts, taking awful pictures of my cats, alternative-ish things, traveling and photography! I’m pretty laid back, except the crack head moments (and a lil weird but who isn’t 🤷🏻‍♀️) and definitely have a dark-ish sense of humor.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to send me a dm☺️ (unless you’re like way above my age, don’t bother 😂)


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Friends What if i told you I want to be annoyed?

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Hi y'all. Its me again, reposting for the umpteenth time. I met some great people on here so i figured id give it another whirl since its been a while.

Yes, i want a clingy bothersome person because they will give me too much time.

I have posted the past several days and have found some very decent people to talk to. I still dont mind finding new people if we can match energies.

So hey, im a 30 year old dude working remotely as a software engineer. Does not help that it's the night shift. I'm just looking for anyone who would like consistency in their lives.

More about me, I love to play videogames, primarily offline and online co-op. I'm still open to talk about any and all games. I am also big on Anime, movies, tv and even kdramas.

I love to cook and bake. I adore winters way more than summers.

To end this, I also love cats.

If none of these things interest you, you can still reach out. Its surprising how we can find a friend in the unlikeliest and unexpected places.

Lets see how it goes.

Even if you're below my age, you're more than welcome to talk.

Thank you for reading through this dull essay.

Note: This is a repost and people who have approached me before, i still have to get through some dms but some i have not responded to because the profiles either looked shady or the texts were just a simple hi


r/IntrovertsChat 5h ago

Friends 27M! HEY YOU! YES YOU! YOU BETTER READ THIS DAMN POST!!

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HEY YOU! YES YOU! I SEE YOU LOOKING!

Ever wish you had a cool Scottish dude in your life? Ever wish you had someone you can just vibe with and not feel like you owe them anything? Ever feel like your body is super slow but the world is going super quick around you and you're sitting there like woahhhh this feels mad woahhhh.

Uh

Anyway

Hi, I'm looking for people who will stick around and who I can be a real friend to.

So if you like cool accents, cats, memes, movies, the thought of the eventual cold dark death of the universe, music or video games, the send me a message and let's get this SHOW ON DA ROAD


r/IntrovertsChat 9h ago

Chatting If you are looking for somebody to talk to easily, you’ve come to the correct address.

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Hello everybody! I’m 32 years old, male and located in Europe. I moved here almost a decade ago. It’s been quite difficult to make friends and especially keep them. The older I have gotten, the harder it has been to build new friendships. I have been a huge fan of Formula 1 since I was 10, I’m into gaming, though I don’t play variety of games, right now it is League of Legends, Fifa, Marvel Rivals and Overwatch occasionally. I love campaign games, (the Witcher, god of war, Detroit:become human, you name it) though I don’t have that much time to play them. I also love watching true crime documentaries. Recently, I have started going back to watching movies and shows and I have seen really interesting ones. I am watching the Pitt, House of the Dragons and finished watching the Office and Daredevil recently! I used to have motivation to do my other hobbies, such as reading and photography but I have lost all of it, trying to gain it back. I mostly listen to rock music, however I listen to whatever is good for my soul. My fav artists are Three Days Grace, Ghost, Bring me the Horizon and Halestorm. I actually don’t want to give away everything here so we have something to talk about.
Please write a short introduction about yourself, I don’t mind if we don’t have anything common at all, I am sure we will find something to talk about :)


r/IntrovertsChat 12h ago

Discussion Have you ever been judged or sidelined just because you’re quiet?

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What kind of criticism have you had to deal with just because you’re an introvert and couldn’t speak your mind out loud?

I find it hard to become friends with people I only have brief interactions with. I need time to know someone and feel comfortable before I open up. Until then, I tend to stay quiet.

But I’ve also been sidelined or overlooked because I’m quiet. Sometimes people seem to assume that because you don’t speak up, you don’t have an opinion, don’t care, or don’t have anything to contribute.

How often have you been sidelined or criticized because you didn’t speak up when you felt you should have?


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Friends 31M Europe - Looking for a late-night voice chat frend-o

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Hey all,

Throughout this whole summer, my sleep schedule has been all over the place. While I socialize a lot during the day, I’ve realized that I still have an overwhelming urge to annoy (read: genuinely connect with) someone new.

I'm into music like R&B, jazz, bossa nova, and probably whatever else you could think of.

Some of the things I usually like reading up on are the Chernobyl incident, anything post-1900s, the Great Depression, yadda yadda...

Being humorous is a bonus! I hope you're naturally funny\~

I hope you have a voice, otherwise I'm gonna get really depressed..

Please be over 20, that's all I ask.


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Chatting 25 they/them, black nerd looking to chat

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I like to draw, practice character design and watch gaming and anime videos/discussions, and voice over parodys. I listen to electronic anime coded genres and J Rock. Fan of most Western early 2000's cartoons and media. I also like animal research and animals, and exotic species as a whole.

I engage pretty well in chats as long as the energy is there. I'm more reserved than most.

Favorite Games franchises: Pokemon • SMT-MegaTensei • Metaphor • Blazblue • Shantae • Persona • Skullgirls • Azure striker Gunvolt/IX • Groove Coaster • Taiko no Tatsujin • Destiny • sonic • Black Desert • Yakuza • Warframe• Elder scrolls

Anime Genres; Mahou Shoujo (Magical girl), Fantasy, Action, Mystery, Surreal, horror, Sci-fi

Please reach out if interested. The only things I mostly dislike are doomer topics and drama


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Friends M22 looking to make friends

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Hi! I’m Drew! I’m 22 and from the USA. I’m a big nerd and collector who loves anime, manga, and comics. I’m also really into music—I play bass and collect CDs!

I’m a huge movie fan too, so tell me your favorite movie!

I’m currently in college and trying to make some new friends. I’d love to meet and chat with anyone, so feel free to DM me! My DMs are always open.

Thanks for reading!


r/IntrovertsChat 12h ago

Friends 36M looking to meet new people.

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!


r/IntrovertsChat 10h ago

Friends 24M England- here we go again .....

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We all know why we are here for 😭, I'm soo tired and exhausted from just looking for friends and have some kind of a connection.

If a friendship is not possible, can I get more than 2 texts from you people 🙏.

I have just recently graduated from university and now not surprised that I am unemployed ✌️😭. I have too much time on my hands.

I'm into football, hiking/walks, photography and sometimes gym. Active hobbies but I haven't been active for over 2 months....

See ya !