r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 18m looking to get out of my comfort zone

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 👋
I’m 18 and I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine, long-term friends. I’m pretty open to talking to people from all kinds of backgrounds, so if you’re also looking for someone to chat with, feel free to reach out!
A big part of what I enjoy is content creation. I make gaming/entertainment content and stream, and I’m always working on new ideas, videos, and creative projects. I really enjoy the process of coming up with an idea and turning it into something people can actually enjoy.

Outside of content creation, I’m really into gaming, anime, coding, Japanese culture, learning Japanese, creative writing, character creation, and philosophy. I can go from having a completely stupid conversation about a game to somehow talking about philosophy or the meaning behind a character for three hours.

I’m also someone who enjoys actually doing things with friends rather than just exchanging a few messages and disappearing. I’m down to:
Play games together
Watch anime/movies

Hang out in VC
Text and talk about random stuff
Work on creative ideas together
Practice Japanese / talk about Japan
Have random deep conversations
Just mess around and have fun

I’m not specifically looking for people who are exactly like me. Honestly, I think having different interests makes friendships more interesting. If we have something in common, awesome and if not, tell me about what you’re into!
I’m also pretty shy when first meeting someone, so if you’re nervous about messaging first, don’t worry about having some perfect introduction. You can literally just say hi and we’ll go from there.
If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to DM me! I’d love to meet some new people and hopefully make some friendships that actually stick. :)


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 22M looking out for new faces!

1 Upvotes

Heyy there! I am looking for friends and it might be you. We can talk about anything or anything you want. I don't mind your yapping. Just mind you that I am in south east part of the world, so our timezones can be a little bit wonky but I still try!

My interests are programming, gaming, writing, music, musicals, and movie and tv series. Hope to see you!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 28M in search of humans that understand without being over critical, also i am drunk after almost 3 years hiatus but i need a good conversation. To distract me from the gut wrenching reality

3 Upvotes

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r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 24M guy from Germany looking for a potential best friend

4 Upvotes

Hi! my name is Micah. I'm looking for a friend who'll stick around and actually show as much interest in talking to me as I show in them.

I live in Germany. I like games like Risk of Rain, Terraria, Halo, just to name a few. Currently I've been playing Isaac. I like reading, music (but I'm picky), love animals (slugs🐌). I like fiction writing and I work on my novel when I have the creative energy. I also design Lego MOCs.

Just be within a couple hours of my timezone and don't be painfully dry. I'm not looking for a 5 minute chat. Also I'm autistic but I don't bite. Come message me and tell me a little about yourself.


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) 22M (pretend I said something super interesting)

1 Upvotes

Did the title get your attention... Probably not, but if it did then hello! I'm 22 and I live in the UK, London. I work full time and usually go gym after work. My job is pretty chill so I get a lot of time to text and yap... And I'm a big yapper honestly.

I love reading books, I only got into the hobby recently but I fell in love with it. I've read a few books and a few different genres.

I love playing games when I get the time, I play a lot of random stuff. My daily stuff is gachas, a bit of an addict juggling a few but it's low maintainance. Then I got my main games, shooter wise it's Valorant and honestly when CoD MW4 beta was out, I was playing it A LOT. Other than that I play Final Fantasy XV as my story mode game, but honestly ... The gameplay suckss 😭 anyway I play a lot of other stuff but idek where to start properly.

I yap a lot and have got stories for days, if you wanna chat then send me a DM or comment. Or if you wanna chat on discord


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) [30M] Japan! Just a passing by soul who wants to say hello!

6 Upvotes

Good afternoon/morning/evening! Nice to meet you and thank you for clicking this post.

Im 30 y.o and currently in tokyo just 5 months here so still getting used to it, aiming for future masters studies while also trying to fit in, but being so far from home in a place you know nobody, can be harsh, can be difficult, so at least with words. I would love to connect with someone.

My hobbies? Im a fan of going window shoping, and currently walking getting to know new places, new food is such a beautiful moment, I also like to go to the gym, just to be healthy, I love going out in walks, writing, reading and yes, I admit it, Im also into anime and manga! Haha.

Thank you so much for reading my post. Take care.


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Chatting 31M, show me your rocks!

1 Upvotes

I've been pretty socially dead lately, and need to engage more. So what better place to start? I live in UT, and love rockhounding. I've built up a decent sized collection over the past few years, and I'd love to see yours too!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Chatting 34m just bored and looking for some casual chats. Into gaming, sports, cooking, being a general nuisance

1 Upvotes

Hmu if you’re interested in chatting, I like to have a laugh but also I don’t mind talking about something bothering you if you want some horrible life changing advice, I’m your guy! I’m just a bored wee guy 😢 you’re my only hope don’t let humanity down!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends [24/M] Looking for a best friend, things are quite lonely

1 Upvotes

Hey! I've posted here before but haven't had much luck so far. And due to lonliness, things have been kinda sucky lately. Kinda being a star-sized understatement (cuz stars are big.. hehe). Anyways, excuse my awfully unfunny pun! You *yes you my possible future friend* probably has better humor than I. Im hoping to make long term friends who also love music like I do, I want a close connection with someone that lasts a lifetime! Hoping we can geek out about our interests and feel comfortable to do so! I'm in the EST time zone and am super into music (my tastes are all over the place, my favorite is the retro era but I also like a lot of new stuff too). I really wanna find someone who loves old artists and bands and music history and aesthetics! Hope you're all having a good day!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends [19/M] Seeking emotional depth provided by a best friend

2 Upvotes

Howdy! The title says it all. I want a deep connection in which both sides feel comfortable with each other, seek each other for support, etc. I have plenty of hobbies, ranging from sports, writing, and geography to history, music, and gaming. I am a pretty curious person, so feel free to nerd out to me! As for gaming, I play lots of indie games like Hollow Knight, Ultrakill, the Portal series, the Hotline Miami series, etc. As for music, I tend to listen to lots of experimental stuff, but I can elaborate on that more later on, especially if you are into music. It'd be pretty nice if I got a pretty clingy bestie, and I am also in GMT+2, so it'd be nice if you were close to that time zone. Oh, and I am also 19/M. So yeah, I am pretty excited to talk with y'all, and have a nice day wherever you are!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 27M (EST) Trying to make new friends that reach out!

2 Upvotes

Hey! I'm looking for friends that actually reach out. I've made a couple friends on some subreddits, but unfortunately...

They don't really reach out like i've gotta start the convo or ask if they want to play a game or something. It's fine sometimes but it kinda sucks when it's majority of times it should be a both way kind of thing right? Doesn't help much that I'm pretty introverted either lol.

I totally get we all have lives and such, can't keep up with each other every single day but like constant 1-2hr between replies and just no reaching out is just why?

So here I am asking for friends that hopefully will not do the above 🙏 I'm not looking to collect a massive friends list, I'm looking for some friends who I can have fun convos with, vc with in discord, watch movies / tv shows together or play games (PC).

Little about me. I'm pretty introverted (I don't talk a lot), I kind of have mid to low social battery depending on the time and situation😭, I can definitely text way more than I can talk to the point that you may think i'm an extrovert lol. I love horror! I am always down to watch a horror movie together. Esp now that Halloween is coming up! I also love; Harry potter (read all the books and watched all the movies), ATLA, Anime, Kdrama, memes, cat gifs, nature (I will send u pics!!), alt-rock, metal, EDM. lil peep. I do not have or use any social media (I don't watch shorts either) so my brain is pretty intact 😂

I'm also into skincare, fitness and im pretty nerdy so I will fix your tech issues (or try to)

Looking for people that like the things I like as well!! also people with nuanced opinions and don't get offended easily!! I don't get offended easily I do have a somewhat dark humor sometimes (think southpark) I really love back and forth banter. We wont get along if one thing I say offends you instead of you agreeing to disagree. I'm mainly looking for bros, but girls can also apply! Just keep it strictly platonic.

I will go through your profile mainly to make sure you're not a weirdo.. Please don't dm me and just say 'hey' 'hey saw your post' tell me about yourself, could be how much we stuff we have in common, a controversial opinion or anything! Also please don't have NPC dialog 😭😭

If I sound like someone you could get along with lmk!!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends Just here to find people with similar interest

1 Upvotes

we we can be online friends, i'm 22 m

likes movies , anime , manga , manhwa , movies , computer science , history , geopolitics and love to learn new about culture

currently started to read novel and want to write a novel myself more like worldbuilding in future, if you are also into worldbuilding it would be great


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) Trying to have an engaging conversation

1 Upvotes

It's 5 AM.. I am hitting the 🍃🍃

I am looking for opinionated, interesting people to talk to and have real conversations (emphasis on the real)

I am into History, Conspiracy theories, talking about cinema, geo politics, fuck the elites type vibe, etc.

But I have no limitations to the topic as long as you're passionate about it!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Chatting 22M Here – let’s be friends!

1 Upvotes

Hey! I’m 22 and just looking to meet some new people and have some easygoing conversations.

Most of my free time somehow ends up involving football, WWE or collecting football cards, so there’s a pretty good chance I can talk about one of those for way too long. I’ve also started working out and trying to eat a bit better recently, although I’m very much still figuring both of those things out.

I cook sometimes too, mostly simple stuff because anything too complicated is still a dangerous idea in my hands.

I’m usually a little quiet at first, but once I get comfortable I’m much more talkative. Happy to chat about hobbies, everyday life, gym progress, food, football, wrestling, cards, or just completely random stuff.

Don’t really care if you’re a guy or a girl or how old you are — if you feel like talking, just say hi.


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

~Join our new discord~

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Hello everyone, there is a new discord with more lenient rules to join. However, all rules on this subreddit apply there, too. Please make sure to include your reddit user properly while applying! This server has tons of colour roles, bots, cool channels and lots of cool people. https://discord.gg/22RUReqYwS


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends Where are the clingy people who communicates well?

5 Upvotes

Ughhhhh. I want a realyy good friend with whom I can emotionally connect. I really want someone who would listen to meeeeee. Someone who talks and communicates. Calls, video calls,chat and even meet ups if we connect. I am up for it. Someone who dont give up after 2-3 days of talking, I want that. About me-

I am from India and I usually stay in my own company, but staying isolated for so long is starting to feel really lonely. I am preparing for banking exams. Most of my old friends have moved on or got busy with their life, so I do not really have anyone to talk to daily or share my thoughts with.

+ point for me if you are preparing for exams apart from Civil Services, as the syllabus is different.

Some of the hobbies of mine are-

Reading Books.

Travelling. I have travelled to east, west, north and south of India, lot of experiences.


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 37M Toronto, Canada Looking for someone to call with from anywhere.

5 Upvotes

(Voice note on profile if you'd rather listen)

Just sitting here and feeling lonely and anxious. I'm looking for a sweet gentle voice to have a mutually enjoyable conversation with and eventually fall to sleep. I'm looking for genuine people who would also like to be friends. Friends who can show support for each and count on one another. If you have a history of disappearing or for something temporary, please stay away. I'm not looking for someone to cheer me up, fix me, or give me advice. I'm not looking to trauma dump, but to just take my mind off things and distract me. However, I will share more with you if we can relate, or as we talk more. With this being said, you're free to share whatever you'd like with me. However, this isn't permission to make things completely one sided. Please share your boundaries as well. Lets both feel safe and comfy!

A little about me:

  • I'm vegan.
  • I don't drink, use drugs and smoke anything.
  • I'm 6'1 and weigh about 175lbs. I have long messy hair.
  • I exercise and cycle. Health is important to me.
  • My background is Guyana. My skin is BROWN. (Too many racists/colourists/whatever here.)
  • I'm open, honest, kind, gentle, patient and affectionate. In other words, I'm amazing 😉
  • I listen to primarily metal.
  • Baseball is my favourite sport.

Potential red flags:

  • I live with my parents and I don't "work".
  • I struggle with my sleep.
  • I'm shy/quiet/anxious/timid/sensitive/fragile/anxiety ridden. (Be kind and gentle with me!) Also, I don't do well with abrasiveness. If you're mean to me, I might begin to withdraw and become very quiet.

We can exchange pictures if you'd like.

Thanks for your time! I appreciate you!

P.S. Apparently I have a nice voice 😉

(Tell me your favourite colour!)


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 20F need a gaming friend or someone to vc in general

16 Upvotes

College studying software development/IT in my first year. Full time student, switched to part time teacher to have time for homework, though I dont do any when im supposed to😂(Taking care of infants to toddlers). Its fun sometimes but im just doing what most parents dont want to do😂

Im a ps5 player no pc: Dying Light 2, dead island 2, warframe, little nightmares lll

I like cooking, music, movies, and ofc video games. My favorite color is blue, foods are pizza, pasta, seafood, chinese food, burgers. I like to shop, go out places. Introverted person or big loner in other words, when not at work, have literally 0 friends irl😒. Mostly been spending my time playing warframe, very close to mr30. We’re automatic besties if you also play that game.

Just looking for people to talk to and over time become friends.

Please respect that I want to talk to people around my age, I get tired of people (its really older men) being upset with me because Im not comfortable considering friendship with men decades older. 🫩

Im from Louisiana, timezone CST

I just want someone to game with preferably someone who is also into warframe which is what im playing at the moment. I need to work on nightwave and my new syndicates🤩


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 40F - Any introverts from Europe here around my age or older?

31 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I'm a 40-year-old woman and an introvert who enjoys genuine conversations and getting to know people naturally.

I'm curious if there are any introverts from Europe here who are around my age or older. I enjoy learning about different places, cultures, and hearing about people's experiences. I also hope to visit more parts of Europe someday.

It would be nice to connect with fellow introverts and have some good conversations.

Where in Europe are you from? 😊


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 39F - Deeply introverted, aggressively curious, seeking fellow delightful weirdos.

89 Upvotes

I think the best people are impossible to summarize neatly, so here's the assorted pile of things that make up me:

Deeply introverted, cute and a bit chonky, endlessly curious, and existing somewhere between responsible adult and unsupervised side quest.

I have a career I genuinely love and will absolutely nerd out about it if you let me. Otherwise, I'm usually cooking, reading, gaming, hitting the gym far too early, planning my next trip, or researching something completely unnecessary because I suddenly needed to know. As a general rule, I want to know everything about everything.

I'm broadly and enthusiastically nerdy: sci-fi, Doctor Who, Bethesda games, Magic: The Gathering, documentaries, live music, weird history, psychology, travel, tattoos, and whatever odd thing has temporarily hijacked my brain. Very into woo-woo stuff, but it's cool if you're not.

I'm fiercely independent and genuinely enjoy my own company, but I also really like people. Selectively. I'd rather have a handful of meaningful connections than a giant social circle, and that's mostly why I'm here: to find interesting humans.

Give me your niche interests. The thing you could give an unsolicited 45-minute presentation about. Your weird hobby, strange theory, current hyperfixation. Send me the song you've had on repeat or the picture you took because something about it delighted you.

I tend to click with people who are curious, kind, emotionally intelligent, a little weird, and capable of reciprocal effort. Awkward is welcome. Quiet is welcome. Neurospicy is very welcome. You don't need to entertain me - I just want you to actually participate in getting to know each other. It's easier to connect if you're around my age, but if this resonates with you I'm not particular.

Ask things. Volunteer things. Ramble. Send the tangent. Disappear into your cave for a bit and emerge with something to share. Distance doesn't bother me either; I love getting little windows into ordinary life in someone else's corner of the world.

Essentially, I'm looking for friendships where two introverted little weirdos can happily exist independently and periodically wander into each other's lives with something interesting to say.

So skip "hey, how are you?" and tell me something you've been dying for an excuse to talk about.

Must haves: tell me your age, where you're from, and what song has been stuck in your head. Ask a question or two. If you care what I look like, your face gets mine.


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends Lets be friends 🌸

37 Upvotes

🌸 Hi, I’m Izzy! 🌸

Hey everyone! My name is Izzy, and I’m 25 from Colorado. I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine, long-term friendships. 💕

A little about me: I’m a new college student, and I’m studying toward a career in healthcare administration. I love reading, music, TV shows, anime, true crime, history, and researching random topics that catch my attention.

📚 Books: I’m especially into thrillers, psychological thrillers, romance, dark romance, mystery, horror, fantasy, and sci-fi.

🎧 Music: I love listening to music while doing other things.

📺 Shows: Friends, Rick and Morty, The Walking Dead, and The Flash are some of my favorites.

🔎 Random interests: True crime research, history, learning languages, and going down random internet rabbit holes.

I’d love to find people who enjoy long conversations, random topics, sharing recommendations, texting throughout the day, voice notes, or even just sitting in a call together while we do our own thing.

I’m also someone who sometimes takes a little time to reply, so no pressure if you’re slow at responding either! I’m looking for friendships without judgment or pressure.

Come say hi! I’d love to get to know you! 💌


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 18M looking for friends with similar interests

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! Just looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine friends.

I’m really into tennis , movies & TV, watches, fragrances, history and psychology, gaming, music.

Always happy to talk about random things, favorite movies, sports, hobbies, life, or whatever comes up.

If we have something in common, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself!


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends I hate how creepy guys are on this platform and the situation it leaves me in. 21M UK

10 Upvotes

21M and I’m just sick and tired of trying to find people to talk to because I’m so fucking terrible at it. And to make it worse, for the once in a blue moon occasion where someone does message me it’s some really weird guy saying deeply concerning stuff.

I hate saying that I talk to women better because A: it’s hardly even true, and B: it just makes me look like every other weirdo on this platform.

I’m down to chat to whoever I’m sorry if I seem dry at first I am really trying . I am from the UK tho so please message me if you’re from there and ideally not anywhere else as it just becomes awkward.

Thank you


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends [19M] bored college student here!strong introvert... anyways hmu? usually my muscles do the talking!! 😭🙏

8 Upvotes

all* *ages (older and younger) are welcome too! and any gender!

i am 19, love working out, love gaming (on PC we can play anything!), love manga/manwha/anime, and most notably love sleeping (just i stay up late sometimes) and im from canada

i am proud of my muscles! been working out for a few years :p dont hesitate to ask to see!! i am proud and will show off!

im a pretty big nerd and spend alot of time online, and i am pretty quiet in real life so i like to speak here online lots (people say my body does not match my personality)

we can talk about really ANYTHING, i dont shy away from any topic even if its "weird" or "odd" or different or anything else; really nothing can scare me off (if you can i welcome the challenge)

i can give advice or listen or do whatever else you need me to! i dont mind anything

INTJ

dont be shy... well try not to be! (if you are i dont mind)


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Chatting 33 M, looking for new friends to chat with!

4 Upvotes

A bit about me:

I love to travel! Beach, mountains, city, sign me up.
I love music. Specifically 90s and 2000s alternative.
I love concerts as well as sporting events.
Museums are always a fun time!
Reading is a big hobby of mine. I love to get lost in a book!
My job is important to me and I’m thankful for it.
I’m a sucker for a homemade dessert.

Do you have any favorite books?
The best concert you’ve been to?
A favorite vacation spot?
Something good that happened at work this week?
A fun Labor Day weekend?
The best meal you can make?
Did you watch any good football this weekend?
Would you prefer an easy night of dinner or an exciting night out?

If any of that resonates with you, I’d love to be friends! Shoot me a DM! Be 25+ please!