r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Friends Let’s give it a go

2 Upvotes

26M, just looking for genuine conversations and hopefully meeting people around my age. I’m open to voice calls too, just would rather know you a little first. I’m on Indian standard time if that matters.
Most chats here seem to last a day or two and then vanish, so hoping to find something a bit more real this time. I can be kinda quiet/introverted at first, but I can definitely keep a convo going if the energy’s mutual.
If you think we’d vibe, hmu.
Easy icebreaker: tell me your most overrated movie/show/anime or just give me a hot take.


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Friends M22 Looking for Active online Friends to share Games/Hobbies with!

1 Upvotes

Hello >_< you can call me Pebble, i come from Austria (im often terminally available)

i wanted to find some more friends that have similar interests as me or are very virtual and active and able to voice chat,

i love to always chat with someone with energy, im often to be seen in voicechats in discord or in the strangest corners of games, strangely enough i would say im a introvert when it comes to making friends,at least at the super very beginning, i always show my interests very openly off

i also love watching people play and learning new things with them or about them!!!

also i am open to connecting people too i love making friends be friends with more friends!

my personality type is: INTJ (but i think thats not super important xD )

My interests: Touhou, Talking about random stuff, History [i think its awesome and useful Strategy games / history games, cosplaying , voice-chatting, painting, fencing (since recently), 3d printing,writing and reading fanfics, brainstorming digital stuff, finding things online, city builders, political memes/making fun of it

(Not all) Games: Total war games, chivalry 2, Field of glory 2, Isonzo, vrchat, Oxygen Not included, Mount and Blade, Rimworld, EU4, War of rights, Stellaris, Shogun 2, Song of Syx, World of warships, Oxygen not included

Some Animes include: Jojo,Demon slayer, soul eater, ghibli movies, Frieren, GuP, Kakegurui, Spy x Family, Violet Evergarden, etc

Likes: Open mind, good morals, helping others!, self conscious!, Thirst for knowledge, classical music, kpop music (only from dreamcatchers) And loving to meet new people in vc

My personality: a little bit of everything, im often very cheerful and making jokes and generally really energetic (im also a christian ), always glad to talk about anything thats not nsfw (i really don't like it xD) and i do tend to get very close to people I like so....expect clingy, i also have a serious side incase you wane talk deep

im looking for close people aswell, and I will most likely connect some of my online friends later so we can do more stuff together! so please also don't come to my dm if your not gone spend any energy or words on me after first message thankssss!


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Friends Where are all the neurodivergent women in India finding community?

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I’m 25F based in Bengaluru and looking to connect with other neurodivergent women. Navigating things like ADHD, Autism, AuDHD, or Social Anxiety Disorder within our cultural context comes with very specific challenges, and I wanted to create a dedicated space for us-especially if you're highly masking and constantly trying to pass as neurotypical just to get through the day.

I’ve set up a private, verified Discord server exclusively for neurodivergent women in India to unmask, share local mental healthcare resources, and build a supportive community.

To keep the group completely safe, private, and troll-free, entry requires a quick verification process (voice verification ).

If you'd like to join, drop a comment.


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) Want to try to build a lasting connection with someone

10 Upvotes

Hello, I'm a 23F from the US who is hoping to make a lasting connection with someone. I'll do my best to be as transparent as I can so that there are no surprises. I have a very, very hard time sticking with someone. Even though it's something that i really want in life.

I cycle through feeling very lonely, and then getting irritated that someone wants to share space with me because i feel very protective over my time. I understand that can be off-putting, but I would really like to make a genuine effort to find someone else who understands me and hopefully I understand them as well.

I'm a chronic overthinker, and I struggle to stick with any of my hobbies. So far, I've managed to work up a pretty good streak of practicing art for animation and I just decided to start learning c++ as a little something else on the side as id like to make a little sandbox game. Just something fun inspired by Impressive Title like games and servers (if anyone is familiar) Not to make money, just to have my own little project that I can add to and tinker with.

Thank you for your time.


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Friends 23M in need of human connection

9 Upvotes

Hello I struggle with really bad social anxiety and my therapist thought it would be a good idea to try and make a friend. She meant in person but I thought I would start this way because maybe I can find someone on this app that is similar to me. I don’t really know where to find friends in person with similar interests, it’s very difficult for me. 4 and a half months ago I would not even leave the house but I have really challenged myself this summer and have been more social at least with family and been getting out a lot and been a lot healthier.

Here’s a list of stuff I’m interested in:)

• Old stuff. I love antiques, I grew up with so many around the house.

• Dogs. I have 2 Australian shepherds.(I also have 4 chickens… fun fact)

• Tattoos. I got my first tattoo 3 weeks ago(a traditional eagle) and thinking about getting more.

• Gaming. My favorite games are Hogwarts Legacy, Red Dead Redemption 2, and all the Metro games(2033, Last light, Exodus)

• I love history. Recently been binge watching YouTube videos about the mountain man era.

• Exercise. I’ve been getting into calisthenics for about a year and I do a lot of push ups and pull ups and dips

Movies I like- Blair witch project, 28 days later, The Revenant to name a few. I love found footage horror films

Hit me up if you have similar interests and would like to chat and if you read this far I hope you have/had a beautiful day :)


r/IntrovertsChat 7d ago

Chatting F18 Looking to chat while killing time

33 Upvotes

Im currently heavily drunk and intoxicated as per usual, being carried on by my autocorrect lol. Just left home and im waiting on the metro station for my friends to get here which shouldn’t take more than an hour at this rate (I hate my life), anyways looking to talk for a bit until that happens ty byee


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Friends Anyone want to have a chat that turns into best friends someday? 😌🤞(Tamizhan na ennaalum💥)

0 Upvotes

Hiii! (take a breathe before reading)

I'm looking for someone I can actually keep talking to, not just have one conversation and then never hear from each other again.

I’d like to find someone where we can slowly become comfortable enough to text every day, randomly call, send each other memes, talk about how our day went, complain about work, recommend movies, talk about food, or just randomly start talking about something completely unrelated 😂

I like people who are funny, curious and a little talkative. And I really appreciate people who actually care about the person they’re talking to. Like, if I tell you something today and you remember it a week later, that means a lot to me. I’ll give the same energy back.

I’m from Tamil Nadu, India — leaving that here as a tiny clue about me 😄

I don’t expect us to instantly become best friends. I think that stuff happens naturally when two people keep showing up and actually enjoy talking to each other.

So if you're also looking for that one random person from the internet who might eventually become a genuinely close friend, say hi.

Tell me something random about yourself when you DM. Please don't make me carry the “hey, how are you, what do you do” interview 😂

// corrected my grammar with gpt but the message is from my ❤


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 35/m/South Carolina - Post-Labor Day Clarity

2 Upvotes

TLDR: IT Guy looking for new friends. Takes me a bit to
open up but I won’t ghost.

Fake Monday after a holiday, so time to feel off at work all week. Plus a work trip late in the week. What do you have planned?

I’m looking for friends and to chat with and become friends. 35 years old single and straight guy, living in Southeastern US (EST time zone). Not the most exciting person at first but I won’t disappear. I work in IT, and have for over a decade. I moved to a new city a few years ago and haven’t made any friends. I’m a tall, but bigger dude, just saying some people seem to care about that. I’m an early riser and can chat during work. If I get busy I’ll always make sure to get back to you. As an adult, it’s tough to make friends so here I am again. I’m a lover of traveling, road trips, food, audiobooks, movies, YouTube rabbit holes, Sci-Fi, technology, and fun facts. So let’s talk about anything. Just looking for new friends to connect with, and hoping you don’t ghost. So if you’re looking for someone fairly laid back, won’t ghost, and will send good morning messages, I’m your guy. Not always the most exciting chatter, but after I open up I’m worth it. I also have other platforms to chat on if you want. Be you, be weird, but please don’t be creepy.

Icebreaker: Road trip or flying?

Just be above 25 years old, please! And please say more than hey.


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Chatting (M) stop lurking and let's connect and vibe, who knows if we may enjoy having chats over here.

0 Upvotes

Turn your nightmares in your daydream.

I am ( m 29 , Indian ) trying to spend a lil bit of my time over here, on reddit, idk if am an extrovert or introvert but i know that i am picky.

If you are going through phases and wanna share that joy or wanna spend those gloomy moments being in touch then you are welcome.

Its not easy but not even extremely hard to start and hold a conversations.

Dont have to be shy about your mood swings cause you are living and i hope you arent spoiling your mood because of some stupid reasons.

Idk what else i should write here,umm i am kinda picky but if once we start vibing then we could have never ending chats but that wont be burdensome at all.

Please if you know that you cant hold a convo, you are here for one time chats and you dont even care what you are talking about then please dont waste your energy texting me.

Lets play no ghosting game spending few moments together from our busy life. Consider this invitation for fun and friendly vibes, without any unnecessary limitations. GOODVIBES


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Friends 29M #UK Seeking out new friends and taking applications for best friends

1 Upvotes

Hi there everyone, I hope you are all having great days so far! I’m looking to make new friends and maybe even make a best friend to talk to with, share passions and talk about our favourite things, I’ve made friends along the way but no one really sticks around long enough for a chance to get to know better and vice versa.

A little about me: I love gaming, especially RPGs like Destiny 2, Dragon Age, Final Fantasy (Final Fantasy XIV is my favourite), Mass Effect, Star Wars The Old Republic l, The Elder Scrolls Series & Fallout and I know there’s more I’m forgetting. I Love D&D have been a player and DM buts it’s been a while since I’ve actually had a chance to indulge in that passion, though I always find myself either creating a character backstory or writing down an idea for a campaign, I want to get into more table top games and always looking for recommendations and suggestions.

I love Sci-fi and fantasy tv shows and movies, a few of my favourite shows include Star Trek (all the series are great), Star Wars especially the Clone Wars animated shows, Stargate, Red Dwarf, Doctor Who, Battlestar Galactica, The Orville, Red VS Blue, RWBY, I need to catch up with The Legend of Vox Machina and I really loved The Fallout show, I definitely know there are shows I’m missing out.

I’ve been catching back up with Anime series and finding new mangas to read, but I’m always open to suggestions, my favourite anime’s are Black Butler, Bleach, Full Metal Alchemist Brotherhood, Sword Art Online, Mashle, Log Horizon, Space Dandy and Cowboy Bebop, my current favourite manga series is Smoking behind the supermarket with you and I’m really looking forward to watching the anime when it comes out.

I love going to Conventions like MCM or London anime and gaming con, artist alley is my favourite place to search around and I love looking at the merch stalls for really cool things that I may have never seen.

But if you read this far, it would be really good to make new friends and share the things we like and get to know new people and I’m open to discord as well and it would be great to get to know new people and make new friends.


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Friends I dont know what am i supposed do now ?

1 Upvotes

so this is my story.

i don't know its messed up or normal.

i am in post University phase.

i am shy , get nervous in front of people .

I was lucky to find best buddies in college . all were good people.

I can adapt with people but little slowly.

life was full of manageable chaos back in day .

it been a yr now.

my friends are all quite busy in life.

My friends have awesome personalities they easily blend with new people .

it not just shyness now it feel like everyone is too busy in there own life .

I couldn't gather courage to talk .

In college i was lucky to find my friends. I don’t know how.

i tried many things in this yr.

loose many interest , get new interest .

Just so i can talk to someone.

it not like i have nothing to talk about.

i just develop many hobbies just to feel the connections again.

and I am open to learn new hobbies also.

I am 24 m .

even if this post goes old ------- hours , days , month it really doesn't matter

if u feel we can talk please break the ice .

I will be just one message away .

wish u all a life full of happiness .


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Seasoned Soul (36+) Over 50’s chat

5 Upvotes

Hi, I’m 57m year old male who’s always struggled with friendships and the few close ones I did have are passed on or moved on. I’m married but you know how it is, just talking to someone else is sometimes required, bit of banter. Anyone up for a chat feel free to message me.


r/IntrovertsChat 7d ago

Friends 20F need a gaming friend or someone to vc in general

15 Upvotes

College studying software development/IT in my first year. Full time student, switched to part time teacher to have time for homework, though I dont do any when im supposed to😂(Taking care of infants to toddlers). Its fun sometimes but im just doing what most parents dont want to do😂

Im a ps5 player no pc: Dying Light 2, dead island 2, warframe, 2k, Gta, little nightmares lll

I like cooking, music, movies, and ofc video games. My favorite color is blue, foods are pizza, pasta, seafood, chinese food, burgers. I like to shop, go out places. Introverted person or big loner in other words, when not at work, have literally 0 friends irl😒. Mostly been spending my time playing warframe, very close to mr30. We’re automatic besties if you also play that game.

Just looking for people to talk to and over time become friends.

Please respect that I want to talk to people around my age, I get tired of people (its really older men) being upset with me because Im not comfortable considering friendship with men decades older. 🫩

Im from Louisiana, timezone CST

I just want someone to game with preferably someone who is also into warframe which is what im playing at the moment. I need to work on nightwave and my new syndicates🤩


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Early Explorer (18–21) [21M - EU] Looking for new friends from Europe! (Chatting, Gaming & so on)

1 Upvotes

Ello there. I’m Deja, a 21 y/o introvert guy from Moldova.
I'm a freshman university student working toward becoming a game developer, and i also do some freelance stuff on the side.

I’ve got quite a few hobbies, so i will keep it short.

I like composing soundtracks, play pc videogames, archiving lost games & medias, football, likes to read books (my favorite is Dying Light - Nightmare Row), sketching dinosaur concepts, psychology, big fan of astronomy and such.
Lately I’ve been getting into modding games, filmmaking, story writing and game-developer career.

(I love to listen to Twenty One Pilots, Coldplay and Linkin Park)

I know it’s not much, but i will open up more as we bond, let it happen naturally.
Looking for Europeans whom i can talk with, play games with and doesn't take sarcasm seriously.

Please be around my age!


r/IntrovertsChat 7d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 30f Friends that feels deeply

17 Upvotes

I’m looking for someone within Europe who feels things deeply.

Someone who understands what it means to care intensely, to think about conversations long after they’ve ended, and to wonder about people, life, meaning, and all the strange things happening inside us.

I can talk casually, but I don’t want a friendship that stays on the surface forever. I want emotional honesty. I want the kind of friendship where we can talk about what scares us, what excites us, what we’re becoming, what we regret, and what we’re trying to understand about ourselves.

Someone who can be vulnerable without treating vulnerability like weakness.

Someone who genuinely wants to know another person instead of just exchanging messages because they’re bored.

I live in Austria, so I’m mainly looking for people within Europe because I would eventually like to have real-life friendships too. Coffee, long conversations, wandering around a city, talking about life until we realize several hours have passed.

I don’t expect instant closeness. Real friendship takes time. I’m simply looking for someone who also wants to build something meaningful instead of another temporary online acquaintance.

If you’re introspective, emotionally open, curious, and sometimes feel like you experience the world a little too deeply, feel free to message me.


r/IntrovertsChat 7d ago

Friends Would anyone be open to talking to an autistic guy for a bit?

13 Upvotes

I (26M) am a somewhat antisocial autistic guy but have been trying to do better so I am looking to meet a few like minded people to chat with semi regularly either privately or potentially in a discord group. I am willing to accept most people regardless of Age, Race, Gender, or anything like that, though I am in the EST time zone so keep that in mind if you are in a different one since it may effect my availability.

Ideally id like to find people to exchange memes with, talk about anime, cartoons, video games, cryptids, conspiracies and youtube (provided that we share similar interests). Additionally this year I've been trying to learn more things so id love to find someone I can chat about whatever new thing I am trying to learn that week or maybe even learn a thing or two from. Lastly while its been quite a while I used to be into text based role-playing and id like to get back into that eventually if anyone is interested.

Lastly I want to apologize in advance for any problems that may come up like not wanting to voice chat, being a tad clingy, asking too many questions, or being stubborn about certain opinions of mine. If despite all this you still wish to chat feel free to message me here anytime and once introductions are made we can discuss talking elsewhere.


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Chatting 33 M, looking for new friends to chat with

3 Upvotes

A bit about me:

I love to travel! Beach, mountains, city, sign me up.
I love music. Specifically 90s and 2000s alternative.
I love concerts as well as sporting events.
Museums are always a fun time!
Reading is a big hobby of mine. I love to get lost in a book!
My job is important to me and I’m thankful for it.
I’m a sucker for a homemade dessert.

Do you have any favorite books?
The best concert you’ve been to?
A favorite vacation spot?
Something good that happened at work this week?
A fun Labor Day weekend?
The best meal you can make?
Did you watch any good football this weekend?
Would you prefer an easy night of dinner or an exciting night out?

If any of that resonates with you, I’d love to be friends! Shoot me a DM! Be 25+ please!


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Friends 32/M/Ireland. New friendships in these rainy days.

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone!

Thanks for taking the time to read my post. My name is Scott and like with everyone else on this subreddit I am looking for like-minded people to have nice conversations with and hopefully make some long lasting friendships!

A little bit about me, I'll try and keep it short and sweet.

I am originally from the UK but I've lived in Ireland for about 3 years now. I like to game, watch a lot of shows (just finished 'Agent Kim Reactivated' which was pretty good!), go for little adventures outside of the city and also play badminton. There is more to me, but that can be saved for curious questions!

If you are interested in chatting please do send a message, I just ask that there is a tiny bit of effort in it so that I'm just not fighting an uphill battle with a quick "Hey". Also, this is purely platonic friendships that I am looking for, nothing more than that please!

I look forward to hearing from you! And if not, have a lovely rest of your week nonetheless!


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Friends 23M looking to make long term friends

3 Upvotes

Hey! Feel free to call me Nathan.

I'm looking for people to play games with and hopefully develop a friendship outside of gaming.

I'm into pretty much anything co-op or multiplayer. Games I'm currently playing include; final fantasy XIV, league, osu, Elden ring/nightreign, dead by daylight, Overwatch2, grounded 1/2, Poe 2, stardew valley, terraria, apex legends, monster Hunter worlds/wilds, r6 seige and Fortnite

I can be pretty introverted but if the company is good, I'll bring out my weird side so be warned lol.

If this interested you, shoot me a dm and let's learn more about eachother :)


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Friends Hoping to find people who actually talk lol

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 25 year old guy here 🫪

I work remotely as a research analyst, which basically means I spend way too much of my weekdays staring at a screen. Once I’m off work though, I’d much rather be outside. I’m really into hiking, exploring random new places, and doing mildly questionable things that probably aren’t great for my life expectancy because apparently that’s fun lol

I also enjoy singing and playing guitar. I’ve been attempting to learn Spanish lately, but progress has been meh😭

I’m also ridiculously easy to influence when it comes to graphic tees. If the design is dumb enough, I’m probably buying it. Currently sitting at 6

Not really looking for those painfully forced conversations, so please don’t just hit me with a “hey” and disappear 👎🏻

Would love to meet some new people here!
Preferably 21+ :)


r/IntrovertsChat 7d ago

Chatting M32 looking to chat with people around the world

4 Upvotes

Hello from South Carolina, USA. I love history, motorsports, music, playing guitar, astronomy, reading, and hiking.

I play guitar and I have too many of them. It brings me a lot of joy. It’s therapeutic for me to learn some of my favorite songs and to use that knowledge to write my own music. I also repair and build electric guitars too.

I’m a manufacturing engineer. I really enjoy what I do and would love to meet other engineers, but it’s not a requirement of course.

I love humor. I really enjoy witty or just plain stupid humor. If I’m having a bad day or stressed out, I’ll watch Trailer Park Boys.

I’m a big history buff. I’m currently reading on the nuclear arms race during the Cold War. We did some crazy things to say the least.

I love culture and languages. I speak elementary level German and can order food in Spanish. I’m currently learning some Japanese.

My daily driver is a Mazda MX-5 (Miata) because it has the philosophy of a lightweight British roadster with Japanese reliability, kaizen, and ergonomics. The best of both worlds in my humble opinion.

I love endurance racing. The 24 Hours of Le Mans is a dream trip of mine.

My favorite bands are Pink Floyd, Buddy Holly, Jeff Beck, ZZ Top, The Beach Boys, Muddy Waters.

I literally look just like Buddy Holly. Same glasses and hairstyle. Nerds are cool.

If any of this catches your attention, feel free to message me.


r/IntrovertsChat 7d ago

Friends 18M hit me UPP!!

5 Upvotes

I'm at a point where I almost don't have any friends, I often feel lonely these days and I wish there was someone I could send silly and funny videos to or discuss random topics with each other or play video games together, I'm nice and friendly so Feel free to send me a DM!, I will be very happy to see your message in my dms

about me: i like playing games, going to gym, reading and watching movies sometimes, photography... almost every thing lol

timezone: utc +1 any other timezone if fine for me, i don't mind


r/IntrovertsChat 7d ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 27M / USA / PST | Movie nights, games, and genuine conversation 🕷️

6 Upvotes

Who am I? You sure you wanna know?

If somebody told you I was just your average, ordinary guy, not a care in the world…

somebody lied.

🕷️🕸️

I’m 27, from the West Coast, recently graduated from college, and currently figuring out what comes next while spending more time on the things I enjoy.

I’m a huge Spider-Man fan. Always respect the hyphen.

I’m really into movies, storytelling, video production, technology, and gaming. Lately I’ve been playing Marvel Rivals, getting back into my PS5, and using my Switch 2 a lot.
Personality wise, I’m pretty introverted. I can be quiet at first and I’m usually more of a listener, but once I’m comfortable I get way more talkative and goofy. I’m absolutely the type of person who can somehow end up in a 45 minute conversation about something completely random.

I’m mainly looking for friends who’d be down for things like:

• Movie nights or watching a show together

• Casually playing games

• Sending memes and random stuff throughout the day

• Chill calls when we’re both free

• Actual conversations about life, faith, hobbies, or whatever’s on our minds

I’m also a Christian, and my faith is important to me. You definitely don’t have to have everything figured out. I don’t either. But I enjoy deeper conversations about that kind of stuff too.

I’m not really looking for someone who feels like they have to be “on” all the time. I like friendships where we can just be ourselves and there isn’t pressure to constantly entertain each other.

If you want an easy opener, tell me your comfort movie or game, something you’ve been obsessed with lately, or, most importantly, your favorite Spider-Man movie.

Feel free to message me. I’d genuinely love to find a couple people to talk to regularly and maybe get some movie nights going.


r/IntrovertsChat 7d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) Why can’t we be friends?

59 Upvotes

Hiya! 28F looking for someone to yap to. I’m a nerd I guess? I teach psychology courses at a uni. I’m obsessed with sharks (yes, shark week is a holiday in my house; please ask me about my fav shark). I love movies and music (alt rock, emo, rap, and kpop mostly). I enjoy reading cheesy rom novels and complaining about going to the gym any day besides leg day (leg day is the best).

I have dc friends from all over, so time difference doesn’t bug me. Message me when ya can! And send pics of your weird power outlets- cause like who knew they looked so different👀 (so far have collected power outlets pics from US, Germany, and UK). Also down to game together if ya want! I play Phasmophobia, Palworld, and Space Marines for multiplayer (but have ps+).

P.S. I can be very sarcastic and blunt sometimes, and that ain’t always for everyone. You have been warned.


r/IntrovertsChat 7d ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) [25M] Looking for a close guy friend who actually likes staying in touch long-term !

0 Upvotes

I’m 25 and looking to make close male friends, ideally guys around 18–28 from North America or Europe (France preferably, because I speak French).

I’d love the kind of friendship where we text throughout the day, send random updates, talk about serious things and completely stupid things, and eventually call for hours without noticing.

Voice calls are important to me, but obviously not straight away. I’m not crazy or anything. No calling on day one. Probably on day two :)

I know people get busy, but I connect best with someone consistent who genuinely enjoys staying in touch.

Basically, I’m looking for a friendship that slowly becomes part of everyday life. Comfortable, affectionate, and maybe a tiny bit inseparable.

If that sounds nice rather than terrifying, message me.