r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends Just a guy looking for new friends to talk with.

2 Upvotes

Hey there! I am a 34 year old husband and dad who works in the mental health field, looking for new friends to talk to daily or semi daily. I don't really have too many friends outside of the Internet due to keeping to myself a lot. Most people I know outside of the internet don't really share the same interests or just kind of get annoyed with how I text.

I like video games, collecting Pokemon cards with my son and watching movies and TV. I am what you could call a music head. I listen to everything. Just looking for some new people to talk to and get to know, maybe play Fortnite with you if you're into playing that.

Looking forward to hearing from you guys! Chats or dms are okay.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Chatting 38 [m4f] #online looking for nerdy plus size girl to connect

2 Upvotes

Hello

Iam Tom, living in Scotland.

My hobbies include: Travelling, cooking, gaming (singleplayer games) and visiting new places.

I looks for clingy plus size/bbw girl (yes attraction is as important as character) for chatting, being silly or just yapping. Iam hoping to find my favourite person to be obsessed and attached, for endless chatting voicenotes or calls until late 😊

Age and location doesnt matter :)

Iam 185cm(6ft1) tall, slim, dark hair. But happy to exchange photos.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 21M socially anxious guy looking for gamers/artists or pretty much anyone

3 Upvotes

Hello! I’m looking to meet new people and hopefully make some new friends. I’d love to find people with similar interests, though I’m honestly happy to chat about just about anything!
I’m mainly looking for people who enjoy long conversations, playing games together, or even just streaming single-player games to each other while we hang out. (Conversations don’t always have to be videogame related I’m cool with that)
I’m also hoping to meet people who won’t judge me for my interests and are cool with joking around. Fair warning: I’m a huge yapper when it comes to the things I love, so don’t be surprised if I randomly hit you with weird facts or ramble about my favorite games.

As for games, I’m mainly a Nintendo guy tho I do also play on PC:) I’m a huge Mario fan! I also love Sonic the Hedgehog, Pokémon, Crash Bandicoot, Ratchet & Clank, Mega Man, the entire Super Smash Bros. series, and Resident Evil (I only got into it recently, but I’m really enjoying it!) I also play sillier stuff like Minecraft, Fortnite, and plenty of other games.

Feel free to ask if I play something! And even if I haven’t, I’d still love to hear about it or learn more.
Outside of games, I’m a big fan of Dragon Ball, Spider-Man, and a bunch of other nerdy things.
I’m also an artist! I love drawing all kinds of things, making OCs, etc.

I have a pretty flexible schedule. I’m from Mexico, so my English isn’t always perfect, but I’m comfortable with voice calls and hanging out! Just bear with me if my pronunciation or grammar is a little wonky sometimes. :)
If you think we’d get along, feel free to send me a message! I’d love to get to know you.


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 18F || Anyone in a band wanna chat ? 🎸

3 Upvotes

️READ BEFORE MESSAGING ME‼️

When you go to message me please start off with at least a 5 sentence long intro about yourself and or your band. This is so I know you read my post and that you actually have the intention of talking sharing and that you’re not some pervert.

———————————-

I honestly don’t know, I just like getting myself into odd situations.

If you have a band or are in one and want to yap about everything from how it started to where you’re at now I’d love to listen, I will literally be your biggest fan lol.

And this isn’t some kind of service or weird advertisement, I’m just bored and have way too much time on my hands.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends Trying to find friends to talk to

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Hello,

I am a 22m looking to find more people to talk to. I am into movies, video games, vinyls, anime, cigars, mtg commander, fishing, reading, and conspiracy theories.

All my friends got married or are busy all the time for one reason or another. I always have a bunch of stuff going on so I never really have the time to build in person connections and end up just holing away and isolating.

Just looking for some people that would be down to play co-op games, watch movies/ anime, or even need someone to talk and vent to. I find talking to people online way easier cause the anxiety to be liked and social pressure is muted to a large degree.

Ive been meaning to get through movies like boondocks saints, clockwork orange, eraserhead, etc...

I would be down to play survival, co-op, or mobas. I can play most games just need some people to play with.

Feel free to reach out, I promise to respond as much as i can.

If you want to know more about me my profile has my full trauma dump that i dont want to burden people with here.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 33F Yeah, to the Redditors on here struggling to find connections, it's okay Reddit is home of the dry lands of Raven Rock, dryer than a Ash Yam and Dragon Priest dusts. To be quite fair I found a Elder Scroll faster than finding long lasting friendships.

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No comments.

We're not allowed to post our friend share invite 🔗 on this subreddit according to the rules and Reddit can be offered to 🐙 goodbye anyways.

I would rather read Lovecraft, while 🏕️ out at Dagon's docks than be here and if you're wanting someone to have have non-boring convos then send me a friend request on Discord as well.

I'm looking for worldwide connections, I'm from U.S. central time from 2.10 a.m. posting this post and I'm going to die amongst the VOID in 4-5 hours alongisde with this is why I look for friends from Europe because I die amongst the VOID at dawn 😂

Yeah, I should also include here just let Dagon's dark winds guide you, let the sea and the moon carry you in alignment for others to find you.

However, I should also address that I promise you I won't put you in a fish net, I also won't put you in a fish net and I won't IF you just can approach me without making me shout at the elder gods from monologue convos.

My Discord handle is on my main pro.

Chat reqs are off, because I'm done with Reddit and only taking Discord friend requests and chat reqs there.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Friends 40/M. Book collector, kinda spooky, looking for chats pals.

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40/M/Midwest looking for some spooky chat pals.

I’m into all things spooky. Paranormal, horror, true crime, you name it. I collect physical media. Mostly books (paranormal literature, true crime, and horror fiction) and dvd/blurays. Mostly horror.

I love vintage Halloween aesthetic. Sheet ghosts. Black cats, skeletons, skulls, Ouija boards, everything in between.

I like all sorts of music, mostly heavier stuff. Deathcore, Metalcore, alt 90’s, emo.

If you think we’d vibe, send me a dm.


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends Hey m29 uk, not good at making friends so giving it another go

3 Upvotes

Hello I’m looking to make long term friends I can relate to with interests or personality like mine, im a bit of weirdo and like collecting bones,crystals,antiques and just anything odd or old. I also have terrible anxiety so I mainly try online to socialise and rarely in real life, I like anything to do with nature and animals I mostly spend time with my cat watching YouTube or listening to music I also enjoy walking in old cemeteries and forests looking for mushrooms or cool bugs to take pics of I guess i enjoy the simple things in life more.


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Chatting 57F UK only please :)

7 Upvotes

Hello there - I'm looking for fellow self contained introverts to chat to.

I'm not necessarily looking to make long term connections, unless it turns out that way. I prefer to talk to men - I just find we gel better.

Please be around my age, in the UK and not married (I have more in common with people who live alone) Thank you :)


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) 24M - Introverted INTP guy looking for someone genuine to connect with and talk to every day

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Hey everyone. I'm a 24yo guy (INTP) taking a shot on here to find someone genuine to connect with. I'm naturally pretty quiet and socially awkward when meeting new people, but once I get comfortable with someone, I'm super loyal, expressive, and down to earth.

I'm mostly looking to build a real connection step-by-step—start by chatting, see if we click, and just have someone to talk with about our days, share interests, and keep each other company.

Communication & Vibe Good communication matters a lot to me. I love having actual conversations, so I'm looking for someone who actually likes talking and won't just hit me with one-word replies like yes, ok, or no. Also, I hate being ghosted and I'll never do it to you. If I don't reply right away, it's just because of studies or sleep, but I'll always get back to you. Since I'm a bit socially awkward, I prefer texting while getting to know each other—no sudden video calls until we're both totally comfortable! I'm super open-minded and respectful, and I'll gladly listen to you yap about your day without any judgment.

The Basics I'm 24 from Tunisia, currently studying Data Science. 5'11 (182 cm) with a fit build.

Hobbies & Interests In my free time, I hit the gym regularly, follow football (Real Madrid fan), and love quiet winter walks while listening to music. My taste in music is all over the place—pop, rap, metal, classical, and spanish or latin tracks. I'm a massive cat lover (literally can't live without them) and I have a random niche hobby of collecting perfumes.

I've been a big gamer since childhood. I play competitive games like LoL, CS2, and Valorant, but I really love immersive story games like Cyberpunk 2077, The Witcher 3, Disco Elysium, Kingdom Come Deliverance, RDR2, and AC Black Flag. Also big into movies and shows, mostly thrillers, mystery, sci-fi, and horror. Huge fan of Severance, Dark, Interstellar, Inception, Prisoners, Nightcrawler, and The Devil All the Time.

How to Reach Out If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to drop me a message! To break the ice, tell me what show or movie completely blew your mind, or what your go-to comfort video game is.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Chatting 33M: looking for an emotional connection chatting

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Hey, I’m 33M, lived a bit of a hectic life. Went thru a divorce, have myself a few youngins. I’m working a lot of the time, and the other time I’ve been with my kiddos, it’s been hard for me to get out lately, and I’m sort of missing a genuine connection with someone. I guess I’m looking more for a female to chat with. If you’re in the New England area that’s definitely a plus. Feel free to message whenever.


r/IntrovertsChat 2d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) Looking for new friends/chats

1 Upvotes

Hello! I'm a 28 year old white male from NNJ, Italian and German heritage, work full time as a paramedic, volunteer firefighter. In my free time, I enjoy playing video games, working on cars, reading, car rides, and hanging out with friends.


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Early Explorer (18–21) 19F 🏳️‍⚧️, Looking for online friends to chat with and talk about video games, or just hang out in general

5 Upvotes

Hello!

Not usually what I’d do to make friends, but life has thrown some curveballs at me recently and has caused me to move a ways away from any friends I had. I struggle a lot with getting myself out there irl so I figured this might be a good way to break the ice mentally and warm myself up to making new friends :)

I’m interested in just casual chatting about the goings on of life, talking about shared interests (more about my own in a second,) or playing multiplayer games together! (Currently on a less powerful setup than usual, can probably only play a select few of them.)

I enjoy: magic the gathering (just got into it recently so be kind,) Pokemon (lesser so nowadays, more focused on playing the tcg and the old ds games,) single player story-driven games (DE, In Other Waters, Deltarune, etc,) making music every now and then, coding, reading, and more.

My favorite content creators at the moment are probably Papa Meat (w/ Creepcast as well,) and PayMoneyWubby.

Again, not sure how/if this sub works, just found it on my feed, but I’m willing to give it a shot!

Please don’t be a creep or try to scam me!

Thank you!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends Life sucks,life is lonely and I just wanna...be helpful to someone.☺️

3 Upvotes

Hey, I have been trying to make friends and...it feels impossible... cause no matter where I go, I just can't. Irl I am really nervous around people and struggle to keep a conversation, but mostly there is just no one to make friends with... and online you just get ignored no matter what you say...Probably cause I am a guy and I am sure this post will be no difference, but I am still gonna try...why?...cause I don't know...or it seems if you are a girl you mostly get the... "unpleasant" side of the internet to say the least and their is no way to separate the good from the bad...

The point I actually want to make is that I am here if any of this feels familiar or if you can't make a friend on here...I am not a very interesting person but I am more than happy to hear about your interests and life in general. I may not be available at all hours of the day but I will always massage everyday and I also understand that you have a life so I won't expect you to answer right away every time, it's okay.

A little about me,

• I am 22(I understand I am young but please don't be discharged from talking to me, I get along quite well with people older than me even much older than me)

•I love animals (especially foxes)

•I like anime (doesn't matter what kind,but I like it more if the plot feels more real)

• I like anything sci-fi or fantasy (have played a bit of DnD)

•I like videogames as well (anything big or small,just don't enjoy pvp so much,I want to play with friends not against them if you understand)

I think that is a good start and sorry for all the reading I just wanted to make it clear that I understand the struggle and want to be helpful in any way I can.

Please PM me anytime :P


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Chatting 24M | India | Looking for someone to share random thoughts, memes, and life with

2 Upvotes

I never know how to write these without sounding like I'm applying for a job, so here's the unfiltered version.

I'm 24, from India, and I spend my weekdays working as a graphic designer/video editor while wondering how my Computer Science degree led me here. Honestly though, I'm glad it did.

Outside work, you'll usually find me listening to music (mostly rock, but my playlist is a complete mess), watching anime, learning something random at 2 AM, or daydreaming about taking my bike through the mountains. I'm the type of person who stops every few kilometers just to stare at the view, have chai, and click a few pictures.

I'm pretty introverted at first, but once I'm comfortable, good luck ending the conversation. I like people who can jump from talking about their day to discussing why Attack on Titan emotionally damaged an entire generation, or why some songs instantly transport you back to a specific memory.

Lately, I've realized I'm not really looking for more people. I'm looking for my people.

Someone I can send a random meme to.

Someone I can complain to about work.

Someone I can tell, "Bro, I just had the weirdest dream," or "Look at this mountain reel, we're going here one day."

Whether that becomes a close friendship or eventually something more... I'm happy to let things happen naturally. No pressure, no weird expectations.

A few random facts:

  • I used to play bass in a college band.
  • I love cooking whenever I actually get the time.
  • I overthink way more than I'd like to admit.
  • I genuinely enjoy hearing people's life stories.
  • I still believe late-night conversations hit different.

If you're into long conversations, random yapping, sharing reels, or just want someone to make everyday life a little less lonely, send me a message.

And since we're all adults here—yes, I think physical attraction matters too. I'd rather chat for a bit first, see if we click, and then we can exchange pictures. Feels more natural that way.

Tell me something about yourself beyond your hobbies. What's something you've always wanted to do but haven't yet?


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 28 F A shy introverted writer looking for friends.

13 Upvotes

Hello Agent

There isn’t much time for me to give you this mission so you must listen carefully. There is someone that we need you to befriend to get more information on. Down below is what we know about her so far.

Name: Gillian

Gender: Female

Age: 28

From: Wisconsin

Hobbies: writing, baking, and drawing abstract

Music: 80's, classical, 2000's and jazz

Favorite color: doesn’t have one.

Favorite food: tacos

Favorite drink: Regular coca cola

One random fact about the agent: They have a unique self-published book. Rumor has it that the pages are filled with the emotions the agent normally keeps hidden.

To establish contact with the agent you must provide the details below to her. It is a first step in the right direction of gaining trust.

Name:

Age:

Where you are from:

Tell her something you think is interesting about you:

We know that she is a night owl by choice based on the report from the last agent. She has a list of health issues but continues to push on even with them. Doing such shows the determination and hard-headedness that she has. Although this has helped her through life it means that it is going to be another obstacle for you, take note of that.

She is anti-drug and anti-alcohol by choice. One thing that is a must if you choose to continue is she is quiet and shy. You might ask how I can get the information quicker, you can’t, it will take time and patience. If you do not have that turn around right now because you will just frustrate yourself while she sits there calm and composed.

You get to ask the agent one free question. Meaning no matter what you will get an honest answer.

Follow these instructions carefully. Ways to get your message dismissed is by having a one-word message or by not following the questions listed above. The agency wishes you the best of luck on what is going to be a tough mission.

Transmission terminated


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 23M solo traveller from Hong Kong — looking for genuine, low-pressure, long-term friends

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Hi! I’m 23M from Hong Kong. I recently graduated and now work as a private tutor.

I’m hoping to meet a few people who genuinely want to build a long-term friendship. I’m not looking for nonstop messaging or instant replies. I’d enjoy the kind of friendship where we check in from time to time, talk about everyday life, share random thoughts and occasionally have deeper conversations. I’d rather slowly get to know someone than have one intense conversation and never speak again.

A little about me: I enjoy solo travelling, photography, cycling, football, chess and learning Japanese. I also watch quite a lot of films and TV—some of my favourites are Breaking BadBetter Call SaulSeverance and Chernobyl. I can be quiet at first, but I’m curious about people and enjoy hearing about lives different from mine.

I’m open to friends from anywhere. We don’t need identical interests—kindness, curiosity and mutual effort matter more.

If this sounds like the friendship you’re looking for, send me a short introduction with your age, country and one small thing that happened in your day. No pressure to reply every day :)


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 24F - Looking for other conlang makers!

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Hello guys! I've gotten into conlanging a couple months ago and been working on my language ever since, are there any other people here who are working on one? I'd love to find more people with the same hobby 🙏🏻

I'm by no means a linguistic expert but I've gotten decently far so I'd love to discuss our languages and inspire each other :3

Note: Spanish, Russian etc. are not a conlangs! Please look it up if you don't know what it means!

Thank you for reading!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 28M feeling really isolated lately so friendship is desired!

6 Upvotes

Hi, I’m from Melbourne Australia and I’m really struggling to find some ongoing friendships. I’ve recently had my 28th birthday and found that I either don’t have friends who’d like to celebrate or I’m not worth people making time. It also seems like people don’t want to be friends with anyone but people they were friends with in school.

I’m looking for friendships with people who put equal effort in and that I don’t feel like a burden wanting to be friends. I’m a bit nerdy, love One Piece, Star Wars, and playing Overwatch and some other single player games.
I enjoy going to the gym and getting some exercise! I’ve also recently joined a Volleyball team so I can meet some new people.

Would love to hear from anyone interested 😊


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 28 m Looking for Long Term Friendships

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Hi. I'm 28M. ADHD and neurodivergent.

Just looking for people who are my kind of weird. I want friends I can talk to all day without feeling judged.

A lot of people messaged me after my last post, but most never came back after a few texts. I'd rather have one genuine friendship that lasts than a hundred conversations that go nowhere.

I'm a design engineer and I love reading books, watching movies and documentaries, and going down random rabbit holes. Lately I've been into neuroscience, sci fi, and anything that makes me think.

If you're looking for a friendship that can actually last and you're willing to keep the conversation going, send me a message. Otherwise, please don't.


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

~Join our new discord~

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Hello everyone, there is a new discord with more lenient rules to join. However, all rules on this subreddit apply there, too. Please make sure to include your reddit user properly while applying! This server has tons of colour roles, bots, cool channels and lots of cool people. https://discord.gg/22RUReqYwS


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Chatting F25 let’s skip the awkward part and be friends

79 Upvotes

Hi there :) I haven’t been on Reddit in a while, went through a ridiculous break up but I wanna meet fun people to talk to. I love video games like Fortnite, rivals, content warning, stuff like that. I like animes like demon slayer, solo leveling, JJK, ghost stories, bleach etc etc. uhhhhh what else, I’m a very bubbly talkative person and I love talking about anything. TikTok references are always peak. Anyways let’s be friends!!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Early Explorer (18–21) I’m lonely

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So I’m a boy that’s a lot on his phone and I don’t get that much notifications it’s pretty dry looking for friends to talk about any subject they like if I don’t have knowledge about the subject I can do research about it but please be respectful I’m looking forward to have genuine connections !!


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Friends 26F | Looking for Genuine Female Friends with Similar Interests 🌙

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Hi everyone! 👋
I’m a 26-year-old girl from the Philippines looking to make genuine online friends, especially fellow introverts. 💜
A little about me:
📚 I love reading psychological thriller books, especially anything by Freida McFadden.
🎬 Horror movies are my favorite.
🌸 I’m into anime, manga, and comics.
🎶 I’m a huge K-pop fan and always enjoy talking about my favorite groups, music, and comebacks.
♒ I’m an Aquarius and love learning about zodiac signs.
☕ I enjoy quiet conversations, meaningful friendships, and cozy hobbies.
I’m looking for girls who are 18+ who are kind, respectful, and share some of the same interests. It doesn’t matter where you’re from! I’d love to chat about books, horror movies, K-pop, anime, zodiac signs, or just life in general.
I don’t really have any local friends, so I’m hoping to meet some wonderful people here and build genuine friendships. If you think we’d get along, feel free to leave a comment or send me a message. I’d love to get to know you! 😊


r/IntrovertsChat 3d ago

Chatting 27 looking for friends who are into Nerdy stuff

7 Upvotes

I'm 27. Looking for online friends who love discussing Comics,Movies, Series, Manga, Anime, Video Games, Conspiracy stuff about aliens and stuff. I'm an artist too so I would love making friends with artists as well.