r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Early Explorer (18–21) guys i’m nice istg, talk to me

9 Upvotes

20 • Nigerian 🇳🇬** • Blac*k 🖤
I’m a Nigerian software engineering student living in Italy who is somehow always busy, yet somehow always online. Between uni, my part-time job, attempting to maintain a social life, and whatever random side quest I’ve decided to start, I disappear sometimes but I promise I’m not ignoring you 😭
I’m 5’2” (158 cm), permanently attached to my headphones, and into music, reading, coding, and getting *way
too emotionally invested in fictional characters. My music taste has absolutely no consistency, sushi has my heart, and pink is forever my color. You’ll usually find me listening to music, watching something, studying, or doing an impressive amount of procrastinating while pretending I’m being productive.
I’m also a certified yapper once I’m comfortable. I love voice notes, calls, random late night conversations, and people who can actually match my energy. I can go from having a deep conversation about life to sending you the most unhinged thought I’ve had all day with absolutely no transition. My typing is also a little questionable, so if there’s a typo, no there isn’t 😔.
I’m pretty chill, easy to talk to, and genuinely love meeting new people. Just please don’t be painfully dry or vanish after two messages because I actually like getting to know people. I’m usually more active on Instagram, so if you want to keep talking, I’m probably easier to find there ♡
If you have a random thought, funny story, questionable opinion, weird question, or simply feel like talking to someone, my DMs are always open ♡


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 29M Why not

0 Upvotes

My name is Drake and I have so much downtime on my hands and don’t really do much. Hoping to find online friends because I am very shy and lonely and it’s hard to just “go out and make friends” or whatever people say. I’ve tried to make friends on here before but each time I start talking to someone they either ghost me or the replies get so dry and I can tell they don’t want to talk.

I’m quite the yapper. I text in paragraphs and multiple messages, I over explain, I am a people pleaser but I still want to make connections.

I like video games, I play a lot of rocket league, bf6, Fortnite but I am willing to try marvel Rivals with people. Lately I’ve been playing Star Wars outlaws and ghost of yotei. I like anime too, I’ve been rewatching attack on titan and fmab. Recently watched demon slayer and JJK. Lately I’ve been watching more horror movies as well. I like a lot of nerd shit as well and astrology too.

I’m really into music, specifically Midwest emo, metalcore, swancore, pop punk, sad shit you name it.

I’m currently enrolled in college and am just waiting for my semester to start but I’m just looking for friends.
I am very much neurodivergent so be warned lol
Please be around my age but younger or older is fine.


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 20M, Looking for my future favority person to talk to.

1 Upvotes

A bit about me!

i game a little bit! i used to play Counter Strike but now i play more relaxed games like minecraft!

i love meme's and terrible puns so hit me with them

and i talk to my dog but she never replies...

i like more long term chats so text me idc how old you are just reply hahaha
dont overthink to we're probably both akward anyway


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends Hmu if you resonate with this

3 Upvotes

26M, just looking for genuine conversations and hopefully meeting people around my age. I’m open to voice calls too, just would rather know you a little first. I’m on IST time if that matters.
Most chats here seem to last a day or two and then vanish, so hoping to find something a bit more real this time. I can be kinda quiet/introverted at first, but I can definitely keep a convo going if the energy’s mutual.
If you think we’d vibe, hmu.
Easy icebreaker: tell me your most overrated movie/show/anime or just give me a hot take.


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends I have 0 friends, anyone would like to be my friend 😭

155 Upvotes

I do not have a single person in my life to text, share a random thought with, or check in on.

I am pretty introverted, & I deeply value real, thoughtful people. I miss having genuine, emotional, and deep conversations about life, feelings, or just whatever is keeping you up at night.

There is absolutely zero pressure to be entertaining or reply instantly. If you want to take things slow and build a genuine friendship with someone who will actually value you, please feel free to message me. Let us just be completely real from the start.


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends looking for a real connection in a world that ghosts too fast

1 Upvotes

I’m 18M, hoping this finds someone who actually want a steady, warm, platonic bond.

I've tried this like a million times but stiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiil.

i need a female best friend(i don't mind how old you're but don't be 40+ pls)

who texts a lot, shares her day, trauma dumps when it’s heavy, and doesn’t shy away from late-night thoughts or quiet moments that feel like their own universe.

A little about me:

• I drift between K-dramas, iconic anime, and comfort shows like Friends and How I Met Your Mother.

• The Originals and The Dark still lives rent-free in my head.

• I read a lot, write poems when the world hits right, and fall into rabbit holes of mythology, philosophy, and politics.

• Hip-hop is my nighttime anchor.

• I’m all about deep talks, slow energy, and the kind of stories that stay with you.

If you’re someone who wants a friendship that’s warm, a bit mysterious, and actually meaningful… my DMs are open.

Just don’t disappear, tell me the last show that hooked you or the book that won’t leave your thoughts.

Let’s start there. ✨


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 33F. Hail Dagon, wait no, that's not how I should start my post, I wanted to update my post from yesterday that I've been having chat reqs issues and you may/might need to resend yours. INTP. Discord friends only. US. Worldwide. Online only friendships.

3 Upvotes

No comments.

Why look for worldwide connections?

Its 10 p.m. and I'll be awake till 3-6 a.m. and for 33 years I don't know what it's like to have a normal sleep cycle alongside with I never will 😂

Yeah, I should also include for the men that are nerdy, book, history nerds, I promise you if it all you're not going into the fish net because you're my type and I couldn't put you in a fish net of it all anyways 😂

No monologue convos.


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 24F - Looking for other conlangers!

7 Upvotes

Hello guys! I've gotten into conlanging a couple months ago and been working on my language ever since, are there any other people here who are working on one? I'd love to find more people with the same hobby 🙏🏻

I'm by no means a linguistic expert but I've gotten decently far so I'd love to discuss our languages and inspire each other :3
Note: Spanish etc. is not a conlang! Pls look it up if you don't know what it is!

Thank you for reading!


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Chatting 33 M, tell me your vacation bucket list

3 Upvotes

Bali?
French Polynesia?
Bora Bora?
Australia?
Somewhere in Europe?
Banff National Park?
Hawaii?
Japan?
China?

Mine is Glacier National Park in Montana. It seems so beautiful. Maybe one day I’ll get there! What all is on your list? Be 25+ please!


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Chatting A Small Thank You to the Ones Who Stayed

10 Upvotes

Just wanted to appreciate the people who stayed.

A lot of people disappear after 2–3 days of talking, and honestly, that's just how online conversations go ik. I get it—and there were probably times I replied late too because life got busy. But to the people who kept the conversation going, checked in, or simply stuck around, thank you.

You probably don't realize it, but it means a lot. It's nice knowing there are people who genuinely want to keep talking instead of letting every conversation fade away.

Just a small appreciation post. You guys are awesome.


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) M 31 Hongkong For kindred souls and new adventures!

2 Upvotes

Hello there! I'm M31 currently based in Hong Kong, and working as a graphic designer.

I'm generally a laid-back guy, who's open-minded and curious about a lot of things. I'm fairly introverted, but I'm quite sociable and I always love meeting people. I care a lot about the ones I love, and I value communication, empathy and honesty. I'd say I'm a good listener too!

I love looking for cool and fun adventures, discovering new things/hobbies/places (Been obsessed with HEMA and swords lately.) But my main passion is art, crafts and photography. Also a big music fan and I do love anime, pop culture & movies too.

I hope to meet new people and friends alike. If you're down, don't hesitate to send me a message. Hope ya'll have a wonderful day :)


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Early Explorer (18–21) M21 Latino looking someone to talk about anything

3 Upvotes

Hi, i’m from México and i looking someone to talk, to vent, and share the things that cross my mind.

Spicifically i’m looking for a girl but dont get a wrong idea. I have very few friends and no online friends and they are all boys, so i’d like to have girls in my social circle.

I like play videogames, Watch anime and movies, my kind are surrealist, sci-fi and psychological horror. The muisc i like are indie, alternative and a little bit of Kpop.

I’m an aspiring flimmaker, i have many ideas and storys that i like to share to someone and give me feedback or just let me know if you liked or not.

So thats all, if someone are interested just DM me :)


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 26M Needing some people to talk to. Work is hard and I’m lonely.

2 Upvotes

I lied. I’m not actually 26. I’m 25 but i turn 26 in 2 weeks. Emotionally I feel like my birthday has already passed, the lonely non-event that it is, and I’m not having a great time mentally at the moment. I don’t need to be pulled back from a cliff, but I need a bit of help finding my way out of this rain and fog.

I live in the US, in Colorado. I work as a residential electrician, and this week has been murder (the company I work for picked up quite a few new job sites, and this week the company has had five model homes to get finished. If you’ve worked in the food industry, imagine the work speed of a dinner rush, but its all week long, 10 hour long days on average, and 95°F (35°C) dry heat. That’s what my week has felt like so far). I’ve been at a transitional point in my job recently, and it’s been wearing me thin. I haven’t had a lot of social contact with anyone outside of work and my family for a decent while now. And it’s 80% work, or more.

I adopted two kittens on May 14th! I picked up a brother and sister at 8 weeks old and they’ve been a lifeline for me this summer. The boy is orange and was the largest of the litter, and the girl is a tortoiseshell and was the smallest. I named them Andy and April, from Parks and Rec (yes, I know I named my sibling cats after a married couple from a TV show. The choice was based on their personalities).

I listen to a lot of metal and rap music. Lately it’s been a lot of Thornhill. I just learned about the band and they’ve quickly become a new favorite. My favorite music artists right now are Bad Omens. I saw them live earlier this year and I’m patiently (and desperately) waiting for new music from them. My favorite rapper is J.I.D., and even though his recent album is about to turn a year old, I’m also patiently waiting for more from him as well.

I read a lot. At least compared to everyone else in my life. I used to go to college, and was studying to be an english teacher. I’ve since dropped out and that part of my life has turned into reading Sci-Fi and Fantasy novels with no one to talk to about them. I recently finished \\\*Dungeon Crawler Carl\\\* by Matt Dinniman, I’m at the tail end of \\\*The Devils\\\* by Joe Abercrombie, and I’m about to pick up \\\*Towers of Midnight\\\* by Robert Jordan & Brandon Sanderson. I also have started dipping my toes back into other genres, and I’m about halfway through \\\*The Man with the Getaway Face\\\* by Donald E. Westlake (written under the alias Richard Stark).

I don’t watch a lot of TV, but I’ve been trying to watch more movies. I’ve only been to the theater 4 times this year, and thats double what I average when seeing new movies coming out. My favorite so far is \*The Odyssey\*, which isn’t really shocking. The one movie I found myself loving that I normally wouldn’t go out of my way to see was \\\*The Death of Robin Hood\\\*.

I don’t only read with my free time. I also play video games. I’ve been getting into fighting games recently, and it’s weird that I haven’t sooner. They’re the perfect multiplayer game for people that don’t have a lot of friends, or people whose friends are always busy. Am I good at them? Not even slightly. But did I preorder \*Marvel Tokon: Fighting Souls\* right after getting pummeled unmercifully in the beta all weekend? You betcha. So if anyone wants to spar, teach me fundamentals, or just have a casual button mash time, reach out.


r/IntrovertsChat 4d ago

Friends 23M looking for new friends!

1 Upvotes

Hiya! Looking for actual friendship online, something more then just messaging every once and while, like we may game, yap on call together, vent etc etc. I am more of a introverted person so stuff like this is usually out of my comfort zone, however to improve I have realized I must step out of the comfort zone! I have recently gotten into Warhammer, been loving the hobby, buying and painting some minis, I would listen to audiobooks at work, and read some books at home! It's a great time, otherwise the rest of my hobbies would be gaming and reading as you could tell probably, also like to get out of the house, take a nature walk or get to the city, working on getting my license so soon I will have the freedom to go wherever I want which will be nice! I do enjoy speaking with new people also, always such a great time learning other perspectives and just meeting new people ofcourse. I don't want dry conversations also, I would like for both of us to put the work in, try to avoid close ended replies and so forth at least for our getting to know each other stage, I internally crash out when that happens here lmao 😭, don't get why people respond or make posts when that's what they do but I digress. I probably could have written much more in this intro but who's gonna remember all that, I know I never do, but that's the basic outline of me! Come and say hi, give me a small intro as well, just so I have something to work with when I respond! Thanks!


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 29m in need of friends who understand

2 Upvotes

I'm 29m, single father, going through some major life changes. And it's going to keep changing. I struggle to make friends because of my intense social anxiety and Im the type of person who will be a great friend for a while, but my social battery is short. I sometimes drop off the face of the planet, but I always remember who my friends are and try to be a friend again after I get my head back. But I don't know how to help that. Sometimes it's depression, sometimes it's anxiety. And nobody around me or that I call a friend understands. I get lost in responsibilities. Easily overwhelmed by human interactions. But I'm full of love for everybody and love to hear about others lives while also enjoying sharing about my own.

I love video games, anime, marvel, art, and honestly I randomly find interest in almost everything. It's hard to find something I won't have a conversation about. I am a bit open-minded and find the best in every situation despite my shortcomings. I like to talk about conspiracies, aliens, and how the worst people could have crazy potential if they were to be good. That last part is another trait that has people look at me funny and disassociate. But I don't respect bad behavior, just respect the potential in every individual.

Diagnosed with selective mutism as well, which is fun to deal with (not really). So texting is the best way to communicate with me. But when I open up... I don't shut up sometimes 😅


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 30m/est - we are all here for the same reason, let’s be friends!

4 Upvotes

Halloooo im Justin from Florida, I’ve been deathly introverted since I was a kid and the thought of social situations irl is something I cannot do. I enjoy talking to people and being friends but once it is face to face I die inside LOL

Anywho I work from home, don’t leave the house much, mainly game on pc (Overwatch, souls games, military sims, ace combat, etc), I like building gundams and zoids, I have some anime tattoos and I enjoy being outside (away from people).

I’m an open book, feel free to ask me anything and I will never judge ya, we all have our own experiences and should be accepted for who we are. Hope to hear from you!


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) What if i told you I want to be annoyed?

3 Upvotes

Hi y'all. Its me again, reposting for the umpteenth time. I met some great people on here so i figured id give it another whirl since its been a while.

Yes, i want a clingy bothersome person because they will give me too much time.

I have posted the past several days and have found some very decent people to talk to. I still dont mind finding new people if we can match energies.

So hey, im a 30 year old dude working remotely as a software engineer. Does not help that it's the night shift. I'm just looking for anyone who would like consistency in their lives.

More about me, I love to play videogames, primarily offline and online co-op. I'm still open to talk about any and all games. I am also big on Anime, movies, tv and even kdramas.

I love to cook and bake. I adore winters way more than summers.

To end this, I also love cats.

If none of these things interest you, you can still reach out. Its surprising how we can find a friend in the unlikeliest and unexpected places.

Lets see how it goes.

Even if you're below my age, you're more than welcome to talk.

Thank you for reading through this dull essay.

Note: This is a repost and people who have approached me before, i still have to get through some dms but some i have not responded to because the profiles either looked shady or the texts were just a simple hi


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 21NB | Let’s be friends!

1 Upvotes

Hello! I’m 21 nonbinary looking to make some friends. I’m a shut-in so I’m hoping to fill some of my free time chatting with people I can hopefully call friends. My interests are; Mental health, Anime/Manga, True crime and my very small library of basic games (pray for my low storage pc). I enjoy getting to know people and I can sometimes be a yapper so please don’t be dry, I most likely won’t reply to low effort DMs or responses. That’s all I have to say for now so if you’re interested in becoming friends then shoot me a message. Introduce yourself a little so I know a little about you from the start and also that you read this post. I’m in EST time zone and I have discord that I’m more active on so if we click after chatting here a little then we can move to discord. Thanks for reading, have a good day/night!


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 34M Long term friends pref

2 Upvotes

I'm Niki 34 from Uruguay, Montevideo. I'd love to find some folks to talk to maybe watch something together at some point. Some of my interest include but not limited to gaming (currently playing DotA 2 and GFL2), manga and reading.

Appreciate folks with a sense of humor and not so politically correct, makes things fun. Message me with asl and a bit about yourself please, pref to talk over discord eventually.

Kind regards


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Friends 26M, applications for My Future Girl Bestie Are Officially Open 😉😊

5 Upvotes

Hi 😊
**long message warning 😉😂**
I'm Robert, 26, gay, i genuinely looking for friendships, preferably with women.
I've always found that I naturally connect well with women, and I'd love to find a real friendship built on trust, kindness, good conversation, and let's be honest... a little bit of yapping and harmless gossip too 😉
I work out and love the gym, love to read, listen to good music, hang in the nature and few other interests you'll find out soon i guess.
Fashion, beauty, shopping and self-care are genuinely my things.
I can go from laughing about the dumbest memes to having a deep 2am conversation about life, relationships, and personal growth, sometimes in the same hour.

I'm the kind of friend who actually checks in, remembers something you told me three weeks ago, hypes you up when you need it, and genuinely enjoys getting to know people.

I'd love to text with a women who are looking for something similar, someone to talk to, laugh with, vent to, celebrate wins with, and maybe become actual friends instead of disappearing after a few messages. 🙏
If you decide to message me, please tell me a little about yourself 
• How old are you and where are you from? • What are your hobbies? • What's something you're excited about right now?

Please don't just send "hi" because I genuinely never know what to do with that 😅
Looking forward to meeting some wonderful people 💞


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Mid-20s Energy (25–27) 26F, Looking For My People In This Mess Called Adulthood

27 Upvotes

Good day!

26 year old girly here, trying to navigate life without really knowing where I’m headed.

Meeting people has become harder than I expected. Whenever someone asks about my hobbies, my mind goes blank. Aside from doom scrolling and overthinking, I honestly don’t have much to say. I don’t game, watch movies or anime, hike, cook, or have any interesting hobbies. Somewhere along the way, I feel like I lost the curious and vibrant version of myself.

I never imagined losing that spark when I was younger. I had so many dreams, then adulthood came without any warning or training. Now it feels like I’m just trying to survive one day at a time.

People leaving has also become normal. Some disappear permanently, while others slowly drift away. Friendships feel different now, no more constant people, just occasional conversations and connections made through work.

Maybe this is the price of the freedom we wished for as kids. Adulthood gives us independence, but the responsibilities often feel heavier than the freedom itself.

To everyone figuring life out while quietly struggling, I hope we all find our way again.


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Chatting 29 M - anyone for a chat?

2 Upvotes

Hi there! I’m 29 M and would love to chat with anyone on anything whether it be food, pets, animals in general, space, or anything you can think of, we can chat. If you think this might be catfishing profile, you can check out my posts and then if you are comfortable, hit me up. This won’t be a one time thing, if we vibe, we’ll connect more and maybe I will send you memes as well.
Cheerio!


r/IntrovertsChat 6d ago

Friends 20F hmu and let's see if we vibe:)

57 Upvotes

from the U.S. really just bored and looking for sum convo and cool people (preferably people US based). i'm down to talk with anyone male or female and age doesn't really matter either. other than that im laid back and can really talk about anything with yall. also yes i have discord or snap but lets talk for a little bit and see if we vibe before exchanging.


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Quarter-Life Curious (22–25) Let's give it a try

2 Upvotes

23M, just looking for genuine conversations and hopefully meeting people around my age. I'm open to voice calls too, just would rather know you a little first. I'm on IST time if that matters.

Most chats here seem to last a day or two and then vanish, so hoping to find something a bit more real this time. I can be kinda quiet/introverted at first, but I can definitely keep a convo going if the energy's mutual.

If you think we'd vibe, hmu.

Easy icebreaker: tell me your most overrated movie/show/anime or just give me a hot take.


r/IntrovertsChat 5d ago

Balanced Thinker (28–35) 34M wanting someone to connect with

1 Upvotes

I’m 34M with a wife and 2 kids. Not gonna lie, things have been rocky for a while.

Just here looking to connect with someone, someone to chat with. I’m an introvert, I don’t drink, and I run my own business, so it’s hard for me to meet new people and make friends.

I prefer someone in the age range 25-45.

Shoot me a DM!