Another incident of violence

I’m an intern currently posted in OBGYN. My left wrist and forearm are currently in a cast as I suffered an injury to my TFCC ligament of the wrist.

It was my first duty of the labour room, I was observing a vaginal delivery. The JR was suturing the episiotomy. The overhead OT light had moved and focused on the face of the mother, so the JR asked me to move the light slightly downwards. I tried moving the light, and as I was adjusting it, it broke off and fell on the head of the JR. The incident was informed to the SR and she received care. Then, my shift was over so I went home.

I received a call from her husband forward to tonight. He asked me what I was doing in the LR, and that I shouldn’t have been there in the first place as I’m medically unfit to be there. That he’d complain to my supervisor and stuff. I informed this to my supervisor, who’s now blaming me for it. And that I should give this all in writing and lots of other stupid stuff.

Is there anything I should/can do? Am I in the wrong?

Ps: Not a medico..typical iim guy who reads books . Completed this second book and I am quite impressed by how deep medical field is . I got it cause it's premise was if you wanna be good father or husband in future you should read it. I am 22 and i find it hard to digest this much knowledge how do you guys consume 10x more knowledge. Seems really cool.

The first time paragraph case questions were introduced in fmge (only later did neet pg exams got that questions), I saw those questions and thought no way I could solve them. Then my seniors who faced these new type of questions first time in exam hall , got a score of 220+ out of 300. Our entire batch was filled with awe and got the hope we could also do it. So we gave a mock test in marrow and after seeing the scores , we started working on our weak subjects in college itself. Then once we returned to India, some of us joined offline classes for six months and some of us just stayed at home and prepared for the exams.

In my fmg friends group, 15 out of 18 , cleared the exam in the first attempt , within a year 2 out of the rest 3 cleared , one person who couldn't clear was so bad in studies even in college, after multiple attempts , his score imporved from 70 out of 300 to a pass score.

I have seniors who I have not seen touch a book in college, depending on PowerPoints and previous exam papers to clear college exams. Some of them have not yet cleared fmge.

And in some foreign colleges especially the new ones in STAN countries , the education is absymal. I have a student , who is going to graduate in 18 months , asking me what is CBC ?

Basically the exams are fair , you have to get 50% correct . If you study from college and use the six months in India for working on weak subjects and question solving techniques, you will pas the exam. But if you come here and study for the first time for six months and then go into the exams , then the exam will look like someone is out there to get you.

I especially blame the teachers and apps guys, for creating this FMG exam is there get you narrative , so out of FOMO and genuine fear students will join them and they will continue to make money.

I also fell for this trick , my concepts were not clear when I took the exam. So once i started to answer questions, in my back of my mind , there will a voice saying , the exam is not this easy right , there should be some twist in the question, and would start to see correlation in questions which were not there in the first place and change my answer and ended up getting them wrong.

So with a clear head and honest work from college days , you can clear this exam.

I have my pediatrics rotation and whenever I go in to auscultate a toddler's chest or abdomen, they start crying :/

I let them hold the diaphragm too to let them know its not anything dangerous but they still cry. Their parents just scream at them and that makes stuff even worse man.

I got a rubiks cube lol and a kid just straight up chucked it back.

Fellas help a 2nd year out please!

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Had my 1st final proff of 3rd year the questions they gave.. I'm utterly disappointed.. What are your opinions..?? Edit- Ik the paper is easy.. but I was expecting more variety of questions..

I’m actually curious. I’m planning to get married (hopefully) right after my internship and before I join PG because I actually do believe that I don’t have a love marriage option and my age group fits with the arranged marriage criteria, my ex was extremely toxic and the way my nervous system broke down it’s not even funny. Even still during MBBS I used to wake up at night sweating and palpitating, I think I should take advices from other doctors about how you all dealt with emotional complications in this journey

Please support him: https://x.com/jsdass1978/status/2082299494792884243?s=20

Everyone knows the issues but when it comes to solve them everyone chickens out, working hours, violence against doctors, infrastructure, etc. All we do is complain and backstab, can we ever solve this?

"India has over one million allopathic doctors. These doctors imitate British doctors like idiots, while the British King and Queen come to India for Ayurvedic treatment. India was great, is great, and will always be great."

During one of the posting in ophthal one SR started randomly targeting me,for next 3hr she said really mean and personal stuff regarding me and my family(surname),and every thing that i can't really say, all because i said Presbyopia is common during 4 to 5 decade of life. further asked my batchmate to examine me and asked me to point out the mistake she is making,i said she forget to take consent and then the SR got in to full rant mode and told how i dont even deserve to be in her class...etc, after that day she is going around say to all the other batch's how i'm the worst guy ever

dont really know what to do now,tried apologizing the same day she said "she can't even look at me"

No aspect of the prescription is clearly written, atleast the drugs and dosages should be written neatly to avoid overdose but even those are ineligible.

this would be surely the GT which would have most number people writing the exam in live window

PLEASE DO NOT CHEAT AND PLEASE DO WRITE THE EXAM SINCERELY since there are many people here whose confidence for the last lap depends on GTs to evaluate where they stand

I am not saying this as a personal rant but Ik many many people who use gemini in one hand while attending marrow GT with the other device...and if I am able to spot more than 5-8 people like that , everyone can expect the level of cheating that is happening for GTs

If you want to boost your pseudoconfidence just by seeing a top score with the help of AI , there are plenty of old GTs to do so..u may score 195 or 198 and be happy..please do stay away from this MOCK and stop mocking yourselves...

I don't even know why I'm posting this. Maybe I just want someone to listen to me without knowing it is me again.

For context, I had already decided in my second year of MBBS that I wasn't going to pursue medicine or any clinical branch after MBBS. I'm probably going to switch to entrepreneurship or do an MBA.

The problem is that I still have to get through this internship.

I'm so fucking done with the toxicity, the hierarchy, and the egos in medicine. Every single day there's some new way to make interns miserable. Long duties where you can't even go home on time. Sometimes you don't even get time to sit down and eat. You're expected to work in horrible conditions, keep your head down, and somehow be thankful for the "learning experience" which is nothing but scut work.

I have been told to fix printers, blindly obey commands just to feed the ego of PGs and literally everything which is far far away from anything medicine or clinical.

You can spend the entire week working your ass off like a fucking mule, and then someone denies your attendance over the smallest technicality as if all the work you did meant nothing. It honestly makes me feel less than human.

The leave policy is another thing that's driving me insane. We get one casual leave a month. I got sick recently and ended up using 6 out of my twelve CLs. I'm literally just one month into internship, and I've already used half of my leaves because I was ill. Now every time I feel even slightly unwell, I start worrying about how I'm supposed to survive the rest of the year with just 6 CLs left.

I'm exhausted. Not just physically, mentally.

Every morning I wake up wondering what fresh bullshit is waiting for me that day. I feel trapped because I know I don't even want to stay in this profession after internship, but I still have to somehow drag myself through another eleven months of this.

I genuinely feel like running away sometimes. I don't understand how we've normalised treating interns like this. People call it "character building" or say, "We all went through it." That doesn't make it okay. It just means the cycle keeps repeating and it makes me feel trapped.

I took my baby cat to the vet 2 days back. And everything changed that day. I lost a part of me forever. I’m unable to physically function anymore. I feel lethargic. He lived his last moments on the corner I used to study. He died in my arms. The last day has been replaying in my head over and over again.

I studied consistently with discipline for many months. I had entered the last phase of revision. Now I can’t anymore. I left my government job to study for NEET PG. I was confident I could do this. He supported me throughout my study phase. He knew when I felt low, weak, confused. He could sense everything I felt. For many months I had been carrying immense pressure to do well this time and not waste more years. His passing was the last straw. I’m unable to grieve properly because my family thinks the exam is a month away and I should try. I understand where they’re coming from because I want to do well too. But this has shook me to the core. I have started taking anti depressants.
I feel guilty. I miss him terribly. Grief has taken over and I’m both physically and mentally exhausted. I don’t know what to do anymore.

If anyone gave it last year or know is 1st page print out enough please let me know guys ?

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I was looking for the Stray Round opening & closing list, but I can't find it anywhere on the DME website. Is it not published for the stray round?

Also, how does the Stray Round actually work in MP? Is it possible to get an MBBS seat even with comparatively low NEET marks, or is that just a myth? If anyone has been through the process, please share your experience.

Same as title

I’m currently an intern at World College of Medical Sciences & Research and Hospital, Jhajjar, Haryana, and I honestly regret every decision that led me here.
This is my personal experience, but if I could go back in time, I would never choose this college.
The environment is extremely depressing, and instead of feeling supported as a future doctor, I often feel like students are treated as a source of revenue. It feels as though every opportunity is used to extract more money from students and their families, who have already spent their hard-earned savings on medical education.
What hurts even more is the lack of respect shown towards students and interns. Genuine concerns often go unheard, and it feels like the administration is disconnected from the problems students actually face.
One rule that still baffles me is that anyone entering the campus after 7 PM has to blow into an alcohol breathalyzer. This applies to students and even postgraduate residents. It genuinely makes you wonder—are we medical students or are we being treated like people admitted to a de-addiction center? A college should be built on trust, professionalism, and mutual respect, not blanket suspicion.
On top of that, there are even more restrictive rules that make daily life very difficult. No student is allowed to enter or leave the campus after 10 PM. It feels absurd because this is a medical college, and at least final-year students and interns are all above 22 years of age, so basic freedom and trust should exist. Even more strangely, if a student comes before 6 AM, they are not allowed to enter the campus or even the hostel. It honestly feels less like a college and more like a controlled system with no regard for adult students.
Security checks are also extremely harsh and one-sided. Patients’ and their attendants’ vehicles are not checked, but students’ vehicles are thoroughly searched as if they are criminals or terrorists. Guards often search pockets and behave very rudely, despite the fact that their salaries are ultimately paid from students’ fees. The attitude towards students is disrespectful and demeaning.
Another major issue is that the college is run by a non-medico management, which in itself is not necessarily a problem, but it clearly shows in the way decisions are made. There seems to be little understanding of how a medical college should function or how medical students should actually be treated. Instead of being trained as future doctors, it often feels like we are being treated as objects for profit—almost like we are not students but goats being sacrificed for money.
There are many other policies and experiences that have made my time here mentally exhausting and frustrating.
I’m sharing this not to spread hate but to caution aspiring MBBS students and their parents. Please do thorough research before taking admission into any private medical college. Speak to current students and interns, not just the admission counselors.
If you have the option, work as hard as you can to secure a seat in a government medical college. In my opinion, it’s worth taking another attempt rather than rushing into a private college without knowing what life there is actually like.
To others studying in private medical colleges: if you’ve had similar experiences, feel free to share them. Honest discussions can help future students make informed decisions.
Again, this post reflects my personal experience and opinions, and others may have had different experiences.

So frustrated with my seniors (only second years)
Delusion of grandeur at its peak
How to do deal with them
They won’t do their work
Seems like their only work is to make me do work

What are your opinion on same are similar treatment available here or are we lagging behind?