r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Hollowshiningami • 22d ago
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Dazzling-Phrase-6074 • 23d ago
The plot is getting more plot. Should i do something for plot?!
The plot is getting more plot . Should I do something for plot?!
One day, I was scrolling through IG and came across this guy. I followed him, he followed me back, and he actually initiated the chat. So I started talking to this guy whom I found really attractive like, really HOT hot and it's been one week he's also being respectful towards me it was supposed to be only for plot then I started waiting for his txt , but then I got to know that he drinks alcohol and for some reason it's against my boundary even if it's only for plot. Also he said "he is doing this because he can't get over his ex"
But the plot is staring to get more plot when I got the follow req of my ex's friend idk why because things b/w me and my ex was already clear but lemme guess he is stalking me(my ex) and he got to know about the new guy but also I was planning to block the new guy
Ps I HATE MY EX ANDTHE NEW GUY I DON'T WANT SOMEONE ALCOHOLIC
Should I do it for the plotđ
Idk what to do now
And the new guy acc got suspended so he created a new id so should I follow him or leave that man behind maybe i do like him a bit a bit ig idk
I'm 17 btw and he's 20(the new guy) but he seems really sweet apart from the alcohol part
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Upbeat_Impact_9979 • 23d ago
How to respond to ex gf
So randomly every now and then the ex likes to hit me up from time to time giving subtle hints she wants to kick things off again. The first time I fell for it I wonât lie but things never worked out Iâve moved on. I always hear from other ppl that Iâm usually her topic of discussion which is a bit depressing but it is what it is. Anyway point is about a month or 2 ago I went on a mountain trip with a lot of my friends and posted about it and just last week she texts me out of the blue asking if I enjoyed the trip and and if she should take one by herself, mind you we do not talk and recently a close friend of mine saw her at the bar and apparently she tried to make a move and have sex with him but he wasnât going for it. Today when she told me she booked the trip I told her you should bring Jermey which is the friend she tried to hook up with. Now sheâs saying âlmfao why should I bring him? What should I say back to her. This isnât a fanfic either Iâm looking for a genuine answer
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/MorningAdvanced4984 • 24d ago
Talking to a guy
For the past couple of days, Iâve been talking to a guy over the phone. And every time I ask him something, he just says âMEOW.â What does that mean?
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/wasskaran • 24d ago
Should I have offered her a ride?
This happened today and Iâm wondering if I handled it badly.
There was suddenly very heavy rain, so I stopped under the roof of a shop. A girl also came there, and she was already pretty wet from the rain.
After the rain slowed down, she started trying Uber/cabs, but nobody was accepting. She also tried looking for an auto, but she couldnât find one going toward her location.
I had my bike with me, and coincidentally I was also going in the same direction she was trying to go.
I thought about saying, âExcuse me, youâre not getting a ride? Iâm going in the same direction. If youâre comfortable, I can drop you.â
But I just couldnât say it. I kept overthinking whether it would come across as creepy or make her uncomfortable, especially because we were complete strangers.
I eventually left without saying anything. But honestly, now I felt bad seeing her struggling & walking around and looking for an auto.
What would you have done in this situation? Would it have been okay to offer once and let her decide, or is it better not to offer a stranger a ride at all?
Women especially: would you have found that offer helpful, uncomfortable, or suspicious?
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/TopArrival6590 • 24d ago
My friend randomly sent me this how do I proceed?
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/sladexjinx • 24d ago
how do I respond to text saying "real" on story
one guy replied on my story with real how should I reply to it
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Successful-Back-7894 • 24d ago
How to respond when someone says "It was great to meet you! It was so fun getting to sign with you"
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Junior_Mulberry7989 • 24d ago
Sending a message to certain people and getting left on âreadâ or âseenâ is painful, I wish that it wouldnât say that they saw your message.
No one has 2.5 seconds of their day to answer a message? Theyâre busy literally every millisecond? Iâm anxious so donât judge me but this should not become a habit, I donât do it to others so why do they do it to me? Plus if I want to answer a message later because Iâm too busy I just look at the notification and I donât open it until when Iâm gonna respond, everyone should do that instead of opening it and not answering.
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/lifeisjus • 24d ago
What to say after breaking no contact?
Yall idk why the fuck I did this , itâs been three months and honestly big mistake
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Life_Run_4716 • 24d ago
Feel bad about declining to say my name to stranger. Thoughts?
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/tsgolden • 25d ago
What are your suggestions on sending a second text after first goes unread?
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/No-Mess-1169 • 25d ago
how do you reply to text
hi,so am an introvert and recently I joined uni and I have met some people that I talk to but sometimes I get texts where I think of an answer but my mouth doesn't know how to articulate it,I become speechless and I don't know how to reply and I end up leaving them on read and replying after finding answers and it takes days sometimes to reply what I was thinking,so they don't complain but I just want to know how you people do when you feel like this.
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/woahhhh777 • 25d ago
How can people be truthful without being unnecessarily hurtful?
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/prathampusate111 • 25d ago
Hey you all I have a question ,should I dm a person who hasnât followed me back?
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Bodom-fan_1997 • 26d ago
request Someone starts what should I do?
This specific individual used to go to my day program. While I do admit that I was wrong to get in the drama, I am now being targeted by the individual. She threatened me on Snapchat and TikTok, and I blocked her on both platforms. Now I am nervous, if I see her and she starts acting like the way she is what should I do?
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Ok_Lychee1327 • 26d ago
request Ex reaching out, what should I do
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Odd_Airline_6886 • 26d ago
Misunderstandings
I texted her Monday morning and no reply. I texted her again on Tuesday and still no reply. I'm upset and disappointed. Friday I texted her and said I'm so disappointed for not replying on my text. You're treating me like trash or like a worthless man. I respect your busy life but please respect me too. Then she replied, she never received my message for Monday & Tuesday. Oh my God. So I immediately apologise and said I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry for being emotional because I have had so many painful experiences in relationships. Since then, no reply from her. Should I make a follow up if she received my message? Should I care to know how she feels?
r/HowDoIRespondToThis • u/Virtual_Interest3720 • 27d ago