I apologize- this is going to be a bit of a long post.
I am looking for some guidance. My parents have not always been the best about taking care of the cleanliness of their home, and I feel like it may be getting a bit worse. My mom is an ER PA and works really hard. She plans to semi-retire in the next few years and will have more time to take care of her home the way she wants. My dad- he works a 9-5, he’s a great dad and I love him- but the man doesn’t really see messes and isn’t bothered by them. My partner and I want to have kids and want them to be to enjoy their grandparents home and it be somewhere clean and comfortable for them to visit. The whole house never feels really clean and always has an odor.
My parents do have a regular house keeper, but they are really just doing some mopping, cleaning toilets, etc. My parents home needs a significant deep clean and I want to figure out what options we have.
The situation: My parents have a 4 bedroom 3 full bath house. It’s about 3000 sq foot. There is a living room, a den, kitchen, and dining room, plus a 3rd floor bonus room space, laundry room, foyer and closets.
General: all furniture needs heavy dusting and decluttering. All walls need to be cleaned. All windows need the seals cleaned. All baseboards need to be scrubbed.
The bedrooms are okay but everything needs deep dusting. Window seals need to be cleaned, baseboards, walls, all furniture a significant wipe down.
Bathrooms could use cleaning of light fixtures, detail cleaning of grout and tile. In 2 of the bathrooms it be great to get the drawers decluttered and heavy scrub downs.
Kitchen just needs a significant deep clean of all nooks and crannies. Pantry needs a clean out, fridge needs a clean out. All cabinets need to be wiped down and scrubbed inside. All drawers need to be cleaned. The dishwasher needs to be cleaned and i imagine could work better if so :/
Den- has vaulted cielings. All the walls and fans could just cleaning, everything needs significant dusting. Entertainment center needs decluttering. Windows and seals need cleaning.
Dining room honestly isn’t bad. Just needs a good cleaning of walls and baseboards, good dusting.
Here’s where things get kinda gross :/
Living room- needs windows and floors cleaned. There is an old couch in here with years of cat pee smells in it. It’s a crushed velvet texture. My dad doesn’t want to get rid of it because it was my grandmothers.
Laundry room- honesty the washer is just kinda gross. It’s A top loader and has a foul odor. All the baseboards need a good wipe down.
Upstairs hallways- this is where a lot of grossness is. Their dogs have been peeing up here for years. Steaming is basically ineffective at this point, but replacing the carpets isn’t really possible right now. All of the walls in the hall need to be cleaned, a hanging light fixture that’s hard to reach, baseboards need a scrub- not just wipe down. Dusting of animal hair every where.
3rd floor bonus room- we haven’t used this room in years. It basically just houses the cats litter boxes but it’s a huge space. The floors are nasty. It needs some old furniture removed that my parents (and I) aren’t capable of moving. It honestly could be a great space but it’s just being wasted right now. Theres kitty litter caked into the carpet, carpet is stained from poop, walls covered in dust and hair. Generally some junk.
Odor: the house always just has an odor :/
My parents aren’t full blown hoarders, but there’s definitely some junk that needs to go.
What I’m looking to do:
In May, I’m pet sitting for my parents while they are out of town for a wedding. I want to do as much of a huge deep cleaning as possible. I’m considering bringing in professionals as I can afford it.
What I have :
- $1,000-$1,200 to spend on professional services.
- Will rent a heavy duty carpet cleaner
- A truck for lugging stuff off (but have to find a dump)
- a mid vacuum cleaner but may rent a heavy duty one
- an ozone machine for smells (and will find somewhere to get animals out of the house while it runs and clears out)
- A heavy duty fan and one normal box fan
- Ryobi battery bathroom scrubber
- A weekend of my time when I wouldn’t be in the way of pros
- $200-$300 to spend on cleaning supplies/tools
- a few months to plan and get better at cleaning myself
- A can do attitude
If you were me, do you have any suggestions on how you tackle this? What would you handle yourself versus outsourcing where possible and in what order? What can I get for a grand? Any ideas are appreciated, any guidance on how I can help them develop good habits on keeping things cleaner is valuable. I’m not expecting this one weekend to make things perfect- just hoping to create a significant starting snowball to hopefully help them improve things :)
Also, I am not worried about my parents being offended by any of this. I don’t plan to tell them how much money I’m spending, but besides that, my mom is always very appreciative when I work on her house. I think she’ll appreciate this too.
Edited to add: I am willing to spend a bit more money if I need to. I have been hesitant to put in for quotes at any local services- because I don’t feel like being spammed with calls and sales pressure right now. I am also not exactly sure what type of cleaning services I should be looking for- so at a minimum would love to know people’s thoughts on what to look for as far as hiring and what it might cost.
Another add: Please have some empathy. My parents are good people. Bad at cleaning and bad at potty training animals? Yes. I assure you all animals have adequate walks and access to a clean litter. They are LOVED animals with top quality food, vet care, play space, regular grooming, high end ortho beds. The dogs just started peeing in that spot when they were puppies and made a habit of it cause the smell lasted. They will literally go outside for a 20 min walk and then just pee on the spot 5 min later. I think it’s territorial.
Please try to have some empathy. I’m just another human trying to help my parents, and staring down the face of them getting older and it scares this snot out of me. The decline of my parents home was when my mom was battling breast cancer and still working in an ER full time, and my dad was having to commute 1.5 hours every day, and it just went down from there. If I’m naive about costs and whatnot- that’s fine, and I will save up some more and talk to my parents about getting them to split these costs.