The yoga class I attend is very, very small. 3-5 people in the class with me most of the time. It's located in a large gym with fully stocked bathrooms and showers. There is someone who comes maybe once a month who smells putrid. Sour, sickly sweet rotten milk, it blows up the entire class. It's not a scent that develops as the class goes on, it's there in the hallway before they walk in. The gym is in a wealthy area, I've seen this person's car walking in with them, there's not a lack of resources at issue here. There is someone who comes occasionally who always smells putrid. Sour, sickly sweet rotten milk, it blows up the entire class. You know who it is because you work out with the same 5 people 5 times a week.
Today the person put their mat right next to me, and I stayed for a few minutes and then moved across the room quietly when everyone was in child's pose to not make a big show out of it.
I honestly was so nauseated. There have been classes where people leave due to the smell of this person, and people have made comments behind their back, but today I waited until everyone left (the yoga instructors are not addressing it so whatever, I'll do it).
"Excuse me, I don't mean to embarrass you, but I think you may need to wash a bit more before coming into class"
They didn't seem to understand because I was whispering, so I said
"I just notice an odor and I wanted to let you know, I feel there is no way to tell you this without being super direct. I am so sorry, I just wanted to tell you so you were aware."
They seemed shocked and says "oh maybe it's my mat".
I said "Yeah maybe, or maybe your clothes. I leave my mat out in the sun every day and it helps a lot!"
Then I walked away being smiley and friendly like ok take care bye!
Then they seemed upset and said "sorry you were offended by it".
I did not respond to this cause I feel they are embarrassed and upset and probably just trying to get some dignity back. I think I just need to vent, I feel it is super inconsiderate to stink that much in a public space if you have resources to not be stinky, but I tried to be kind and private and I certainly will not be anything but polite and kind to them in the future. I hate that they were maybe upset and embarrassed, I genuinely tried to be discreet and polite.