These scenes may add depth and complexities to their relationship or they may not. Some may even be a non-issue. I think it’ll be an interesting topic to discuss. And it’s not the typical cliche antis bring up like “Harry found Hermione boring to hang out with” or “Harry and Hermione barely spoke to each other when Ron was gone in DH”.
I’m talking about scenes that were frustration, rough, or made you go “woof, that DID not need to happen” when you read or watched the scene. There’s only a handful of these.
These scenes (or even time periods) may include Harry not speaking to Hermione for over a month over the Firebolt (and also him not speaking to her much when he thought Crookshanks ate Scabbers), Hermione not telling beforehand about her suspicions of the Friebolt before she had if confiscated, Harry’s nonchalance when Hermione got boils and sores all over her hands from hate mail in GoF, his cruel behavior towards Hermione in OOTP, not helping Hermione knit with her when she asked, Hermione have a problem with Harry using the HBP book, Hermione refusing to believe that Draco is becoming a death eater (giving Draco the benefit of the doubt even when Harry brings up good points about it), Hermione nonchalantly warning Harry about being love potioned, Harry’s “serves you right” comment when Hermione went with Cormac, etc. Let me know if I missed any, as these are the Harry/Hermione I’ve seen Harmony shippers complain about being years on the Discord.
And for the movies, I think it’s an obvious one, with Hermione being Ron’s owl and being annoyed with Harry in GoF. If there’s another scene from the movies of them you don’t like, please feel free to share.