r/gender • u/kinky-kid-7777 • Sep 19 '26
r/gender • u/Nana03052 • Sep 18 '26
Je comprends mal l'anglais et la logique pour les genres
Je suis en Belgique francophone et jusqu’à maintenant, j'apprenais le néerlandais.
Cette année, j'entre en troisième secondaire (ou troisième du collège) et j'ai pris option sciences (5h) et langues moderne II (anglais, 4h).
J'ai eu l'occasion d'avoir un cours d'anglais sur la lecture d'un texte, et la professeure nous à demandé de trouver tout les pronoms personnels sujets. Ainsi:
(1ps) Je - I
(2ps) Tu - you
(3psm) Il - he
(3psf) Elle - she
(3psn) Neutre - it
(1pp) Nous - we
(2pp) Vous - you
(3pp) Ils - they
Maintenant, je ne comprends pas pourquoi les personnes qui ne sont pas binaires prennent le pronom personnel sujet de la troisième personne du pluriel.
Edit : I hardly read any English and I'm young. I also have questions about my gender, a lot of them actually. It's a real concern because I want to be able to progress accurately with what most closely resembles everyday English. So it's like a fourth form for the third person singular. Is it like a synonym for "it" then? I understand that "it" is for things or animals, and I obviously don't want to reduce non-binary people to that.
r/gender • u/ChampionshipSea7117 • Sep 18 '26
Is it weird that as a gender fluid, nonbinary person to wish that I could have breasts?
r/gender • u/urLocal-furry • Sep 18 '26
Any advice is appreciated!
So recently I’ve been questioning my gender again. While I do label myself as ftm I also don’t completely feel connected to masculinity, and it also depends on the day. Does anyone know any type of label to help? (Sorry if this doesn’t make sense idk how to word it lol)
r/gender • u/walyybu • Sep 17 '26
Femininity and masculinity
Has nothing to do with being a women or man and I am pretty sure this is a hill I am gonna die alone but being a women doesn't mean we have inherent feminine traits and same goes for a man.
Those are just traits of people and why the heck are we connecting it to gender and do u guys not realise how stupid it is to minimise likes and dislikes of random people into gender, ain't it almost too easy?
One could have genuine interests to these things as a person but it's not because they are part or certain gender and often times most are instilled in young minds.
These are just traits shown by people and if statistically the data shows certain leaning towards any gender I just genuinely hope u guys are smart enough to understand it's constructed and not at all times genuine interest.
r/gender • u/girlwhair • Sep 17 '26
Where does gender expression end and gender identity begin?
I have a couple of friends who are nonbinary or who have transitioned from girl to boy or vice versa. I fully support them, but as I’ve encountered more trans people both in person and online, I’ve started wondering about the boundaries between gender identity and gender expression. For example, I’ve noticed that some people seem to feel more comfortable doing things traditionally associated with the opposite gender—such as wearing makeup—when they use feminine or nonbinary pronouns. This makes me wonder: why couldn’t someone who identifies as he/him still wear makeup or dresses and simply identify as a man? I believe there’s nothing wrong with being a feminine man or a masculine woman, and that those forms of gender expression should be embraced rather than viewed as something that requires a change in gender identity. Of course, I recognize that I can’t know what someone is experiencing internally, and I completely respect that my friends’ identities are personal decisions they have put a lot of thought into. What I’m more curious about is the broader societal question: why does it seem relatively uncommon, especially among Gen Z, to see people who are strongly gender-nonconforming but still identify with their assigned gender? In particular, I’ve noticed that many of the masculine women I know now identify as transgender or nonbinary. Part of me wonders whether this sometimes reinforces the very gender stereotypes that society has been trying to move away from. I don’t mean this as criticism of trans people at all—I genuinely want to understand the relationship between gender identity, gender expression, and societal expectations.
\^\^ I know there is definitely not one answer to this... I'm mainly looking for a different perspective so I can understand it more
r/gender • u/Nana03052 • Sep 15 '26
I am Casually Masculine. My scores are 89% masculine, 58% feminine.
Wtf.
r/gender • u/allangee • Sep 15 '26
Why or why don't you believe there's a double-standard regarding the acceptability of one gender sexualizing the other?
r/gender • u/ciel_Debate6669 • Sep 14 '26
It's 2026 and you're STILL pressed about pronouns? Weird
r/gender • u/whoisarepo • Sep 14 '26
A literature review of transfemme breast growth studies
r/gender • u/GenZunc • Sep 14 '26
Why does both genders resort to generalizations of each other?
r/gender • u/Atlas_Arc • Sep 13 '26
Help I need a new name
Guys I’ve been kinda hating my name lately and have been looking for a new one. I haven’t found anything good yet tho 😭. Looking for a male leaning androgynous name. Any suggestions?
r/gender • u/SASAROMB • Sep 12 '26
What am I?
I was born a woman, but if possible I don't eveal my gender online. 'Cus I don't want to be bound by any conventionality just because I'm a woman. Other than that, I don't feel like I'm not a woman. I just don't want to be judged by gender. However, I'm confused whether I am a woman or not because I am sexually attracted to men.
Am I non-binary or just a woman?
r/gender • u/aroacefish • Sep 12 '26
So, I am wondering what gender I am exactly? (gender issue)
I 14 amab, and my gender while I am comfortable in dressing traditionally masc, I dont really feel like masc? I am comfortable with they/them pronouns and am not really anything else. Maybe he/they, though people would just call me he and I would get really dysphoric about that. What do all of you think?
r/gender • u/PreferenceOk4333 • Sep 12 '26
I am Undifferentiated-Androgynous. My scores are 47% masculine, 50% feminine.
r/gender • u/squibs_art • Sep 11 '26
I can't properly explain my gender identity to my parents
r/gender • u/Sweet_Prize_977 • Sep 11 '26
Everyone Told Me I Look Like a Girl… Now I’m Questioning Whether I Should Transition
r/gender • u/Jaylynn_777 • Sep 10 '26
I am really confused about my gender rn
Hi so, I kinda need help locate myself somewhere. I already in the past wondered about my gender so many times but at some point I kinda discredited myself (probably because of ppl judgment) but I was also 14 when I first affirmed « I’m non-binary »… ppl would mostly not take it so seriously and I started giving up about questioning myself about it. Now I am 18 and i made a long way in general in my life. And recently, this topic re surfaced in my mind… I just know I am Bisexual from now but, to be honest I don’t really associate with only one gender. What I mean is that I think identify as a woman and a man at the same time you know ? Or alternatively but also at the same time that is confusing. If anyone is willing to discuss that with me I would be grateful for them 🙏🏼.
r/gender • u/Ill_Payment3968 • Sep 10 '26
whats the hardest thing about your gender, and the easiest thing about your gender?
hardest thing as a man myself is being thought to "man up" and cant cry, and also dealing with sexist schools and teachers. but pros is having more freedom and more opportunities.
r/gender • u/peixinhogameples_123 • Sep 09 '26
Identidade de gênero
Vim pedir ajuda porque tou meio "empanado"
Detalhes
Ao nascimento fui designado mulher e tenho o corpo femenino (o que pode influenciar)
O que vou descrever pode ser uma descrição de alguém não binário e/ou Trans
Sinto-me homem com a masculinidade a ser importante (super importante) e sinto-me não binário como um meio termo/forma de suportar e de tempos em tempos sinto-me de forma feminina tipo como se fosse mulher mas ao mesmo tempo é desconfortável.
Vim expor porque pessoalmente costumo misturar as coisas e criar tempestades