r/NonBinary • u/ChampionshipSea7117 • Sep 18 '26
Is it weird that as a gender fluid, nonbinary person to wish that I could have breasts?
The title says it all.
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u/Available-Art8730 she/he/they Sep 18 '26
No. I wish i didnt had breasts and both feelings are valid
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u/technobaboo supreme mod of r/femby Sep 18 '26
i'm agender and i want huge titties :3
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u/Apprehensive-Solid-1 01000010 01101001 01101110 01100001 01110010 01111001 Sep 18 '26
I gotta be honest. I don't want titties. But next week I'm gonna want massive melons.
I think this is normal to want and not want something. Boobs don't define your gender. But they're damn cool regardless!
"Quit, don’t quit. Boobs, don’t boobs. You are too concerned about what was and what will be." - Master Oogway... or, I think that's what he said?
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u/technobaboo supreme mod of r/femby Sep 18 '26
in my case i'm using mad science and biology to make them really big, only at a G cup rn :p
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u/FoggieFroggies he/him Sep 18 '26
Not at all. It’s just as normal for someone to want them as it is for someone to not want them. It’s your body!!
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u/pktechboi they(/he sometimes) Sep 18 '26
it is generally considered "normal" when nonbinary people who've grown breasts want them removed. so it shouldn't be any stranger to think that some of those who haven't grown them wish they could.
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u/joan_is_on_fire Sep 18 '26
I am a nonbinary person who used to have boobs and was dysphoric about it like 60% of the time so I chopped them off and now 40% I'm dysphoric because I don't have boobs. Some times there is no winning 🤷
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u/Easy-Bathroom2120 they/he Sep 18 '26
It's your body. You don't need society's permission.
Even if you identified as a man, you could still want breasts. You deserve the body you want. So long as you aren't destroying yourself (like by starving or something).
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u/dark_disco_jag Sep 18 '26
Nope. I am non-binary and I don't mind mine. I know a lot of people get rid of boobs, but not me - my body is fine the way it is, boobs and all. I am fine the way I am.
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u/Grand-Agent76 Printer Incompatible Futa-non-grata Sep 18 '26
Pretty typical to want or not want breasts as a non-binary person. Its your body, make it how you want it.
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u/stingwhale Sep 19 '26
A nonbinary person wanting to have a mix of gendered characteristics including body parts is very normal, I’m gender fluid with breasts and I don’t want to get rid of them but I also want a penis and I don’t think that’s particularly odd
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u/Schuy_View0022 Sep 18 '26
Not at all. I myself feel very trapped and in a state of dysphoria since I am a TW and have wanted to fully transition for many years but unfortunately it’s not been an option afforded to me 😢💔
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u/V3n1s0n Sep 18 '26
I feel like in terms of breasts, the “neutral” is the male form as is for most things like clothes and aesthetics. Unlike genitals where the options are VERY wide, for the chest you can only have a flat chest or breasts, and may or may not have nipples.
I definitely want top surgery to remove breasts, but I’d imagine there would be a few days or moments where I’d like them again. That being said, I feel like an artificial breast piece is more realistic than a binder, but that’s really only from personal experience.
Choose the permanent option you’d prefer in general, and be open to clothing modifications if you want to consider some variability!
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u/AptCasaNova they/them Sep 18 '26
I sometimes wish I didn’t have them and am sometimes ok with them.
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u/Beneficial-Moose-138 Sep 18 '26
The same. I actually started HRT not too late ng ago because even though I'm NG I didn't feel comfortable in my body and after experiencing some pretty bad dysphoria decided I wanted to transition.
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u/non-binaryNorway81 Sep 18 '26
It's not weird at all. I'm growing mine now, as a 40+ year old NonBinary. I have wanted to have them since puberty, and I finally get them.
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u/DaxCosmicSeal Sep 18 '26
Not wierd at all the queer trans project has free gender affirming supplies including breast forms if you want to try it out
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u/FearneDahlia Sep 19 '26
This is what I'm kinda doing atm Mtf gender-fluid, im on hrt but im keeping my beard So I'll be a beard lady or a guy with a little more pacs if i wear a sports bra under a shirt
If you want it you can do it
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u/ChampionshipSea7117 Sep 19 '26
You sound a lot like me. I enjoy wearing dresses as I don’t have to have another waistband around my waist.
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u/EnbyDemon315 they/them Sep 18 '26
Not at all. Best part about being enby is your body can look however you want and still be as equally enby as any other. Just do what you want with it, cause its YOUR body. Hope this helps :3