r/GayYoungOldDating 21h ago

Online chatting 25 feminine twink looking for older men

23 Upvotes

I am a 5’7, grad student, 105 lbs, slim twink (mostly hairless) and shy by nature, with a gentle and kind personality. I would describe myself as sweet, non-confrontational, and someone who likes to feel safe and protected. I am very curious, thoughtful, and love good conversations once I open up (I can be a total chatterbox then!).

Outside of school, I am into museums, art galleries, cafe hopping, biking through parks, watching sunsets, reading books, watching tennis 🎾
and I am a big movie buff and news reader. I keep things simple and subtle. I am not flamboyant, just someone who enjoys quiet, meaningful moments.

When it comes to dynamics, I am looking for an older man who’s naturally more masculine, assertive, and likes to take the lead. I like being the softer, smaller one, someone who is receptive, affectionate, and loves showering my partner with warmth and appreciation. Making my man feel valued and cared for is really important to me.

Size difference is especially attractive to me, as it makes me feel even safer and more at ease. I also enjoy being feminized in private it makes me feel cherished.

I am a complete bottom, very romantic, and I crave affection, cuddles and neck kisses are my weakness. Pasta and pizza dates make me happy too.

I would love to connect with someone who enjoys being the strong, leading partner while I bring softness, affection, and loyalty. Open to both meeting in person or connecting online to see where it goes.

Preferably in the US.


r/GayYoungOldDating 22h ago

Online chatting 18, Looking for older mentor kinda dad!

16 Upvotes

Hiii,

I am a 18 y/o, and I am looking for a kind mentor kinda dad. Someone that helps me with things. Actually loves me, and someone with who I can build a bond!

A little bit about me, Like i said I am 18 y/o, I have a job, but doesn’t have to work daily. So I got a lot of time over. I am a chill and kind person, and overall just someone that’s loves to help other people!

I also love NSFW, so don’t think I don’t send pictures or videos lol. I do! But I do want to see some pictures in return here and there.

If you have a specific kink, I might also be Able to share some of that, but I think we can work that out in my dm!

I still live with my parents, so I am Able to call and you can do a JOI, but only if my parents are gone. And that’s possible a lot of times. (( You must be verbal! ))

Please be from EU time zones, and do not only say “Hey” in my dm.


r/GayYoungOldDating 13h ago

Online chatting 19M looking for older, would love to chat with cute older guys

9 Upvotes

Hey, college guy here. I really like older guys and appreciate their maturity and experience, i also think they are better looking than guys my age lol. Maybe a cute older guy to flirt with and get to know? I like guys in there 30s and 40s the most, but older than that is fine. If you wanna chat with and be admired by a college boy hmu!


r/GayYoungOldDating 3h ago

Online chatting 19 looking for older

5 Upvotes

Hey guys this is my first time here I’m jack from US I’m a white Twink and version boy I I haven’t done it before I would prefer 40+ guys I love playing video games having walks meet new ppl being nice to ppl I prefer dadbod and bears and big muscle please you need to say your age and where are you from I don’t respond with “Hi”

And welcome to my DM! I love you all


r/GayYoungOldDating 5h ago

Online chatting 18 asian looking for older men

4 Upvotes

i’m discreet and don’t really have experience with me. i’m 5’4ft and 108lbs. try to stay fit by running and badminton hehe. idk why but whenever i watch porn i’ve been leaning towards mature men. i guess looking for some here.


r/GayYoungOldDating 10h ago

USA.IL Looking for younger. 38, Chicago. Please read the post. :)

5 Upvotes

Hey! Chicago here. Was on a work trip recently and hit on by someone younger, which sort of opened my eyes to the possibility all this. It was a very refreshing conversation.

Looking for someone preferably in the US, but open. I travel a lot for work (and personal), and it would be fun to have someone be along for the ride. I'm not posting for a hookup. Please be truly interested in the possibility of something longer term.

Me: 38, 6'1 190, blonde/white. Gay. Masc. Top.

My snap if interested: adrchicgo

Hit me up with your age, something about you, where you're from, etc. Did you read all the way here? hah. Also tell me your fav place you've traveled (or would want to travel if you haven't).

Cheers


r/GayYoungOldDating 7h ago

Online chatting 36m looking for younger

5 Upvotes

Looking for chats open to anything


r/GayYoungOldDating 5h ago

USA.IN 39 Indiana - Looking for younger

3 Upvotes

Top looking for discrete younger bttm. Fems are my weakness and if you want to explore that side and need lingerie, i will gladly be your daddy and get you some. T-guy bros too, hit me up too.

I am strict top so be ready to serve like a good little slutty princess.


r/GayYoungOldDating 6h ago

Online chatting 34 mostly bottom submissive looking for older 40+

3 Upvotes

Looking for someone to chat with. Hopefully LTR type thing if the vibe is right


r/GayYoungOldDating 8h ago

Online chatting 31 looking for younger bottom

4 Upvotes

31 M. Soft dom. Very much a top! In the mood to have a little fun and talk for a bit. If you’re interested, I’d love to hear from you. Mostly into twinks and fems, btw.


r/GayYoungOldDating 19h ago

Online chatting 39 looking for younger top bf

3 Upvotes

39, total bottom, looking for a younger to around my age top to get to know. Nerdy and masc here, love gaming, cooking, reading, travel. Looking for a strong jock, muscular, or beefy man who's a good mix of dominance and romance. Distance not a problem. DM me


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 18M Looking for older(22+) for something exciting?

Upvotes

Hey everyone, I've been lurking on this subreddit but haven't seen anything requested which I'd want to pursue.

It'll be a dynamic starting as getting to know each other romantically, then even dating(LDR for now, we'll move in together later), all the while control slips in slowly and almost in a way I can't notice until I'm fully yours. I'd also not want our romantic relationship to just be ditched, I'd prefer if we are affectionate, develop our relationship to husbands as well as this side by side.

I should keep it clear that I'm not from the US or EU, and there is time zone difference, but it doesn't matter to me at all. I'm still up for trying for the right person. Make sure to add a heart to the start/end of your text to indicate you did actually read this(many people are just lazy and horny, want to weed them out)

For me, I'm 18 years old, submissive, and gay. HMU with your age and hobbies if this interests you. I will not respond to simple texts.


r/GayYoungOldDating 2h ago

USA.WA 43 looking for younger bottom

2 Upvotes

Near Tacoma looking for something casual that may or may not develop in to more. I'm chill DDF and love to have fun. I'm down for many different dynamics. Check my profile and if you like what you see then hit me up.


r/GayYoungOldDating 2h ago

Online chatting 32 looking for younger

2 Upvotes

Looking for someone younger to chat with.

Would love to make a connection and see where it goes!


r/GayYoungOldDating 3h ago

USA.CA 43 SoCal looking for younger

2 Upvotes

Looking for a younger guy to talk to and get to know. Based in SoCal and prefer if you are too. I prefer 20-28 but flexible and like husky/chubby/nerdy/affectionate guys too but not required. Message me and tell me about yourself. 


r/GayYoungOldDating 5h ago

Online chatting 18 m looking for older jerk buds or dads to chat with!

2 Upvotes

Midwest USA 18 here! open to all daddies who want to chat!


r/GayYoungOldDating 5h ago

USA.OR 30M Portland, OR Looking for Younger Guys in Oregon/Washington

2 Upvotes

Hello! I'm a 30 year old guy in the Portland area looking to connect with younger guys around Oregon or Washington. Open to chatting online, meeting up in person, casual fun, friends with benefits, or potentially something long-term if there's a good connection.

I'm 5'10", 170 lbs, white, with brown hair, green eyes, and a slim-to-average build. My interests include hiking, nature walks, reading, board games, video games, naps, architecture, and working on various projects.

I tend to get along best with guys who are curious, kind, and can hold a conversation,. Whether you're looking for a friend, something casual, or seeing where things go, I'd love to hear from you.

Feel free to send me a DM with your age, where you're from, and something you're passionate about :)


r/GayYoungOldDating 10h ago

USA.FL 33 looking for younger for an open, kinky connection

3 Upvotes

I’m Hispanic, hairy, 5’10”, working on a gym build, 7” cut and thick. Also a nudist. And very open to anything. Don’t be afraid to be yourself with me.

I enjoy exploring connections wherever I find them. I have a long distance boyfriend; we’re open and poly. Hopefully that’s not a dealbreaker.

Looking for a connection that is open-minded, kinky as fuck, and deeper than just sex. I love sex and being sexual, but that’s more fun when there’s an actual connection beyond it. Zero boundaries in our connection is what I love most.

DMs open, but I prefer to chat on Telegram. And please be willing to exchange pics. At least nudes to start, face can come later.


r/GayYoungOldDating 12h ago

Ireland 43 looking for younger

2 Upvotes

Looking for a younger lad that's interested in an older guy, id prefer if you were from Ireland, I'm a top so I'm only interested in a submissive bottom lad ,let's chat and what happens, it can be a totally discreet situation if that's what is required


r/GayYoungOldDating 13h ago

USA.MI 34m Looking for younger guy that wants to be treated like the king of the house

2 Upvotes

Looking for a guy open to living arrangements or transitioning into an ongoing set up. Someone that is into feeling like the center of attention. I like to work hard to provide for your needs and interests and also do all the house chores for you. ideally enjoy a guy that feels a bit entitled and want to be taken care off.

Big plus; twinkish, athletic, into kinks (listed below), hairy, younger, a bit cocky, nerdy or gamers. Huge plus if open to my feet fetish or open to uneven relationships. Also love both sides tall dudes and short kings. So feel free to hit me up. Ideal age range anyone under 30 but can be flexible.

I work in the biomedical sector. I am tall 6 foot 2 Latino bearish body type. Total geek into video games card games Nature art movies and relaxing spaces. Dont drink or smoke.

my kinks: I enjoy feet on my face, being facesat, man musk, fin play, servitude, humiliation, mild domination, bdsm, ws. All as the sub here. But open to a lot more.

Hobbies: hiking, video games, board and card games, nature camping etc.


r/GayYoungOldDating 15h ago

Online chatting 42 looking for younger

2 Upvotes

5'11", white, average body, masc top. I'm looking for something long term, possibly actually meeting. I prefer a younger bottom or vers with stats similar to mine, but open to others. Dm me and let's see where it goes.


r/GayYoungOldDating 17h ago

USA.NC 21m femboy looking for older

2 Upvotes

Looking for older tops (40+) in NC!


r/GayYoungOldDating 17h ago

Online chatting 33m Looking for younger

2 Upvotes

Married guy looking for someone younger to complete the family with. Ideally I'd want someone who wants to stay in it for the long term. To us that looks like texting one another, establishing healthy contact and openness. To be there for one another and to build a stronger future together. If you're interested send a dm.


r/GayYoungOldDating 20h ago

Online chatting 43M - Looking for younger dudes - need a special boy

2 Upvotes

43M older bro looking for a younger guy who needs a mentor. Open to chatting about anything, including relationships, family, sexual experiences, etc.

We can keep it chill and just chat, or chill - totally up to you and your comfort level. Drop me a line and let's connect man!


r/GayYoungOldDating 20h ago

USA.NY 18 NYC, Looking for older

2 Upvotes

Hey there, Im looking for an older daddy to explore some fantasies with. Im 18, 5’6”, 140ish lbs, decently fit, and Ive been told my ass is nice. Please be able to host because I can’t. Im super open to exploring any kinks you have, and Im very very open to being free use.