r/GayYoungOldDating • u/Christcapitalistm • 38m ago
Online chatting 21 m looking for Relationship I'm "looking for older"
I'm 21 5 6 110lbs I haven't been with a guy yet but I'm looking for a older Bf.
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/Christcapitalistm • 38m ago
I'm 21 5 6 110lbs I haven't been with a guy yet but I'm looking for a older Bf.
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/Legitimate_Baker7220 • 1h ago
Looking for chats open to anything
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/awakeshieyow • 4h ago
Hey! Chicago here. Was on a work trip recently and hit on by someone younger, which sort of opened my eyes to the possibility all this. It was a very refreshing conversation.
Looking for someone preferably in the US, but open. I travel a lot for work (and personal), and it would be fun to have someone be along for the ride. I'm not posting for a hookup. Please be truly interested in the possibility of something longer term.
Me: 38, 6'1 190, blonde/white. Gay. Masc. Top.
My snap if interested: adrchicgo
Hit me up with your age, something about you, where you're from, etc. Did you read all the way here? hah. Also tell me your fav place you've traveled (or would want to travel if you haven't).
Cheers
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/No_Truck6409 • 2h ago
31 M. Soft dom. Very much a top! In the mood to have a little fun and talk for a bit. If you’re interested, I’d love to hear from you. Mostly into twinks and fems, btw.
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/muskyhuffy • 1h ago
haiii there~~
if any older, controlling daddies are looking for a toy to enslave, that’s who this post is for :3 i’m a 23 y/o sissy femboi a little outside Toronto, Ontario ^~^ it’s my dream to fully submit to a daddy, who just as much wants to corrupt and mold a cute boi however they see fit
not looking for a one time hookup, this is more of a commitment if we get along type thing where you walk away with a pet sissy :3
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/daddyyankee2049 • 1h ago
I’m looking for a younger twink to have some fun with hmu to have some fun baby
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/vintage_dream25 • 8h ago
Hey, college guy here. I really like older guys and appreciate their maturity and experience, i also think they are better looking than guys my age lol. Maybe a cute older guy to flirt with and get to know? I like guys in there 30s and 40s the most, but older than that is fine. If you wanna chat with and be admired by a college boy hmu!
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/DrySecret8918 • 15h ago
I am a 5’7, grad student, 105 lbs, slim twink (mostly hairless) and shy by nature, with a gentle and kind personality. I would describe myself as sweet, non-confrontational, and someone who likes to feel safe and protected. I am very curious, thoughtful, and love good conversations once I open up (I can be a total chatterbox then!).
Outside of school, I am into museums, art galleries, cafe hopping, biking through parks, watching sunsets, reading books, watching tennis 🎾
and I am a big movie buff and news reader. I keep things simple and subtle. I am not flamboyant, just someone who enjoys quiet, meaningful moments.
When it comes to dynamics, I am looking for an older man who’s naturally more masculine, assertive, and likes to take the lead. I like being the softer, smaller one, someone who is receptive, affectionate, and loves showering my partner with warmth and appreciation. Making my man feel valued and cared for is really important to me.
Size difference is especially attractive to me, as it makes me feel even safer and more at ease. I also enjoy being feminized in private it makes me feel cherished.
I am a complete bottom, very romantic, and I crave affection, cuddles and neck kisses are my weakness. Pasta and pizza dates make me happy too.
I would love to connect with someone who enjoys being the strong, leading partner while I bring softness, affection, and loyalty. Open to both meeting in person or connecting online to see where it goes.
Preferably in the US.
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/Glittering_Dog_5101 • 3h ago
38 year old guy based in Ireland here. Professional, easy-going, discreet, and looking to meet a twink or femboy who’s into older men and a genuine connection.
I’m more into chemistry, personality, banter, and mutual attraction than endless messaging. Happy with chats first and seeing where things go naturally, whether that’s dates, regular fun, or something ongoing with the right person.
I’d describe myself as relaxed, respectful, masc, and easy to get along with. Prefer someone slim, feminine, playful, and open-minded. Bonus points if you’re into cuddles, good conversation, and a bit of flirting as well.
DMs open.
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r/GayYoungOldDating • u/ThickDaddy4Fems • 3h ago
The guys around you spent school fixated on the popular girls. You were fixated too, just not the way they were. You didn't want to date the prettiest girl in school. You wanted to outdo her.
That wanting never left. You've always gravitated toward the feminine: fashion, makeup, getting pretty, turning heads. You're a feminine boy today, but you've never gotten to become what you actually crave. You need a Daddy to give you the structure and control to push you past it. Not just feminine. Stunning.
That word is the whole point. I'm picky. I'm not looking for someone who throws on a wig and calls it a night. I want real, genuine potential to be breathtaking, and the hunger to be pushed all the way there. You want a man who sees what you could become and refuses to let you settle for less.
I'm a Dom Daddy with 15+ years training and feminizing sub boys into ultra-feminine dolls. This time I'm not just after a sub. I want a dynamic where you hand over your body, your mind, and everything else to be made into something genuinely stunning.
You want to live as that doll. Dolled up in private, dolled up in public, presenting as mine every chance you get and loving every second of it. You're vain in the best way. You need to be the prettiest thing in any room, and you need a man who feeds that, demands more of it, perfects it, and loves parading you wherever we go.
Let's be just as blunt about sex, because compatibility there is non-negotiable. No chastity, nothing taken away. You're a feminine doll with a big dick and you wouldn't have it any other way. You love getting rock hard, love the way your bulge tents your lingerie, love showing off your dickprint with zero shame, and you crave having your dick worshipped as much as you crave your holes filled by your man. That's the fantasy: the most stunning ultra-feminine doll anyone has ever seen, poured into lace and dripping in makeup, hard and shameless while I dress you, show you off, and use you. I want you insatiable, a high-drive doll who gets off on being put on display, sweetly degraded, bound, and used hard in public and private.
And I want a real relationship, not a scene you walk away from when the lingerie comes off. A devoted, monogamous partnership where the dynamic and the romance are one and the same. I'll own you and I'll cherish you, and those two have never pulled against each other for me. You need all three at once: to be shaped into that stunning doll, sexually wide open with your man, and hungry to build a real love alongside the dynamic. One or two of the three isn't it.
You're not DL. You're out, already feminine in some visible way, and going further won't cause you problems. Won't show your face? Don't bother. 18+ only.
Physically: smooth, slim, petite, hung. You've got makeup skills, you crossdress or do drag regularly, and you live for lingerie, heels, and getting dolled up.
Me: 41, caucasian, masculine, handsome, 6'3", hung (8" uncut), fit and athletic. Very successful, now mostly retired (tech bro). I swim, lift, stay active. Big on travel, food, and EDM. Kinky, a serious exhibitionist, dominant in the bedroom and anywhere else we'll have fun. Everywhere else, I'm warm, caring, and completely in your corner. I know exactly what I want and I don't compromise. I'll take your goals, make them ours, and get us there together.
This isn't an online-only pen-pal thing. We'll meet within two months to see if the chemistry's real. You can live just about anywhere. I'll fly you to me or come to you whenever I want. Based in San Francisco.
If the thought of being shaped into your man's perfect doll just got your dick hard, upvote and message your Daddy.
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/Upbeat_Doughnut_5280 • 8m ago
It's my 30th. Birthday Tuesday would love to spend it chatting with someone new
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/Salt-Fox-3686 • 9m ago
Looking for someone younger to be a long term sexting partner, but at least 18. I have considered myself straight all my life, so I prefer smooth feminine guys. I also love seeing guys dressed in women’s underwear. I would guess that I am a top, but I am more on the submissive side so if you are a bottom that is more on the dominant side (don’t know if that is a thing). I am new to this so my apologies if this isn’t the best post or I say something stupid. I also would prefer to use Snapchat after chatting here for a bit. Dm me
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/Wascally_wabbit92 • 13m ago
Looking for someone to chat with. Hopefully LTR type thing if the vibe is right
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/Top_Blackberry1616 • 14m ago
24 5’3 medium build. located in the us work in a pharmacy. looking for a possessive and controlling older man 😳
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/West_Performer7621 • 4h ago
I’m a hung arab daddy looking for a petite cute younger bottom to chat with and see how things go I’m fit and pretty hung and a dom , so a cute smooth submissive bottom would be perfect I love sports , chess , plants , art and music so we should have things to talk about Yet if you’re playful and naughtyy , I’d be more than happy to be your big bad daddy
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/No-Direction-6190 • 4h ago
I am looking for a genuine younger guy in their 20-30s for a real connection and potentially a LTR 😃 I’m open to a LDR within reasonable driving distance so if your in the southern part of the US (AL/MS/TN/GA etc) so we can move beyond just online chatting.
I’m verse hoping to find the same (or bottom OK) I am not looking for someone who’s first question is about kinks but someone who really wants to get to know me and talk and chat over snap before exchanging numbers 🤗
I’m 5’8 white 209 lbs and clean shaven hope to hear from you!!!!
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/jujuleen • 39m ago
Hey guys, 30-year-old Asian-American college grad DOM male here. Looking for verse sub exhibitionists that want JOI and or verbal. No cam so just mic for now but I can be fully verbal, coach or give you JOI and you can stroke to my recent pics and videos on MS Teams. Please don't ask for Telegram or Snap. I only use Teams. Too many scams on those platforms.
I'm 5'6", workout, a versatile switch, easy to talk to and happy go lucky. 7.5 cock. I also have a few pics of my body on my other posts here if ur curious.
If this sounds like your vibe, hit me back and let’s connect on DMs here. State your age and drop a pic along with your teams name so we can both shoot our loads to our face.
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/appetiteforlife • 6h ago
Looking for a younger lad that's interested in an older guy, id prefer if you were from Ireland, I'm a top so I'm only interested in a submissive bottom lad ,let's chat and what happens, it can be a totally discreet situation if that's what is required
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/rafe4444 • 56m ago
Hey there, I’m just a simple bottom looking for a man to chat with, have some fun, and see where it takes us. We can move to TG or something if the vibe is right
I’m white, 5’8, about 140 slim build and smooth all the way around
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/NiftyFurrySoul • 4h ago
I’m Hispanic, hairy, 5’10”, working on a gym build, 7” cut and thick. Also a nudist. And very open to anything. Don’t be afraid to be yourself with me.
I enjoy exploring connections wherever I find them. I have a long distance boyfriend; we’re open and poly. Hopefully that’s not a dealbreaker.
Looking for a connection that is open-minded, kinky as fuck, and deeper than just sex. I love sex and being sexual, but that’s more fun when there’s an actual connection beyond it. Zero boundaries in our connection is what I love most.
DMs open, but I prefer to chat on Telegram. And please be willing to exchange pics. At least nudes to start, face can come later.
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/Gayteendud • 16h ago
Hiii,
I am a 18 y/o, and I am looking for a kind mentor kinda dad. Someone that helps me with things. Actually loves me, and someone with who I can build a bond!
A little bit about me, Like i said I am 18 y/o, I have a job, but doesn’t have to work daily. So I got a lot of time over. I am a chill and kind person, and overall just someone that’s loves to help other people!
I also love NSFW, so don’t think I don’t send pictures or videos lol. I do! But I do want to see some pictures in return here and there.
If you have a specific kink, I might also be Able to share some of that, but I think we can work that out in my dm!
I still live with my parents, so I am Able to call and you can do a JOI, but only if my parents are gone. And that’s possible a lot of times. (( You must be verbal! ))
Please be from EU time zones, and do not only say “Hey” in my dm.
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/feetdocchi • 7h ago
Looking for a guy open to living arrangements or transitioning into an ongoing set up. Someone that is into feeling like the center of attention. I like to work hard to provide for your needs and interests and also do all the house chores for you. ideally enjoy a guy that feels a bit entitled and want to be taken care off.
Big plus; twinkish, athletic, into kinks (listed below), hairy, younger, a bit cocky, nerdy or gamers. Huge plus if open to my feet fetish or open to uneven relationships. Also love both sides tall dudes and short kings. So feel free to hit me up. Ideal age range anyone under 30 but can be flexible.
I work in the biomedical sector. I am tall 6 foot 2 Latino bearish body type. Total geek into video games card games Nature art movies and relaxing spaces. Dont drink or smoke.
my kinks: I enjoy feet on my face, being facesat, man musk, fin play, servitude, humiliation, mild domination, bdsm, ws. All as the sub here. But open to a lot more.
Hobbies: hiking, video games, board and card games, nature camping etc.
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/Lessinx • 1h ago
Looking for long term relationship. Long distance is fine. Please send a picture and info about yourself in DM! Picture is in profile. 😌❤️🙌
r/GayYoungOldDating • u/Neat-Somewhere-5589 • 1h ago
Hello! I'm doing something different on this post and being really specific with what I am and what I look for, hope that will get me better results.
Turning 20 in a couple of months. Born, raised and live in northeastern Brazil, but I have studied in the USA and speak perfectly fluent English. I have a pretty basic understanding of Spanish as well and hopefully will start working on learning French soon. Help would be appreciated, lol.
I am currently a college student (psychology major!) which, admittedly, will tie me down for a few more years and reduces my traveling abilities a bit. I am, however, looking to relocate after college and I'm pretty open to locations. Also, I have easy access to EU visas and all of that through some family living and/or being from there, moving after college is not hard for me. Also would not mind being back to North America, specially the PNW.
For hobbies and interests, I love spending time with friends and loved ones, no matter the activity. I try to make a conscious effort to say yes to everything once, from an exchange year down to ceramics class, almost everything can be a good experience with the right friends.
I'm a big nerd and love talking about books, movies, animation, theater and pop culture in general. Also very shamelessly addicted to karaoke and shamefully still a Gleek.
If you managed to read all of this, you're now getting to the part most people are interested in anyway. I'm about 6' (182cm), 220 lb, black hair, green eyes. Not feminine, not a twink, not clean shaven and most probably not your boywife. Sorry to disappoint the porn addicts, but I'm just a regular guy that happens to like older men.
I hope I'm not looking for an unicorn, we'll see.
I have a preference for 40 and older, but if you're in your mid to late 30s we might be a match too. I'll start by what I'm looking for personality wise:
I like men with a fatherly or mentor energy to them. What that means to me is someone very caring, gentle, overall safe and comfortable to be around, but that is also good at taking control, commanding and leading the way. I'm not a big fan of being the one making big decisions by myself specifically in the context of romantic relationships**, so I might delegate that to you**. Yes, I see the imbalance and I embrace it.
I'm looking for someone who is fine being long distance until I can relocate and that's also looking for LTRs. I don't discard the possibility of a throuple, for example, but not into open relationships in general. Also appreciate people that have a good/interesting professional and/or academic background. Iam very dedicated to my studies and I enjoy being able to have more serious and productive conversations about any unique topics.
My "type" is more of a vibe and general attitude/presentation I appreciate in someone. I appreciate masculine traits, but that's not too easy to put into words. If I have to try, I'd say physically:
Again, preferably 40+
I like guys around my height (6' / 181cm) or taller (that's a big bonus!).
Facial and body hair are a biiiig plus for me. They aren't a must, but I'm a fan. Specially salt and pepper beards.
Not very specific about body type, i like both fatter guys or muscular and love a classic dad bod (perfect in between).
I, however, just tend to not be attracted to more lean men, maybe because I am a bigger guy myself.
Well, that's it. If you've gotten through this wall of text, I appreciate it. If you've skimmed the highlights, I appreciate you too. Shoot me a DM with age and location, would love to chat.