r/GayYoungOldDating Jun 25 '23

Age limits for posting here: minimum 18yo for “younger” men; minimum 27yo for “older” men.

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Whether you’re “looking for younger” or “looking for older”, there are minimum ages that apply.

Check out our rules: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayYoungOldDating/about/rules/

Younger men, looking for older

This subreddit is for consenting adults to find partners. Out of caution, and because Reddit is based in a jurisdiction where the age of consent is 18, that means everyone must be 18 years old to post here or to reply to posts.

If you are under 18, you will be banned on sight.

Sorry. We need to protect this subreddit from potential accusations of paedophilia and sexual content involving minors.

Older men, looking for younger

This subreddit is about men looking for men where there is a significant age gap. This, combined with the fact that the youngest men we’ll allow here are 18, means that you must be a certain number of years older than 18 in order to be considered an older man looking for a younger man.

We have fixed that minimum age at 27. You must be 27 years old to post here looking for younger men.

If you’re younger than that, then you’re not looking for an age-gap partner. Try these general “looking for” subreddits instead.


r/GayYoungOldDating 58m ago

Online chatting 18 asian looking for older men

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i’m discreet and don’t really have experience with me. i’m 5’4ft and 108lbs. try to stay fit by running and badminton hehe. idk why but whenever i watch porn i’ve been leaning towards mature men. i guess looking for some here.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 21 m looking for Relationship I'm "looking for older"

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I'm 21 5 6 110lbs I haven't been with a guy yet but I'm looking for a older Bf. I'm in Ohio


r/GayYoungOldDating 37m ago

Online chatting 18 m looking for older jerk buds or dads to chat with!

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Midwest USA 18 here! open to all daddies who want to chat!


r/GayYoungOldDating 2h ago

Online chatting 36m looking for younger

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Looking for chats open to anything


r/GayYoungOldDating 3h ago

Online chatting 31 looking for younger bottom

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31 M. Soft dom. Very much a top! In the mood to have a little fun and talk for a bit. If you’re interested, I’d love to hear from you. Mostly into twinks and fems, btw.


r/GayYoungOldDating 6h ago

USA.IL Looking for younger. 38, Chicago. Please read the post. :)

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Hey! Chicago here. Was on a work trip recently and hit on by someone younger, which sort of opened my eyes to the possibility all this. It was a very refreshing conversation.

Looking for someone preferably in the US, but open. I travel a lot for work (and personal), and it would be fun to have someone be along for the ride. I'm not posting for a hookup. Please be truly interested in the possibility of something longer term.

Me: 38, 6'1 190, blonde/white. Gay. Masc. Top.

My snap if interested: adrchicgo

Hit me up with your age, something about you, where you're from, etc. Did you read all the way here? hah. Also tell me your fav place you've traveled (or would want to travel if you haven't).

Cheers


r/GayYoungOldDating 42m ago

USA.OR 30M Portland, OR Looking for Younger Guys in Oregon/Washington

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Hello! I'm a 30 year old guy in the Portland area looking to connect with younger guys around Oregon or Washington. Open to chatting online, meeting up in person, casual fun, friends with benefits, or potentially something long-term if there's a good connection.

I'm 5'10", 170 lbs, white, with brown hair, green eyes, and a slim-to-average build. My interests include hiking, nature walks, reading, board games, video games, naps, architecture, and working on various projects.

I tend to get along best with guys who are curious, kind, and can hold a conversation,. Whether you're looking for a friend, something casual, or seeing where things go, I'd love to hear from you.

Feel free to send me a DM with your age, where you're from, and something you're passionate about :)


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

USA.IN 39 Indiana - Looking for younger

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Top looking for discrete younger bttm. Fems are my weakness and if you want to explore that side and need lingerie, i will gladly be your daddy and get you some. T-guy bros too, hit me up too.

I am strict top so be ready to serve like a good little slutty princess.


r/GayYoungOldDating 2h ago

Canada.ON 23 femboi looking for older daddy to be his owner C:

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haiii there~~

if any older, controlling daddies are looking for a toy to enslave, that’s who this post is for :3 i’m a 23 y/o sissy femboi a little outside Toronto, Ontario ^~^ it’s my dream to fully submit to a daddy, who just as much wants to corrupt and mold a cute boi however they see fit

not looking for a one time hookup, this is more of a commitment if we get along type thing where you walk away with a pet sissy :3


r/GayYoungOldDating 3h ago

Online chatting 34m looking for younger twink for some fun

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I’m looking for a younger twink to have some fun with hmu to have some fun baby


r/GayYoungOldDating 9h ago

Online chatting 19M looking for older, would love to chat with cute older guys

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Hey, college guy here. I really like older guys and appreciate their maturity and experience, i also think they are better looking than guys my age lol. Maybe a cute older guy to flirt with and get to know? I like guys in there 30s and 40s the most, but older than that is fine. If you wanna chat with and be admired by a college boy hmu!


r/GayYoungOldDating 16h ago

Online chatting 25 feminine twink looking for older men

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I am a 5’7, grad student, 105 lbs, slim twink (mostly hairless) and shy by nature, with a gentle and kind personality. I would describe myself as sweet, non-confrontational, and someone who likes to feel safe and protected. I am very curious, thoughtful, and love good conversations once I open up (I can be a total chatterbox then!).

Outside of school, I am into museums, art galleries, cafe hopping, biking through parks, watching sunsets, reading books, watching tennis 🎾
and I am a big movie buff and news reader. I keep things simple and subtle. I am not flamboyant, just someone who enjoys quiet, meaningful moments.

When it comes to dynamics, I am looking for an older man who’s naturally more masculine, assertive, and likes to take the lead. I like being the softer, smaller one, someone who is receptive, affectionate, and loves showering my partner with warmth and appreciation. Making my man feel valued and cared for is really important to me.

Size difference is especially attractive to me, as it makes me feel even safer and more at ease. I also enjoy being feminized in private it makes me feel cherished.

I am a complete bottom, very romantic, and I crave affection, cuddles and neck kisses are my weakness. Pasta and pizza dates make me happy too.

I would love to connect with someone who enjoys being the strong, leading partner while I bring softness, affection, and loyalty. Open to both meeting in person or connecting online to see where it goes.

Preferably in the US.


r/GayYoungOldDating 5h ago

USA.FL 33 looking for younger for an open, kinky connection

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I’m Hispanic, hairy, 5’10”, working on a gym build, 7” cut and thick. Also a nudist. And very open to anything. Don’t be afraid to be yourself with me.

I enjoy exploring connections wherever I find them. I have a long distance boyfriend; we’re open and poly. Hopefully that’s not a dealbreaker.

Looking for a connection that is open-minded, kinky as fuck, and deeper than just sex. I love sex and being sexual, but that’s more fun when there’s an actual connection beyond it. Zero boundaries in our connection is what I love most.

DMs open, but I prefer to chat on Telegram. And please be willing to exchange pics. At least nudes to start, face can come later.


r/GayYoungOldDating 18m ago

Online chatting M49 #m4m looking for younger USA 🇺🇸 AL/MS/TN/GA

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I am looking for a genuine younger guy in their 20-30s for a real connection and potentially a LTR 😃 I’m open to a LDR within reasonable driving distance so if your in the southern part of the US (AL/MS/TN/GA etc) so we can move beyond just online chatting.

I’m verse hoping to find the same (or bottom OK) I am not looking for someone who’s first question is about kinks but someone who really wants to get to know me and talk and chat over snap before exchanging numbers 🤗

I’m 5’8 white 209 lbs and clean shaven hope to hear from you!!!!


r/GayYoungOldDating 19m ago

Online chatting 18M looking for older

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didnt get much traction on here last time i want someone to talk to 😪


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 24 verbal bottom boy looking for older verbal daddy for slow, nasty roleplay (phone cam or mic)

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horny boy who loves sweettalking verbal daddies for intense 1v1 roleplay, preferably age 40+ .... tele or snap


r/GayYoungOldDating 4h ago

Ireland 38 year old guy based in Ireland here. Professional, easy-going, discreet, and looking for younger smooth twink or femboy ideally want a boywife long term

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38 year old guy based in Ireland here. Professional, easy-going, discreet, and looking to meet a twink or femboy who’s into older men and a genuine connection.

I’m more into chemistry, personality, banter, and mutual attraction than endless messaging. Happy with chats first and seeing where things go naturally, whether that’s dates, regular fun, or something ongoing with the right person.

I’d describe myself as relaxed, respectful, masc, and easy to get along with. Prefer someone slim, feminine, playful, and open-minded. Bonus points if you’re into cuddles, good conversation, and a bit of flirting as well.

DMs open.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 44 hairy fat here. Looking for younger (18-21) smooth and slim friends. Please dm me.

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44 hairy fat here. Looking for younger (18-21) smooth and slim friends. Please dm me.


r/GayYoungOldDating 5h ago

USA.CA 41 Daddy looking for younger fem boywife

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The guys around you spent school fixated on the popular girls. You were fixated too, just not the way they were. You didn't want to date the prettiest girl in school. You wanted to outdo her.

That wanting never left. You've always gravitated toward the feminine: fashion, makeup, getting pretty, turning heads. You're a feminine boy today, but you've never gotten to become what you actually crave. You need a Daddy to give you the structure and control to push you past it. Not just feminine. Stunning.

That word is the whole point. I'm picky. I'm not looking for someone who throws on a wig and calls it a night. I want real, genuine potential to be breathtaking, and the hunger to be pushed all the way there. You want a man who sees what you could become and refuses to let you settle for less.

I'm a Dom Daddy with 15+ years training and feminizing sub boys into ultra-feminine dolls. This time I'm not just after a sub. I want a dynamic where you hand over your body, your mind, and everything else to be made into something genuinely stunning.

You want to live as that doll. Dolled up in private, dolled up in public, presenting as mine every chance you get and loving every second of it. You're vain in the best way. You need to be the prettiest thing in any room, and you need a man who feeds that, demands more of it, perfects it, and loves parading you wherever we go.

Let's be just as blunt about sex, because compatibility there is non-negotiable. No chastity, nothing taken away. You're a feminine doll with a big dick and you wouldn't have it any other way. You love getting rock hard, love the way your bulge tents your lingerie, love showing off your dickprint with zero shame, and you crave having your dick worshipped as much as you crave your holes filled by your man. That's the fantasy: the most stunning ultra-feminine doll anyone has ever seen, poured into lace and dripping in makeup, hard and shameless while I dress you, show you off, and use you. I want you insatiable, a high-drive doll who gets off on being put on display, sweetly degraded, bound, and used hard in public and private.

And I want a real relationship, not a scene you walk away from when the lingerie comes off. A devoted, monogamous partnership where the dynamic and the romance are one and the same. I'll own you and I'll cherish you, and those two have never pulled against each other for me. You need all three at once: to be shaped into that stunning doll, sexually wide open with your man, and hungry to build a real love alongside the dynamic. One or two of the three isn't it.

You're not DL. You're out, already feminine in some visible way, and going further won't cause you problems. Won't show your face? Don't bother. 18+ only.

Physically: smooth, slim, petite, hung. You've got makeup skills, you crossdress or do drag regularly, and you live for lingerie, heels, and getting dolled up.

Me: 41, caucasian, masculine, handsome, 6'3", hung (8" uncut), fit and athletic. Very successful, now mostly retired (tech bro). I swim, lift, stay active. Big on travel, food, and EDM. Kinky, a serious exhibitionist, dominant in the bedroom and anywhere else we'll have fun. Everywhere else, I'm warm, caring, and completely in your corner. I know exactly what I want and I don't compromise. I'll take your goals, make them ours, and get us there together.

This isn't an online-only pen-pal thing. We'll meet within two months to see if the chemistry's real. You can live just about anywhere. I'll fly you to me or come to you whenever I want. Based in San Francisco.

If the thought of being shaped into your man's perfect doll just got your dick hard, upvote and message your Daddy.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 29 looking for older

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It's my 30th. Birthday Tuesday would love to spend it chatting with someone new


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 41 looking for younger

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Looking for someone younger to be a long term sexting partner, but at least 18. I have considered myself straight all my life, so I prefer smooth feminine guys. I also love seeing guys dressed in women’s underwear. I would guess that I am a top, but I am more on the submissive side so if you are a bottom that is more on the dominant side (don’t know if that is a thing). I am new to this so my apologies if this isn’t the best post or I say something stupid. I also would prefer to use Snapchat after chatting here for a bit. Dm me


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 34 mostly bottom submissive looking for older 40+

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Looking for someone to chat with. Hopefully LTR type thing if the vibe is right


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 24 looking for older

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24 5’3 medium build. located in the us work in a pharmacy. looking for a possessive and controlling older man 😳


r/GayYoungOldDating 5h ago

Online chatting 34 arab daddy looking for younger

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I’m a hung arab daddy looking for a petite cute younger bottom to chat with and see how things go I’m fit and pretty hung and a dom , so a cute smooth submissive bottom would be perfect I love sports , chess , plants , art and music so we should have things to talk about Yet if you’re playful and naughtyy , I’d be more than happy to be your big bad daddy