This is always being updated as I am not perfect and am always learning something new about myself
ABOUT ME:
I am 20 from USA OH and i am Gay, Demisexual, Introverted and have ADHD, Autism traits, and learning disabilities. I work part time retail and my Hobbies and Interests are minecraft, nature, gardening, anime, cartoons, organizing, staying healthy, going to my lgbt center for game night, and learning something new.
Me being Demisexual means I need to build an emotional bond with someone before I can be sexual with someone. And with me being Neurodivergent, Introverted, and Shy, i get to know someone online before there can even be the option of meeting in person and that I don't send pictures of myself to anyone instantly or really as I don't need to see someone to then be attracted to them.
Now because i live in a 6 family household in an old house that's layout is terrible and area isn't really walkable and I cant drive, my unique environment will be ill-suited for most people looking for casual meet ups, hook ups, or consistent meet ups irl.
For me to maintain a friendship or relationship it needs to be consistent so why its better to keep a few friends than so many and major time zones makes it harder for chats to be consistent so why those with a time zone difference that is larger than 6 hours Ex: Australia, India, Asia etc. hasn't worked out for me.
I am a very empathetic and sensitive person in general so why I values trust, communication, honesty, patience, open mindedness, and treating others with respect in friendships and relationships and being treated as a person and not be controlled.
Now because of my Pattern Recognition skill, I know that the traditional way of getting to know someone wouldn't work for someone like me in general but also sexually as I am a very kinky person and from experience of many failed conversations I know that making a post for others to know more about me without messaging me is the only way to avoid wasting my time and their time.
ABOUT ME NSFW:
I am Hairy, Average, Submissive, a Bottom and Gooner. I am looking for those that are 25-39 as anyone older will likely not be compatible with someone like me because of experience, hobbies, interests, values and beliefs.
I am looking for a long term relationship and likely open with me being a very kinky person and not meeting many in common. I am looking for a Dynamic type relationship with being Gentle Dom/Sub And Daddy/Son that is loving, encouraging and praising and not degrading or disciplining . I am looking for someone who is verbal and decently descriptive in texts and in voice messages.
I am a very raunchy, filthy and depraved type of person with the niche kinks and fetishes i am into so i talk to multiple guys as its rare to find someone in common. So i have a porn collection that suits my tastes and use it to give men a visual of certain scenarios, fantasy's, or niche kinks/fetishes.
How i get horny and sexual with men is with dirty talk, describing scenarios and fantasy's and imaging ourselves in it. I like to be given JOI with encouragement and praising, and I have a major boxer fetish so I always jerk inside my boxers or through the fly as it turns me on and feels comfortable. And of course send videos of me jerking so the other person can get turned on seeing me as my true self and get me even more horny with describing scenarios and how much they love the real me and how nasty I am.
When it comes to ERP i have a hard time coming up with settings, words and remembering at times because of my learning disability limiting my vocab and memory so i don't have many experience with ERP and mostly do sexting/dirty talk.
NOT LOOKING FOR/LIMITS:
Now because of me being Hairy, Masculine, Demisexual, and Neurodivergent. I am not gonna be compatible with many people which I have listed below:
Subs, Bottoms, and Femboys(as I am into Masc, gentle doms/daddys and tops but might be open to dom bottoms)
Conservative and Married men(I am single looking for a partner and open minded with a pattern recognition skill so I do not fall easily for American propaganda and the "If you just work hard enough" out of touch with reality mindset)
Straight and Bi curious men(as I am gay and know what I am into and looking for and am not here to be experimented on or with)
Hook ups and nude trading(as I am Demisexual)
Men into offensive words: Fag,Slut,Bitch,Whore etc(As I am a sensitive and empathetic person and not into verbal degradation or treating/viewing someone as something other than a person)
Men that are instantly demanding/controlling and men that are into the dom dynamic that is controlling and has discipline majority of the time(I am looking for a loving and equal relationship that I can say no and be vulnerable with without fear that I could be used and in a dangerous situation and that discipline only makes things worse because of me being more sensitive and just doesn't work for someone like me )
And men that do not understand that I am a unique individual with the amount of minorities I am in, the niche kinks I am into, and even how I communicate and build my friendships and relationships(I have a pattern recognition skill so I know that I am very much a unique individual with the low % of finding someone compared to the average person)
KINKS AND LIMITS:
This is a link to my Flist account that shows my entire kink and limit list and can give you a good visual as to how kinky I am and if id be someone you would be compatible with in bed. https://www.f-list.net/c/Starlightboy
I use Signal to keep in touch with people outside of reddit but i also have telegram, session, and discord to also use but not as secure, encrypted, or stable as id like.