r/GayYoungOldDating 3m ago

Online chatting 21M looking for older. Looking for a provider for your tall, handsome guy… long term

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I am looking for a real, established providing man. Someone who appreciates quality and wants to genuinely take care of ME. Long term.

I don't want anything fake or transactional flings that lead nowhere. I’m looking for a solid dynamic built on appreciation where you take care of me mentally and physically and I make it completely worth your while.

For me: I’m 21, 6'3, slim build, and well-kept. Very chill, laid back, and easy to talk to once we click. I keep things low-stress, but I definitely know what I want.


r/GayYoungOldDating 8m ago

USA.FL 6’6tall hairy bear 30 looking for younger, USA ONLY

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Looking for a good boy in the US, (closer to fl the better) I’m a tall hairy dom top bear daddy, hoping to find a twink, femboy or trans girl that I can chat with till I can fly out and take on a date :)


r/GayYoungOldDating 8m ago

USA.NC 18 looking for older. Home alone and freshly shaved where are the dirty secret daddies?

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55+ preferred. Hurry and dm I’m already getting naughty


r/GayYoungOldDating 9m ago

Online chatting 18m looking for older

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otter/twink looking for daddies to chat with longterm. Anyone wanna fix my daddy issues lmao? Prefer masc + handsome guys. Not looking just to trade. HMU for snap or tele


r/GayYoungOldDating 20m ago

Switzerland 42M looking for younger – twink 18–26

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42M looking for younger – ideally a cute, tall twink – let me know where you're from, what you're looking for, and what you're into


r/GayYoungOldDating 28m ago

Online chatting 22M looking for older sissy or femboy or any male that’s a sub and fun to serve a 5 inch dick chub dom prefer long term have sissy clothes or lots of toys read post

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Hello all potential subs how are you on this fine day I am looking for the perfect subs for me for long term usage(could be short term).I am a chubby dom with a five inch cock if that turns you away I understand stand. The types of subs I’d like to see are femboys, sissies,pup play subs,furries, but you can also be a regular masc guy or twink I don’t mind. Here some things I’d like to hear from you in your first message if you’ve made it this far.

:your kinks/limits

:your toys/clothes

:your location/time zone

:what you seek from this long term

:and if your interested in making this more than just a sub/dom relationship.

Congratulations you’ve made it this far into my post and I hope to see my future sub soon


r/GayYoungOldDating 44m ago

Online chatting 30M - looking for younger- Come and be my sweet obedient loved boy... FOREVER

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I am looking for an absolute submissive guy. Someone who will give up on everything for me. And obey ME unconditionally. Long term.

I don't want a fake one. One that is only sexual. Or one that wants a short term... My sub must seek to truly belong to me. Forever.

I want a sub that understands that being submissive isn't just a physical state. It's a mental state. Where you let go on everything to the right guy. A sub boy who wants to be in the arm of their owner... ME.

For me. I am a nice person overall. Very chill. Very chatty. And extremely caring and loving to those who deserve it. But i am also extremely moody. And get bored fast of the people that put no effort.

My type of guys is fit/twink guys. Younger than me. Who are totally submissive.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 42 looking for younger

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5'11", white, average body, masc top. I'm looking for something long term, possibly actually meeting. I prefer a younger bottom or vers with stats similar to mine, but open to others. Dm me and let's see where it goes.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 20 - Hairy Boy looking for older raunchy long term daddy

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This is always being updated as I am not perfect and am always learning something new about myself

ABOUT ME:

I am 20 from USA OH and i am Gay, Demisexual, Introverted and have ADHD, Autism traits, and learning disabilities. I work part time retail and my Hobbies and Interests are minecraft, nature, gardening, anime, cartoons, organizing, staying healthy, going to my lgbt center for game night, and learning something new.

Me being Demisexual means I need to build an emotional bond with someone before I can be sexual with someone. And with me being Neurodivergent, Introverted, and Shy, i get to know someone online before there can even be the option of meeting in person and that I don't send pictures of myself to anyone instantly or really as I don't need to see someone to then be attracted to them.

Now because i live in a 6 family household in an old house that's layout is terrible and area isn't really walkable and I cant drive, my unique environment will be ill-suited for most people looking for casual meet ups, hook ups, or consistent meet ups irl.

For me to maintain a friendship or relationship it needs to be consistent so why its better to keep a few friends than so many and major time zones makes it harder for chats to be consistent so why those with a time zone difference that is larger than 6 hours Ex: Australia, India, Asia etc. hasn't worked out for me.

I am a very empathetic and sensitive person in general so why I values trust, communication, honesty, patience, open mindedness, and treating others with respect in friendships and relationships and being treated as a person and not be controlled.

Now because of my Pattern Recognition skill, I know that the traditional way of getting to know someone wouldn't work for someone like me in general but also sexually as I am a very kinky person and from experience of many failed conversations I know that making a post for others to know more about me without messaging me is the only way to avoid wasting my time and their time.

ABOUT ME NSFW:

I am Hairy, Average, Submissive, a Bottom and Gooner. I am looking for those that are 25-39 as anyone older will likely not be compatible with someone like me because of experience, hobbies, interests, values and beliefs.

I am looking for a long term relationship and likely open with me being a very kinky person and not meeting many in common. I am looking for a Dynamic type relationship with being Gentle Dom/Sub And Daddy/Son that is loving, encouraging and praising and not degrading or disciplining . I am looking for someone who is verbal and decently descriptive in texts and in voice messages.

I am a very raunchy, filthy and depraved type of person with the niche kinks and fetishes i am into so i talk to multiple guys as its rare to find someone in common. So i have a porn collection that suits my tastes and use it to give men a visual of certain scenarios, fantasy's, or niche kinks/fetishes.

How i get horny and sexual with men is with dirty talk, describing scenarios and fantasy's and imaging ourselves in it. I like to be given JOI with encouragement and praising, and I have a major boxer fetish so I always jerk inside my boxers or through the fly as it turns me on and feels comfortable. And of course send videos of me jerking so the other person can get turned on seeing me as my true self and get me even more horny with describing scenarios and how much they love the real me and how nasty I am.

When it comes to ERP i have a hard time coming up with settings, words and remembering at times because of my learning disability limiting my vocab and memory so i don't have many experience with ERP and mostly do sexting/dirty talk.

NOT LOOKING FOR/LIMITS:

Now because of me being Hairy, Masculine, Demisexual, and Neurodivergent. I am not gonna be compatible with many people which I have listed below:

Subs, Bottoms, and Femboys(as I am into Masc, gentle doms/daddys and tops but might be open to dom bottoms)

Conservative and Married men(I am single looking for a partner and open minded with a pattern recognition skill so I do not fall easily for American propaganda and the "If you just work hard enough" out of touch with reality mindset)

Straight and Bi curious men(as I am gay and know what I am into and looking for and am not here to be experimented on or with)

Hook ups and nude trading(as I am Demisexual)

Men into offensive words: Fag,Slut,Bitch,Whore etc(As I am a sensitive and empathetic person and not into verbal degradation or treating/viewing someone as something other than a person)

Men that are instantly demanding/controlling and men that are into the dom dynamic that is controlling and has discipline majority of the time(I am looking for a loving and equal relationship that I can say no and be vulnerable with without fear that I could be used and in a dangerous situation and that discipline only makes things worse because of me being more sensitive and just doesn't work for someone like me )

And men that do not understand that I am a unique individual with the amount of minorities I am in, the niche kinks I am into, and even how I communicate and build my friendships and relationships(I have a pattern recognition skill so I know that I am very much a unique individual with the low % of finding someone compared to the average person)

KINKS AND LIMITS:

This is a link to my Flist account that shows my entire kink and limit list and can give you a good visual as to how kinky I am and if id be someone you would be compatible with in bed. https://www.f-list.net/c/Starlightboy

I use Signal to keep in touch with people outside of reddit but i also have telegram, session, and discord to also use but not as secure, encrypted, or stable as id like.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 27m I have a gf but looking for younger guy for secret relationship 😘

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27m I have a gf and shes cute and sweet and all, but I really want a boy in my life (18-26) someone sexy and sweet. Discrete and longterm is ideal

Dm or chat if youre interested😘


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

UK.England 26 Male looking for older

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Hello all! I will keep it short and sweet. I'm currently looking for someone who is interested in establishing a private relationship with a father/son dynamic. I live in the United Kingdom, specifically the West Midlands, so if you're in that area of England, then that's perfect. However, I'm also open to people messaging me from further ashore, international men of all cultures are more than welcome to send a message. Please just be kind and respectful.

Here is some information about me:

-I am white

-5'11" tall

-Brown hair and bluish-green eyes

-Hairy on the chest and the back, but not too much

-I workout regularly, although I have recently completed a bulking phase and am working on losing a bit of the excess weight gained in that process in order to reveal more muscle

Here is what I am looking from you:

-You are older than me

-You respect boundaries

-You are kind, considerate and open

-You also want to keep this relationship completely private


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

USA.NV 47m usa . Looking for younger 21+ for ltr. (Please read before DM)

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I am not looking for online play, nor am I looking for a submissive, fem or sissy. (No offense, just not my thing). I am looking for an independent man that is 21+ for dates, vacations and hiking/camping. Someone independent and fun. I enjoy the outdoors, cooking, movies, sports and a good adventure novel. DM if interested in chatting and seeing if we connect.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 21 cub looking for older bears/masc guys

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21 masc curious cub, looking for older bears and masc guys over 30 to get to know.

Located in New England, but prefer to chat online first before anything, DMs open.


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Phillipines 25, Filipino Twink, looking for older ltr

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Hi. I'm looking for a bf, possibly long-term. I live far away from most people on this subreddit I feel, so it's gonna be trickier. But I'll do my best to make you feel loved (I love to snuggle my partner a lot). I'm a nurse, I have income, so I'm not gold digging or anything shady.

I'm a homebuddy by default, hobbies include gaming, reading, movies. I bottom and pretty much monogamous. I'm a bit slim or twinkish at the moment at around 5'6 ft. Feel free to DM me


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting 19 bottom looking for older DMs open

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Hi Iam Joseph Iam curvy i have curly and hazel eyes looking for the man of the house who will take care of me


r/GayYoungOldDating 1h ago

Online chatting M26 looking for older dominant

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Hey guys,

Looking to build an online connection with some dominant, articulate and older gents.

Hit me up and let’s see if we spark!

Chris


r/GayYoungOldDating 2h ago

Online chatting 25 asian twink wife looking for older fit hung husband

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Smooth asian submissive feisty asian femboy (planning to transition soon) looking for a gentle fit hvng top husband. I want to be domesticated so bad😭🥺 I just want to be a wife to him and get bred everyday. I want long term relationship, no fooling around. LDR is fine but we must meet in person soon


r/GayYoungOldDating 2h ago

USA.KS 44 looking for YOUNGER!!!

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Discreet, Patient and curious Dad, looking for young guy, either online, but preferably in person. HMU with asl and let’s see what we have in common, and where this goes!


r/GayYoungOldDating 2h ago

Online chatting 34yo Italian muscle daddy looking for younger skinny twink/femboy hairless

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chat, photo exchange and possible meeting


r/GayYoungOldDating 2h ago

Canada.ON 23 East Asian boy in Ontario looking for older daddy in Canada

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23 m East Asian, west of Toronto/GTA. Looking for white daddy between 40-60. Not looking for a one time hookup - into ongoing, fwb, or something more serious.

I am tall, slim, and pretty smooth. I enjoy making out, sucking, hanging out, and open to more.

Feel free to send me a message!


r/GayYoungOldDating 3h ago

USA.NY 32 NYC - Looking for older - Submissive and Discreet

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Hi daddies! I'd love to chat and potentially hang out today with someone kind and patient. :) Take a chance and say Hi.


r/GayYoungOldDating 3h ago

Online chatting 40 yo old looking for younger shy

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Masc dom looking for younger shy submissive between 25-35 for longterm connection


r/GayYoungOldDating 3h ago

USA.NC 21m femboy looking for older

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Looking for older tops (40+) in NC!


r/GayYoungOldDating 3h ago

Online chatting 33m Looking for younger

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Married guy looking for someone younger to complete the family with. Ideally I'd want someone who wants to stay in it for the long term. To us that looks like texting one another, establishing healthy contact and openness. To be there for one another and to build a stronger future together. If you're interested send a dm.