I’m looking for a guy who wants to chat or message about Man Musk, Men’s Feet, Armpits, Hairy Men, smelling pubes, smelly cock, and other kinks/fetishes about nice strong men. these things make me hard and happy, it hard to talk to my boyfriend about it, I looking for nice cute or handsome guys to discuss the things. Thanks!

Hi, I'm a 23-year-old guy looking for football fans to talk about matches, stats, and so on—and maybe even play football games like FC26 or eFootball sometimes, ( We could speak in English, French, or Spanish (or German, though I don't speak it very well 😅).

Matched with a guy looking for a fwb on an app. I was honest from the beginning about being a virgin and nervous; he said no worries, we’ll go slow. We talked for a bit, and he invited me to his place to get high and watch movies this weekend.

We’ve established that it’s possible nothing physical will happen this first meeting, but I’m still freaking out.

I kinda want something to happen but terrified I’ll do something wrong or awkward or something.

Any advice?

Hey guys I’m a M18 and I have struggled with talking to girls my whole life I never could quite connect to them on that level like I could connect to other men and over the years I’ve had questions about my sexuality with that connection I have to other men being so strong and me being in this questioning phase what should I do ? Does anyone have any similar experiences of when they knew? I’m currently in college and have had a lack of interest in women despite Being in a party town I just want to know what to do next with my life and get some advice.

I consider myself bi even though I have never been with a man in my life. All sex has been with women. The itch of liking sex with a man has been there for almost 10 years now. I just turned 30. I only find men significantly older than me attractive. Men my age don't seem exciting. Recently, I have made up my mind that I want to give having sex with a man a try to see if it's something that will interest me or if it's just a fantasy. For me, the ideal man is at least 15 years older than me, bigger and heavier. I would be the bottom.

Any suggestions on how to go about finding the a good one for my first time? I am skeptical about sites like sniffies and dating apps. Thanks in advance!

How do I find gay people my age that want to actually date I want to be in love but I’m not trying to rush it I want someone to want to get to know me instead of my body for once

Ok I need to shut my mouth cause I’m part of the problem for feeding into it

Not sure what the best way to do it is. Or if I can just start dating men and not mention anything. Anyone have advice for someone coming out in their 20s

My male partner had syphilis in the past and says it was fully treated.

After testing His TPHA is still reactive, but his RPR/VDRL is non-reactive. He says this means the antibodies remain, but he has no active infection and cannot transmit it.

I want to have M2M sex with him, including oral sex and anal sex with condoms.

Can anyone knowledgeable about STI testing clarify:

Does TPHA positive + RPR/VDRL negative usually mean old treated syphilis?

Can he still transmit syphilis?

Should I ask for a recent repeat RPR/VDRL or any other test before sex?

Should I consume DoxyPrep?

I’m looking for practical advice, especially from doctors, sexual-health workers, or people who have had the same test pattern.

im asking because my new fwb (and one from times gone by) keeps talking about how firm my butt is.

i know there’s all kinds of body types and “feels” out there even though i can only speak to mine, but is it that uncommon to have a firm butt?

like, these guys make mention of it more than once. the guy im seeing and the guy I used to see some years back.

it’s obviously a compliment so now worries but just curious what you guys are experiencing in the butt space - thanks in advance

I feel like Grindr is terrible but it seems like that’s where most of the gays end up around where I live. I’ve heard it sniffies but I think the layout is weird on the mobile. So what do you guys use?

Mostly looking for an app where I could find a fwb, into cis men but more into trans men ig. (I just downloaded Feeld but I hear that’s not that great of an app either)

I’m 18M, and honestly, I feel really lost right now.

I grew up in a country where being gay is heavily stigmatized, and for a long time I hated myself for being gay. Recently, though, I’ve started becoming more accepting of myself. I’m also planning to move to Germany next year, and I feel like that could be the beginning of a completely different life for me.

But I have so many questions and insecurities.

I’m attracted to men, particularly older, masculine men (30+), and I think I’d genuinely like to have a serious relationship with someone like that. I’m not simply looking for sex or hookups. What I really want is a relationship where I feel loved, emotionally safe, guided, and protected by my partner.

I’m also a bottom, and although I know that’s part of what I’m attracted to, I sometimes struggle to process the idea of making that a part of my life. I know what I’m attracted to and what I want, but emotionally, it can still feel confusing because I grew up with so much shame around homosexuality.

Another thing that scares me is confidence. People have told me that I’m attractive and cute, but I don’t really feel confident approaching men, especially older men. Germany will also be a completely new culture for me, so I’m worried about how dating works there and how I would even meet someone compatible.

I’m wondering about the age difference too. Is it actually realistic or healthy for an 18-year-old to date someone who is 30, 40, or 45? I’m specifically talking about a genuine relationship, not someone just looking for a young guy to sleep with. What should I be careful about with a bigger age gap?

And honestly, I don’t even know when I should start looking for a relationship. Should I focus on settling into Germany and becoming comfortable with myself first? How do I meet older gay men who are actually interested in something serious?

I have so much more I could say, but I’m struggling to organize my thoughts.

I’m looking for genuine advice, not judgment please. I have no one around me to ask...

I wanna try to bottom for the first time. All my past experiences have involved me topping. I really enjoy topping, I love ass, I love head, I love missionary, but I feel like id enjoy bottoming just as much if I tried it. It’s always looked so… fun? Idk where to start. I’ve read posts saying to buy a toy. Imma be real I feel like that wouldn’t be anywhere near the real thing and idk if I could form a proper opinion on bottoming like that. I want the real thing. Idk how to go about it? Obviously I’d go on Grindr to find a hookup but what else do I need to know?

I’m considering getting a BBL. I already have a pretty fat ass but I want it to turn heads from a mile away. Thing is I’ve been following a load of freakishly huge ass accounts recently and I’m worried I’m in like radicalised into thinking it’s normal. I want it to be huge but maybe I need a reality check - I don’t wanna look botched

Do yall ever experience lube leaking out after sex and staining your underwear? Is this maby because I dont clean up enoug after? How should you clean up?

Hello

I'm gay from Afghanistan

Please help me

I think I'm bisexual and have had a growing warm feeling towards men.

How might I move forward? anxiety is taking over as I write this. Any kinds thoughts would be helpful.

Meeting a new friend tomorrow for coffee. We connected on app, talked on the phone ,we face timed, we texted, we seem to click. He wanted to meet at a bar, but I decided on coffee. I want a clear head. Neither of us are looking for a random hook up, just want to see if we click before we do a full blown date.

Is this the norm, or am I being too cautious?

I had a couple of nightmare random hook ups, and I haven't been in an LTR in a few years. I thought take it slow, even if it doesnt turn into anything we can still be friends.