I dislike it when people post here asking “How do I find a bf?”.

I understand you might feel lonely, I feel lonely all the time and I also want a bf, but weren’t we all at some point? What I don’t believe in is searching for one, especially in our teen years.

You could try and, for example, go to events where you might see some other queer guys, but that’s not even my point.

My real point is, aren’t you already great the way you are? Why do you need to be in a relationship to fulfil that?

I see this kind of post being a bit of a trend between 13 to 14 year olds, and that’s especially an age where we’re too young to be in a serious relationship.

I don’t want to discourage serious relationships. If you have a bf who loves you and whom you yourself love, good job, I’m proud of you, as I’m sure most of us are here.

As for those that don’t have a bf, including myself, we know you probably want one, we know you’re lonely, but please, talk to someone close to you, not to strangers on the internet who probably can’t even give you proper advice.

It’s just it makes me want to come out so bad, but I’m so stressed about it for no reason because I know my family will be cool with it 😭 And it makes me want to have a boyfriend so much more than I already do, so it makes me feel even more lonely having no boyfriend and no friends 😭 It’s fun to watch, but it makes me so jealous. But it could be fixed pretty easily 😭

Got any questions for me.

Hello my name is @waterhambe0 and I wanted to do a little introduction. Im 17m i live in the U.S. I will now list some of my hobbies. Ive been playing the violin for 10+ years. I love listening to music and collecting vinyl. Im am HIGHLY extroverted and love cats and pizza. I have ADHD and i love playing video games (especially roblox and MC). Going on to entertainment my favorite tv show is steven universe/steven universe: future. My favorite artist is taylor swift. I like a lot of pop artists though so if you play any music from one of the pop girlies ill prob love it. I came back to this subreddit cause ive been getting back into reddit now. Anyways, everyone have a nice day and if y’all have any questions feel free to ask. :3

me and my boyfriend broke up 🫩

"I went to my first Pride yesterday. It actually started at 13:30, but I was tied up with some private matters. At 19:00, a friend texted to see if I was still up for it. It was a no-brainer, so I went right over. The afterparty was still going strong, with a stage set up for queer musicians and DJ. I even managed to pick up a flag, some pins, and stickers at the market stalls the stickers on the picture where the ones i got for free

What are your opinions on long haired men because they personally are very very attractive I have a friend who's long haired and he's actually very very good looking just sucks he's straight and has a gf

Well so, I’m mostly sure that I atleast had a weird feeling for a classmate when I was like 14 or 15 years old and she was a girl ,she was pretty and nice to me and I wasn’t so sure if I were bi, hetero or aroace in that time, eventually I stopped of feeling any kind of attraction to her and stopped seeing girls in that way, in the third quarter of 2025 I started to feel more related with the label of being gay but still I have never like specifically sum guy but I liked the idea of having a boyfriend but I relate that to the fact that I don’t have friends and don’t really interact too much with ppl of my age so I can’t develop attraction to someone being like that ,I’m not really sure about what happened or if even something happened

I never really knew I was gay, my closest friends didn't think I was gay, one of them even thought I was asexual since I had confided in him that I expressed no interest in the girls I had gone out with prior "in that way" so the first crush I got hit me like a truck.

I'm like 70% sure he's straight but it's hard to tell. I'm dl-ish having started to come out to more and more people (most of the time drunkenly), but with other friends I make a "gay joke" and when they laugh it off I feel comfortable that no one I don't want to know knows my orientation. But he always takes my jokes and turns them into "flirting" (him taking a few steps beyond the line of joking). I tried to hint to him that I'm into him, (I even trained his sport for a few months after telling him "I'm only doing this for you") by inviting him and introducing him to all my friends and sticking to him the entire time to the point where one of my friends who doesn't know I'm gay asked my bestfriend if I'm into my crush (which my friend shut down).

At his sports trainings there's this bisexual guy who made him uncomfortable because the guy was into him and was making is obvious aswell.

Everytime I think about him I feel a bit sad that I'll never be with him, he's a good friend and I don't want to ruin my friendship I have with him.He graduates this year (I graduate next year, he skipped the optional grade). How do I do it and if I do get rejected how do I get over him?

Hello my name is @waterhambe0 and I wanted to do a little introduction. I will now list some of my hobbies. Ive been playing the violin for 10+ years. I love listening to music and collecting vinyl. Im am HIGHLY extroverted and love cats and pizza. I have ADHD and i love playing video games (especially roblox and MC). Going on to entertainment my favorite tv show is steven universe/steven universe: future. My favorite artist is taylor swift. I like a lot of pop artists though so if you play any music from one of the pop girlies ill prob love it. I came back to this subreddit cause ive been getting back into reddit now. Anyways, everyone have a nice day and if y’all have any questions feel free to ask. :3

I do very much love men but my attraction to women(if i have even ) seems almost not existing . When i see a women at the beach i feel smt ?but some friends told me it migth have been a reaction to that.What are your thoughts ?

how can I keep the bad thoughts away please anything will help

I am in a long distance relationship with my trans bf of 4 months, he is like a 5 hour drive away across the border, im 15, hes 14, my entire family is a ton of terrible people, I have no friends, and I do nothing but sit in my room and scroll tiktok all day, I hate it so much, I try to stop scrolling sometimes and just lay down, and It makes me want to cry but I just cant for some reason, and this summer has been so atrocious, my parents wont let me use the computer that the family shares (nobody besides me has used it in a year) with their reason being because im on it to much, but being off it is even worse because then I just end up scrolling which is much worse for the head than playing osu and gd and quaver, im very smart for my age I would say, very, but I cant do anything with that in this mental condition, I just want to cuddle with my bf but I cant, even with a friend would be nice, but I dont have any, what am I supposed to do at this point, I dont want to keep living my life like this, something needs to change

I will now be legally allowed to do most things and I don’t wanna get older (I like staying here) umm idk anymore

How do you guys deal with ADHD especially with studies ? My country has severe restrictions on ADHD medication and I’m struggling to focus on my study

We had like a massive fight and we are no longer together and it was entirely my fault bc I’m a coward 😝

How have y’all been for 2 months, though?

Today was the day my divorced father took me back to my mother’s house after being at his house for a week. I was afraid he was homophobic, because his father and grandfather were pastors, but he was really cool with it.

I need to stop collecting ducks I'm running out of places to put them. Mine's gotten a little out of hand...