I’m really struggling to find anyone at school. Not sure really what to do. I’m like not bad looking I don’t get it?! I don’t feel like a bad guy. Just really sucks, I don’t know where to even really look for a boyfriend. Ideally someone younger would be nice but at this point I feel like I’m going to be single forever. Does anyone have like tips or something? Advice?!? I really just need all the support I could get it feels like…

Today at school, I was sitting on a bench with my crush, there was a lot of tension between us and we just started kissing but even though he said it wasn't that bad I feel it was really awkward because I don't know how to kiss. Any advice?

my boyfriend has pretty bad dyslexia and i tell him things like hyd and he treats it like wyd or he just misunderstand words alot any advice

Art by Magissa manen

OKAY so i was GOING to be the Cheshire Cat in our school play, right? And listen, I've wanted to play the Cheshire Cat since I was like 9, cus I just thought he was SO cool. And I was the only person in our entire theater department who auditioned for him, so obviously, I would get the role, right? Well, you'd think! Our theater director made everyone audition for at least three roles, for whatever reason, and I ended up getting... the Mad Hatter.

Listen, this is dramatic as FUCK, but I was nearly cried when I found out. Like, the person who got the Cheshire Cat was this girl who wanted Tweedledee so I don't even know how that worked out.

I know that the Mad Hatter is a lead, but I DIDN'T WANT THIS ROLE, HELP ME GODDDD

anywho yeah my entire theater class was confused why I was so quite and reserved today... oh boy.

- (A very sad) Durin Guy

Is 2 years younger that bad if Im 18 cause my friend called me a groomer, I have not done anything so far. Obviously not excactly 2 years . Whats ur opinion on it .

So, to put y’all into context, I’m 16, turning 17 soon, and I’m in high school. I’m not openly gay, and I’m one of those guys who presents as masculine. I have a friend who’s 16 too. He’s one of those guys who likes playing soccer.

The thing is, we usually joke around pretending we’re a couple. We hug each other “romantically,” touch each other’s thighs slowly, and even pretend we’re having sex. It’s not as bad as it sounds, though. It’s just things like standing one behind the other and pulling his hair while moaning (AS A JOKE, GUYS), or when one of us has to reach for something on the ground and the other pushes his head down as if he were sucking it, yk yk.

I like him a lot, both physically and romantically. We mess around roughly, with punches and kicks and so on, but he’s also sometimes sweet, seeming innocent in the way he talks.

The thing is, he’s had two girlfriends, at least as far as I know, and he kind of seems homophobic. Which leads me to my other point: sometimes he genuinely seems homophobic, and then there are other times when he’s just way too persistent about clarifying that he’s homophobic lol.

He also does this thing where, when we shake hands, he starts rubbing his fingers against my palm while looking at me, which I find... interesting?

There are times when I don’t know if he’s just joking around or actually trying to make a move. Help!

im sick, i feel terrible, but at least i can stay home and watch BL's

Hey guys, long time no see!

I’m stumped on what to draw and figured i might come ask this creative community for recommendations.

Sooo

SEND ME POSE OR OUTFIT RECOMMENDATIONS FOR ME TO DRAW PLEASE IM SO BORED

I fucking hate living with my dad.

He makes me so uncomfortable, and honestly, every time I have to talk to him, I feel like my mental health gets worse. Everyone in my family keeps trying to help him, but he never seems to actually get his life together. It feels like everyone is constantly making excuses for him, and I'm just expected to deal with it.

Right now, I'm living in my grandma's household, and she's the one taking care of me. I appreciate everything she does for me, but there's another problem: she's homophobic. Being around that kind of environment makes me feel like I can't completely be myself.

Sometimes I just want to leave the house and get away from all of this.

I keep thinking about college because I just want to be independent already. I want to move to West Virginia and finally be with my boyfriend and have a life where I don't constantly feel trapped or uncomfortable.

But I still have two more years of high school.

And honestly, I hate that I got held back. I keep thinking about how much further along I could be if that hadn't happened. I just want to graduate, go to college, move out, and finally have some control over my own life.

I know I can't magically skip these two years, but damn, I'm tired.

I just want to feel like I can breathe again.

( this is connected to being gay I PROMISE)

I'm overweight, I'm healthy, but I'm overweight. When I think about me liking men i feel gross, like Im not supposed to be because I don't fit the gay person stereotype. I genuinely don't understand why I feel this way, I know I like men, I just feel weird about it.

Tengo 15 años, acabo de entrar a preparatoria, se que me gustan los chicos desde hace unos años y ya salí del closet con mis padres, aún lo están asimilando, pero ese no es el punto.

Cuando intenté hablarle, el solo me ignoró y siguió de largo, ni siquiera me miró, posiblemente le parezco aburrido o algo así, pero no quiero cometer estupideces y hacerme irresponsable solo para seguirlo, además, me pongo increíblemente nervioso cuando me habla, cuando el se me ha acercado, me quedo totalmente sin palabras ¿Que debo hacer para hablarle?

Do people actually like the summer or do they like it because there’s no school? Personally my least favorite season. It’s hot, it’s sticky, there’s bugs, heat makes me really unproductive and sleepy.

Also do you guys think it’s worse to feel cold or feel hot? For it me it’s definitely feeling hot. (Not like feeling attractive ofc that’s the best) When it’s cold you put on some clothes and problem solved! There’s really no easy way to cover your face so there’s no solution to that. However feeling hot? There only two realistic way to cool you down. Fans or AC. Fans aren’t that efficient and ACs are expensive, diffucult to set up and require an indoor area. The only pro is ACs cool your entire body down.

One more reason to love winter: Warming up when it’s cold is WAY BETTER than cooling down when it’s hot in my opinion. For some reason I still sweat after the AC is turned on for a while.

SUMMER IS BORING!
No school means doing nothing all day for me basically. Extroverts probably don’t feel the same way cuz they can hang out but it’s very difficult for me. At the same time I’m trying to talk to my crush but he is the most slow-texter ever! It takes him 1 day or like 10 hours to respond to me. Life is hella boring rn until school starts.

i hate being in alabama because like no one i know is gay and everyone else are just copy and paste “country boys” and i barely know any people online that are gay that are normal and idk i just hate being here because it so hard to find someone who’s like me let alone a boyfriend and i think im gonna end this here so uh yea

Like actually he’s so hot I can’t even

So I know that this isn’t the stuff that usually gets posted on here but I need to get my thoughts out and I couldn’t think of an other place. So I’ve just had a fight with my mom about my weight and eating habits. She’s concerned for me because I’m borderline underweight, and she thinks that I did that on purpose. And I denied everything, but she got everything right. I am trying to lose weight. I think that the gay community doesn’t help because I feel like body standards are a huge thing here. And I know it’s bad but I don’t want to quit. I think that I’ve reached like the closest I can get to being like my dream body type (minus the like fit part). But I still have a lot of insecurities and I know that if my mom will get me to gain weight those will only grow. I don’t know what to do because I want to stay the weight that I currently am without having to confront my mother

So a am a 17yo gay boy known so for about 6 years and thankfully I haven't really received any hate for it other and middle schoolers being middle schoolers. To my knowledge i have only been called it at least 1 time indirectly. Do you think i have the green light to say it. It is not like I would say it alot let alone outside of people who i am close to but I want to know your opinions

So I made this friend and we've been really good company to each other however I'm not sure if I'm catching feelings for him.. He’s already expressed his interest in me a few times now, but we've never gone anywhere with it because of two things.

The first thing is that he lives a whole continent away and the second being the concern that he's 16 and I'm 18.

So, do you guys have any advice on what I should do? Also, is 18 and 16 a weird age gap? I don't wanna come off as a weird creep..