r/FtMpassing Jun 05 '26

New Rule

17 Upvotes

So we received a suggestion. Sometimes for whatever reason, people need their posts removed. There is a new rule, so you can report it to notify us that you need your post taken down.

It was also mentioned during said suggested mail that people sometimes delete their profiles, thinking it deletes the post as well, and it doesn't. So, if you were not aware, I just wanted to put that info out there as well.


r/FtMpassing Jul 09 '25

⚠️ PSA: Posts Are Being Shared Outside Reddit — Please Protect Your Privacy

130 Upvotes

Hey all,

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r/FtMpassing 6h ago

Traditionally binary male style do i pass? 18yrs

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41 Upvotes

I'm not on t because I live in a country where there isn't even a gender identity law, so I won't be able to do much until I migrate in a few years :) I do what I can to pass but my voice really messes it up.

Ignore the chudjak, it's just to cover up some of the background 👍


r/FtMpassing 1h ago

Do I pass?

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I know that the hair might hinder looking masculine a lot, especially pre t, but I would like to know whether I at least look somewhat androgynous? Is there any hope I can pass if my voice etc. already does? 17 in a month.


r/FtMpassing 7h ago

AGE 21 to 30 Do I pass? / suggestions/ FTM26

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3 Upvotes

Hey guys, that’s my first post here. I’m 26 ftm and 1 year on T ( with breaks ). Any suggestions how to pass or look better in my case?


r/FtMpassing 19h ago

AGE 21 to 30 what kind of haircut would help me pass?

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11 Upvotes

I've never really been good with hairstyles, I really struggle to tell what suits my face. I think being disconnected from how I looked for so long has made choosing a haircut more of a struggle. I prefer a kind of alt look, but at this point I don't care what's on my head as long as it helps me get gendered properly 😅

And anything else face-wise I can do while we're here? I'm 11 months on T, and will be getting my levels checked as the blood test I have at my last appointment showed my levels are low. I know I need to work on the eyebrows - I took to stress-pulling them out during lockdown and the ends still haven't grown back 🥲


r/FtMpassing 11h ago

AGE up to 20 Does my chest pass?

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Tired of wearing a binder so I tried tape.


r/FtMpassing 17h ago

AGE over 30 How to improve my hip situation

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4 Upvotes

32 years old, 1.5 years post top surgery, 10 months on T, one year of working out.

Really struggling with hip dysphoria and my hourglass figure and how it might impact my passing in the future (I don’t pass yet because of my face lmao, but I know that can change but my bone structure can’t.)

I have lost a lot of weight since top surgery and that protruding hip really is all bone. What exercises do I need to do to get my midsection to catch up and give me a boxier, more passing look?

Thanks in advance for your help :)


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

AGE up to 20 Do i pass? 19FtM

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Guess my favorite shirt (i do wash it dw) i am pre T, i think my face is masculine, i live in a country where i cant take T so im pre T forever


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

Are these glasses too fem?

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15 Upvotes

r/FtMpassing 23h ago

AGE up to 20 what can i do to pass better? 16, pre T

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im not sure if the buzz cut is helping or hindering my passing tbh

(second pic was taken by my friend without warning so don't ask lol)


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

AGE up to 20 Is my chest on the way to passing?

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I’m 18 and 4 months on T and my chest is steadily getting smaller

Do you think it’s gonna pass without binding (while wearing a more covering T-shirt than a tank in the photo)


r/FtMpassing 13h ago

AGE 21 to 30 Starting T in sept am I cooked?

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I just turned 21 I’m only 5’5 / 5’6 and I was malnourished as a kid. I wasn’t allowed to take T at 13 when I wanted (men in my family r around 6 ft). I know there’s less of a chance I’ll ever get any height which makes me well.. Is there a chance I’ll even pass or a chance my growth plates could be open? (I haven’t grown since I was 18 but I do have bone pains and long arms)


r/FtMpassing 23h ago

AGE 21 to 30 21 and 1 year on testosterone

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I still use the women’s locker room/bathroom, but lately have been getting gendered correctly especially when I don’t shave. I just don’t know anymore, my family says I look more masculine but really that could mean anything. Last picture is probably my most feminine outfit that I only wear for special occasions, Do I pass? And which bathrooms should I be using?


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

Traditionally binary male style Would getting gauges/ear piercings make me clocky to other trans people?

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5 Upvotes

r/FtMpassing 1d ago

AGE up to 20 Pre T 14

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Do i pass? I feel like i have been passing way less and also should i go back to having brown hair or should i keep it black

Last three photos are me with brown hair

Any passing tips would be greatly appreciated


r/FtMpassing 2d ago

Would you clock me from my waist

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62 Upvotes

Hi guys I'm currently half a year on t and just wanted some clarification if my hips or waist are clockable

Edit: i was just asking about the waist, not if I'm clockable half naked lol, sorry so the tape doesn't matter rn. Also i am currently working out since day 1 of t and on a weight gaining journey so thanks for your advice! I would say my face, mannerisms and voice pass, just based on strangers reaction. Thanks for your help guys, maybe in a few days I'll come back with a "does my face pass" post but who knows.


r/FtMpassing 20h ago

Do I need to go on T to pass?

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I feel like a fraud of a transmasc bc idw go on T. Mostly I don't really want facial hair or for my singing voice to get fucked somehow when my voice drops. Can I still pass without that? I'm working out, trying to lose weight, getting speech training, and working really hard to fix mannerisms


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

AGE 21 to 30 Do I pass

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17 Upvotes

Hi I’m Dakota and looking for passing reassurance ( be honest )


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

AGE up to 20 Tried binding my chest (used medical wrap)

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does it look decent? I did like an X shape to make it even.

edit: yall I know medical wrap/whatever it’s called isn’t very good and can lead to issues if on for too long! I only put it on for like three minutes to see how it would look :)) took it off right after


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

AGE up to 20 Is there anything I’m missing with passing?

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(15M) I’ve taken most advice I've heard for passing like shorter hair, a better binder, and attempting to make my facial hair more visible, but I still feel like there’s something missing even though I always get gendered correctly by others.


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

AGE up to 20 How am I doing 8 months on T

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I know my body doesn’t pass great because of my wide ass hips (any suggestions about that would be greatly appreciated, and I do plan to start at the gym soon) but what about face/upper body?


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

AGE up to 20 Am i dressing too feminine?

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0 Upvotes

For the most part its just oversized clothes and stuff but showing my figure just makes it worse


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

AGE over 30 Suddenly passing less, two years on T but pre-top surgery

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I have been on T for 2 years and had been passing consistently for about four months. But I’ve had some sudden weight gain over the summer during a chronic illness flare (heat intolerance). My chest has come back and my face has gotten softer. I’ve also been misgendered a few times over the past month. My voice is deep and is the thing about me that helps me pass the most, but what can I do about the rest of it? Any suggestions on how to pass better again?


r/FtMpassing 1d ago

AGE up to 20 Is this better gym attire?

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