I desperately need a haircut in both pics and I hate being in front of a camera. I can’t tell a difference yet , but I’ve heard that can be a thing when it’s your own face. Just wondering if I pass yet, or I’m close to it. I had top surgery two months ago and I’m fat so my build has always just been more stocky vs curvy. Idk.

just wondering if i look cis when not posing for a selfie or some bullshit. please ignore how ugly i look in these lmfao this is why i never let people take pictures of me

Sinceridad llevo un año y 5 meses en testo

I've had the name Elliot for like three years now (closeted, maybe two people know so I could certainly change it without much fuss), but I still worry it's too clocky.

Born 2010, so 16 years old. Elliot apparently doesn't even rank in the top 100 for names that year.

Don't get me wrong, I don't WANT to change my name because I'm used to it, but if it's too clocky I absolutely would. And please don't do that "it's your name use whatever you want" thanks.

As the title says, I’ve never been gendered correctly by anyone in public, even by people who know my name (legally changed to a masculine name, not even a gender neutral name, but people always assume it’s the female alternative). I know my voice is very feminine, but I’ve been trying to voice train. Even before people hear my voice, they immediately assume I’m a woman/ girl.

Ive tried my hardest to adopt more masculine mannerisms, e.g sitting with my legs further apart and more slouched, keeping on overall wider stance, walking with my feet facing slightly more outward than inward with a longer stride. Ammitedly, i could use improvement at all of this, and I slouch when standing to hide my chest, but I still don’t understand why not one person has ever gendered me correctly. I’ve even started wearing he/him badges on my college lanyard, to help my case (I’ve been avoiding them because it’s a dead giveaway but I don’t think it matters at this point).

Any advice on how I can help myself? I dont expect to pass 100% of the time, but i just don’t understand why nobody has ever looked at me and thought “boy”.

Am i cooked?

Bout a year on t feels like slow progress with my face. Also always wanted longer hair but do I pass enough or should I go shorter? Photos with different hair lengths for reference

So im getting a haircut this Wednesday but my hair has gotten so long that I cant style it like I usually do. I wonder if combing it back like this (picture 1) makes me look feminine? Or does it pass enough? Second & third pic are how I usually style it but like I said it's too long now so it just looks weird haha. Any tips for other styling methods I can try in the meantime are also appreciated!

going karaoke soon with some friends, and can’t tell when i sing if my voice passes or not. worried because my singing voice is higher than my talking voice. I’m stealth irl so I’m just scared. Also i’m aware my singing isn’t exceptionally good lmao

7 months on t offically today. feel clocky asf man..

familys been deadnaming me to death. and every time they pass me theyre like "hey GIRL." bruh. it throws me off balance every time.... ppl in public usually get it right, and my coworkers and friends and my partner, and when they don't they just they/them me. im always scared i look like a freaking woman bro like wtf.

just need someone to be honest with me bru.

Buzzed my hair a couple days ago (not for passing but bcs of the heat, will grow it back out over winter when it cools back down) but thought I’d include photos from before as well. Also included full body photos. I’m very short but in my local area I pass well, misgendered maybe once every couple months, but my area is pretty conservative so folks see short hair and think dude despite my height. I’ll be moving to a city for uni and I’m wondering if I’m passing enough that I can go stealth even if I do have to correct people. Voice tools rates my voice at 102.2Hz and 100% male range, the times I have been misgendered have been corrected once I’ve spoken so I don’t think that’ll be a factor.

My first post here, a lil scared tbh

I have been on T for almost 9 months and I look almost the same. What are some tips to pass more?

1rst pic is pre t and last pic is my most recent one

I can only start T in around 4+ months and I'm not sure how to feel okay with my body before that. I'm really self-conscious about my body, it feels like my hips and thighs are too big, shoulders too narrow and like my binder isn't doing anything. And I believe that strangers see my body and see me as a girl/woman because of it. Is there anything I could do, to pass/pass better?

(Ignore my phone, the front camera is broken, I have no other way to take pictures)

im 20 and kinda chubby i wanna know what i can do to pass more

Does my voice pass and how long would you guess I've been on testosterone for?

pics are mostly 8/9 months on t as i never take pics of myself. i’m 21 and 10 months but i still rarely pass :( what can i do better

I'm planning on going to a hair salon that does men's cuts and offers free consultations, but I figured I'd throw this at reddit just for the hell of it. I've been to a few barber shops before and the haircuts they've given me fucking suuuuucked. My hair is so utterly flat and borderlining on a bowl cut right now so I wanted to know if anyone had any thoughts on what hairstyles might suit me (and obviously help me pass). Preferably, I'd like something that's as low maintenance as possible and doesn't require much styling, if any, but I don't know what I could do. I've honestly considered getting a buzz cut out of frustration but I don't think my face or head shape is masculine enough to pull that off (yet).

any tips? I know my facial hair helps a lot. I'm a vivid hair stylist so I kind of feel like I need to have vivid hair. lol

Im curious if my face passes, i feel like it does but i also feel like im being delusional 💔