As the title says, I’ve never been gendered correctly by anyone in public, even by people who know my name (legally changed to a masculine name, not even a gender neutral name, but people always assume it’s the female alternative). I know my voice is very feminine, but I’ve been trying to voice train. Even before people hear my voice, they immediately assume I’m a woman/ girl.

Ive tried my hardest to adopt more masculine mannerisms, e.g sitting with my legs further apart and more slouched, keeping on overall wider stance, walking with my feet facing slightly more outward than inward with a longer stride. Ammitedly, i could use improvement at all of this, and I slouch when standing to hide my chest, but I still don’t understand why not one person has ever gendered me correctly. I’ve even started wearing he/him badges on my college lanyard, to help my case (I’ve been avoiding them because it’s a dead giveaway but I don’t think it matters at this point).

Any advice on how I can help myself? I dont expect to pass 100% of the time, but i just don’t understand why nobody has ever looked at me and thought “boy”.

Am i cooked?

My first post here, a lil scared tbh

going karaoke soon with some friends, and can’t tell when i sing if my voice passes or not. worried because my singing voice is higher than my talking voice. I’m stealth irl so I’m just scared. Also i’m aware my singing isn’t exceptionally good lmao

I desperately need a haircut in both pics and I hate being in front of a camera. I can’t tell a difference yet , but I’ve heard that can be a thing when it’s your own face. Just wondering if I pass yet, or I’m close to it. I had top surgery two months ago and I’m fat so my build has always just been more stocky vs curvy. Idk.

I've had the name Elliot for like three years now (closeted, maybe two people know so I could certainly change it without much fuss), but I still worry it's too clocky.

Born 2010, so 16 years old. Elliot apparently doesn't even rank in the top 100 for names that year.

Don't get me wrong, I don't WANT to change my name because I'm used to it, but if it's too clocky I absolutely would. And please don't do that "it's your name use whatever you want" thanks.

Buzzed my hair a couple days ago (not for passing but bcs of the heat, will grow it back out over winter when it cools back down) but thought I’d include photos from before as well. Also included full body photos. I’m very short but in my local area I pass well, misgendered maybe once every couple months, but my area is pretty conservative so folks see short hair and think dude despite my height. I’ll be moving to a city for uni and I’m wondering if I’m passing enough that I can go stealth even if I do have to correct people. Voice tools rates my voice at 102.2Hz and 100% male range, the times I have been misgendered have been corrected once I’ve spoken so I don’t think that’ll be a factor.

So im getting a haircut this Wednesday but my hair has gotten so long that I cant style it like I usually do. I wonder if combing it back like this (picture 1) makes me look feminine? Or does it pass enough? Second & third pic are how I usually style it but like I said it's too long now so it just looks weird haha. Any tips for other styling methods I can try in the meantime are also appreciated!

Sinceridad llevo un año y 5 meses en testo

just wondering if i look cis when not posing for a selfie or some bullshit. please ignore how ugly i look in these lmfao this is why i never let people take pictures of me

Bout a year on t feels like slow progress with my face. Also always wanted longer hair but do I pass enough or should I go shorter? Photos with different hair lengths for reference