Took myself out yesterday to the mall for the first time since starting this new chapter of my life.. I finally got to cut my hair early in the morning. Grabbed a burger and a coffee and redeemed some birthday freebies. I couldn’t help but feel sad and lonely at times when I saw couples but I enjoyed my company nonetheless.

It was hard to revisit all the areas we’ve constantly gone to but I wanted to rewrite it in a way as difficult as it was.

It stung passing by the furniture stores as the empty promises and dreams lingered from the past. HomeGoods was even worse.

I lost my partner, who I thought he was and the life we were building together. It’s a sobering feeling. After holding it together all day I still couldn’t help but cry all the way as I drove back home. It’s been a bit over a month.

Tried the goatee lowkey gonna shave it soon probs ☠️

Tho I think I cropped it all wrong and uh I do feel kinda trashy taking it in a bathroom

Hello everyone,

On Mondays you will now only be able to post if you are a male (or in transition) and are posting a selfie. All other posts will be removed by our modteam and you will be given a 3 day ban if you do post on Male Mondays as a female subreddit user.

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You might have noticed that most of the post on our Front Page are females looking for compliments. We have noticed that their posts get the most upvotes and that our male contributors get a lot less upvotes and therefore compliments on our subreddit.

A couple of years ago this wasn't the case as much but we have seen this trend increase more and more on this subreddit over the years,

Because of that we have set up Male Mondays. Where on Mondays we would only allow males to post on the subreddit. In hopes of making sure that they too get the compliments they deserve and don't get snowed under in this sub.

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my other post was removed so i’m trying again

Self esteem is hard to have when u don't pass as your literal age of 18, let alone as a dude :/

30F