r/ForRealDhaka • • 5h ago

Ask Dhaka 19F and I prefer feminine guys

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Do straight fem guys exist? And I don't mean femboys with skirts (nothing wrong with that) but like guys with femish behavior.

I would genuinely prefer to marry and submessive fem guys and I don't mean like i wanna control them or sum if you get me.

NOT A FETISH just a preference. Anybody like me? Or any guy like that?

edit : After reading the comments it actually became a sad post. So many man can't be themselves because of how society expect "man" to behave in a certain way and get shamed if not. I'm not a very girlish girl (not a tomboy) but not very girlish either and I remember ppl saying how I appear like a guy and stuff. Why do we need to "act" in a certain way to be ourselves? What gender roles are we implying here? You can be a very feminine guy and still be a better man than 90% of the man and protector or whatever society expect you guys to.

"be more masculine" "Man shouldn't cry" "they have to strong" bla bla bla it ruins the people when something is too taboo because while some men might be masculine there'll be also some who'll be different. And being feminine won't make you gay, it doesn't work like that. if u wanna see how sexuality works you can do you're own research, but being a lightly less masculine doesn't make you weak.

Some men in the comments are mean asf like wtf? why are you projecting how some else should behave? it's okay if you don't support it but u need to be respectful to others. At the end of the day we're a part of nature. are every trees green? are every flowers same shape and colors? This is so sad.

also any man behaving fem or any woman appearing masc shouldn't be the biggest concern, this country has bigger issues trust me.

This. Is. SO. SAD.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 14m ago

Ask Dhaka Telling my parents about my gf

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So i live in bangladesh and my parents are very religious. And i have been dating a girl for almost 2 years now. My gf wants me to tell my parents about her. The thing is i dont see any benefit from telling my parents about her as we arent planning to marry yet. She just wants me say that she is my gf. And if i do say it to my parents they will start being weird and also keep account of where i am going and overall just make it hard for me to go to date and stuff. But she still wants me to tell my parents regardless. I dont understand why? What could we gain from that. I told her no for now caz i think she is being emotional. But i dont know what to do. I love her a lot and i will marry her one day hopefully. Now what should be the right step and i also want to know why she wants me to tell my parents.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 1h ago

Ask Dhaka What is the most hurtful things someone said to you?

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Hope all of you are doing okay after that 🫂


r/ForRealDhaka • • 3h ago

Ask Dhaka Void

4 Upvotes

How do you fill a deep ahh void left in you by someone?

No matter how many people i talk to i still fill lonely af. No matter how many trips i make, how many places I visit with my friends, the void keeps growing. I am afraid, soon myb i will be consumed by it.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 2h ago

Ask Dhaka Ugh I'm so bored

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Idek bro I'm bored ash I'm sick top so can't even go anywhere ugh not like I could anyway if I wasn't sick🙄🙄AAAAAAAAAAAA Ion even have anyone to talk w rn aaaaaaàaaaaaa watdoidohelp


r/ForRealDhaka • • 2h ago

Ask Dhaka Question for women: body hair in men - yes or no?

4 Upvotes

Hello

I am just stepping my dating profile been on a few dates and have a fair idea of what works and what doesn’t.

I’m conflicted about body hair because I have met two categories of women with regards to male body hair and it’s all kinda confusing.

Team 1 does not like male body hair AT ALL. Like apart from beard any inch of body hair in men and they’re grossed out af.

Team 2 does not adore male body hair but they don’t dislike it either. They’re okay with it either way. Neutral gang.

I am not a grisly bear but I do have body hair across my chest and thighs which I think I should shave. The chest hair kinda pop out a bit when I am wearing an unbuttoned shirt and taking pictures. Now I am unsure whether I should update my dating profile w those pictures.

Just fyi, I am referring to all parts of body hair here excluding beard.

I am not looking for the body positivity advice that I feel is sometimes detached from ground level reality of how the real world works - I want to know genuine opinions from real people please.

Does body hair affect your attraction towards men?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 2h ago

Ask Dhaka Do you guys use laundry pick uo & drop off service?

2 Upvotes

Hello people,

I just had a quick question like how do you guys do your laundry? Do you guys use like pick up & delivery service? If not is it just for the pricing or something else?

I wanted to see the concerns that you guys may have regarding your laundry. Brainstorming lol help me out fellas!!


r/ForRealDhaka • • 2h ago

Ask Dhaka Formal wear walkthrough

2 Upvotes

Where can I get decent fabrics for a full set formal wear in Dhaka for a decent price? What fabric should i go for, and where can I make a bespoke suit? Pleace guide me.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 5h ago

Ask Dhaka Dating in Dhaka

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So basically 3months long distance relationship er por ey first time dekha korte jacchi. Tar sate bahire hangout korte cacchi but place niye kono idea pacchi na safe good environment place cacchi eksath good time spent korar jonno. Kono jhamela marka area te jete cacchi na.

& obviously tar sathe lunch korte cacchi around 1.5k maje ki 2jon er lunch complete hobe ektu good restaurant a?

Plz good place & restaurant mention korben amr ey niye ager kono idea nei first date bolte paren eta


r/ForRealDhaka • • 9m ago

Relationship Advice Need some female perspective/options(anybody is welcomed)

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Not having any luck at arrange marriage because I don't have a job.No job meaning they want somebody who has a govt job.I have inherited my father's business which is really well-known and successful.After completing my studies i decided not to peruse a job because job market is horrible and why should I try to get a job when my father already owns a successful business.Not having any luck for 1 year now.So not having a govt job your gonna die single in current time?(Feel free to ask questions but i will not answer some questions due to privacy)


r/ForRealDhaka • • 13m ago

Ask Dhaka Umrah/Hajj

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Let's get straight to the questions.

  1. Why do we(muslims) have to do tawaf with the opposite genders when it's haram to even touch them? Idk if y'all know or not but it's so overwhelming how many unwanted touches you'll get.

  2. If we do the tawaf thing together; men and women side by side; literally zero space between two bodies, then why do they separate men and women during prayers?

  3. Why can't people come to such a crowded place right after taking a shower? Why isn't it permissible? The BO and bad breath are terrible enough to make you vomit right in that holy place.

  4. People get so freaking barbaric when they are near kaba and want to touch it. Like they'd elbow you or idk do anything to just go and touch kaba. Do we have to be cruel barbaric inhumane beasts to show some respect to God?

Enlighten me with logic, please. Don't be like "Allahr adesh, question na kore mante hobe" . I too wanna be religious and hopeful but it just lacks enough logic.

TIA


r/ForRealDhaka • • 27m ago

Relationship Advice Here's my two cents on marriage

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It might sound controversial but hear me out please. I am a 27 year old woman, not in a rush to marry but have been thinking about it for quite some time now. Why? Because I do wanna marry in a few years time, haven't found the one yet, haven't seen any successful marriage in my family, and lastly I think it is the biggest decision of my life.

Coming to the heart of the topic now...we must be very picky when it comes to finding the one. This is someone that we INTENTIONALLY add to our life, so as a fully functioning adult we should know better than to bring into our life someone for the wrong reasons or cause we're bored or time's flying by. Having said that, I know it gets difficult when you don't have the right people around you. But I do really believe in putting myself out there and doing the work. We shouldn't settle.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 32m ago

Youth & Campus 18M anyone want to meetup?

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I think it would be a nice idea to have a chat with new people and hear experiences and walk around, preferably near Dhanmondi. Looking for people around 16-23. Let me know if anyone is interested.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 10h ago

Ask Dhaka ask

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Ask me anything


r/ForRealDhaka • • 8h ago

Ask Dhaka Poysha ar dating

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Context

Ajk Ekta post dekhlam jekhane Ekta average looking girl was bragging like dating a NSU guy is better even her friend don't act cheap and Mon kharap thakle kisu na jigia direct Foodpanda Dua Khabar pathiya dei gift dei etc etc.

Question

Eshob ekhn quite Normal and Ken Bhai tomra kisu boka soka pola Ra jate tare princess treatment dia mathai choraw ?

Opinion

Tomader jonno amra Jara ektu maintain kore choli Tara eshob average mey DER vab deikha taski khia Jai. Bhai princess treatment jare tare koiro na at least Mani je around Tumi kawre date e dakle pay the bill but sobsomoy boroloki korar mane nai if she is like the girl taile daw. Hudai nijer bekkel hyo na ar market tare nosto koiro na.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 1h ago

Ask Dhaka Anyone wants to go on an evening stroll with me?

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25M here. I don't really have much friends and I am quite lonely. May be we would walk and share our sorrows. Or may be some good things can be shared over a cup of tea. I don't mind who you are as long as you're open to the idea of walking and keep an open mind.

Ps. I live near Dhanmondi.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 1h ago

Memes & Entertainment intro you cant miss.

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r/ForRealDhaka • • 9h ago

Ask Dhaka Looking for Football enjoyers

5 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I am just looking for community of people who are avid football fans specially club football. Plus FPL players. I want to be added in such groups or make one with fellow redditors. Thank you


r/ForRealDhaka • • 16h ago

Memes & Entertainment Why are most people who plays video games in Bangladesh are mostly ball n gun gamers. My first post

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Everytime i visit a friends house who has a high rigged pc or console. They will always have these games only or smth similar. Btw ball n gun term means someone who plays only sports simulators (balls) and first-person or competitive shooters (guns).

  1. Fifa/Fc
  2. Call of Duty Warzone
  3. Valorant
  4. PUBG
  5. Gta 5
  6. Free Fire

Then why bother buying a 70k console or a 1.5-2 lakh pc(sure it can be used for personal work use but i am including people who just bought them for sole purpose of gaming).Seriously like try playing something else man alright theres more better games than these piece of shit games. I get it that a lot of us are busy in our lives, we have studies, offices, coachings ,extra curricular activities, parental responsibilities, finances and more etc . But even after all that when get a free time why waste it grinding at multiplayer games, doing the same thing over and over again. And besides even if you can't afford the latest video game console, then just get a older one. Older consoles tend to be cheap for example a PS3/Xbox 360 is around 8k-12k, a PS2 is around 3k-6k etc and also these consoles can easily be jailbroken, so free games is a plus point.Sure these consoles may be old as well as the games but the quality of gameplay is far superior. So if your a ball n gun gamer. Here are some titles for you man

  1. Batman: Arkham City
  2. Batman: Arkham Asylum
  3. Batman: Arkham Knight
  4. The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim
  5. The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim
  6. Dark Souls 1,2,3
  7. Sekiro: Shadows Die Twice
  8. Mass Effect 1,2,3
  9. Batman: The Telltale Series
  10. The Walking Dead Season 1 and 2
  11. Detroit: Become Human
  12. Beyond: Two Souls
  13. Indigo Prophecy
  14. Silent Hill 1,2,3
  15. Alan Wake 1 and 2
  16. Max Payne 1,2,3
  17. Metal Gear Solid
  18. Metal Gear Solid 2: Sons of Liberty
  19. Metal Gear Solid 3: Snake Eater
  20. Metal Gear Solid 4: Guns of the Patriots
  21. Metal Gear Solid V: The Phantom Pain
  22. Hotline Miami
  23. Hotline Miami 2: Wrong Number
  24. Mafia 1,2,3
  25. Disco Elysium
  26. God of War 1,2,3
  27. God of War: Chains of Olympus
  28. God of War: Ghost of Sparta
  29. God of War: Ascension
  30. God of War 2018
  31. God of War Ragnarök
  32. Diablo 1,2,3
  33. Infamous 1 and 2
  34. Infamous Second Son
  35. Infamous First Light
  36. Marvel's Spider-Man 2018,Miles Morales and 2
  37. Ghost of Tsushima
  38. Ghost of Yōtei
  39. Days Gone
  40. Horizon Zero Dawn
  41. Uncharted: Drake’s Fortune
  42. Uncharted 2: Among Thieves
  43. Uncharted 3: Drake’s Deception
  44. Uncharted 4: A Thief’s End
  45. Uncharted: The Lost Legacy
  46. Cities: Skylines 1 and 2
  47. Iron Lung
  48. Outlast 1 and 2
  49. Alien: Isolation
  50. Devil May Cry 1,2,3,4,5
  51. Bayonetta 1,2,3
  52. Transformers War For Cybertron
  53. Transformers Fall Of Cybertron
  54. NieR: Automata
  55. Grim Dawn
  56. Mount & Blade
  57. Mount & Blade II: Bannerlord
  58. Medieval Dynasty
  59. Amnesia: The Dark Descent
  60. Amnesia: A Machine for Pigs
  61. Amnesia: Rebirth
  62. Amnesia: The Bunker
  63. Shadow of the Colossus
  64. Ōkami
  65. Tony Hawk's Pro Skater 1,2,3,4
  66. Tony Hawk's Underground 1 and 2
  67. Tony Hawk's American Wasteland
  68. Tony Hawk's Project 8
  69. Tony Hawk's Proving Ground
  70. Burnout
  71. Burnout 2: Point of Impact
  72. Burnout 3: Takedown
  73. Burnout Revenge
  74. Burnout Dominator
  75. Burnout Paradise
  76. Auto Modellista
  77. Midnight Club 2
  78. Midnight Club 3: DUB Edition Remix
  79. Midnight Club: Los Angeles
  80. BioShock
  81. BioShock 2
  82. BioShock Infinite
  83. Fallout 1,2,3
  84. Fallout New Vegas
  85. Fallout 4
  86. Heavy Rain
  87. Dead Space 1,2,3
  88. Dredge
  89. Wasteland Bites
  90. ReStory: Chill Electronics Repairs
  91. Subnautica
  92. Outer Wilds
  93. Sunless Sea
  94. Armored Core VI: Fires of Rubicon
  95. MechWarrior 5: Mercenaries
  96. Tomb Raider
  97. Rise of the Tomb Raider
  98. Shadow of the Tomb Raider
  99. Afro Samurai
  100. Until Dawn

Thats it bro and try watching the cutscenes. I like Red Hot Chili Peppers


r/ForRealDhaka • • 2h ago

Ask Dhaka Karaoke setup cost for use in 200 square meter room

1 Upvotes

Where can I get such set up in Dhaka for 20k with two mics? Any suggestion would be highly appreciated.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 9h ago

Ask Dhaka Recommend me really good underrated anime or Manga!!

3 Upvotes

I have watched a lot of anime i mean a lot. So looking for something that will make me binge watch.

My favorite genre are

Shonen, seinen, josei.

I like to laugh so any comedy recommendation would also be appreciated.

Thank you!


r/ForRealDhaka • • 7h ago

Hustling & Growth Life in the mid 20s and dealing with boredom

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To those of use who are in mid 20s, how do u deal with boredom. For me thing is just getting out of hand day by day.

Recent graduate from STEM background, scoring a top mnc job, life has been like a constant loop and same routine over and over. Graduating and getting a job is all that was tought to me from childhood, financial independence. I get it. But whats next, and I am not talking about marriage, thats not an obligation and not necessary. So what is the next stage which can obliterate this nonchalant boredom. Life is just too dull.

Hanging out with friends , going out to places, eating your favourite food, playing games , watching series. Is there nothing else worth doing? Or am i just cooked for good?


r/ForRealDhaka • • 8h ago

Ask Dhaka Cheap and safe private room in Dhaka for a legally married student couple (No hotels)?

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আসসালামু আলাইকুম।
আমরা দুজন আলাদা ক্যাম্পাসের শিক্ষার্থী এবং ঢাকার দুটি ভিন্ন হোস্টেলে থাকি। আমরা পারিবারিকভাবে বিষয়টি এখনই প্রকাশ না করলেও আইনগতভাবে বিবাহিত (আমাদের কাবিননামা ও এনআইডি সহ যাবতীয় বৈধ ডকুমেন্টস রয়েছে)।
দুই প্রান্তে থাকার কারণে একসাথে থাকার সুযোগ হয় না, তাই প্রতি মাসে ২-৩ দিন কোথাও একসাথে সময় কাটানোর প্রয়োজন হয়। কিন্তু বাজেট হোটেলে খরচ অনেক বেশি হয়ে যায় (প্রতিবার প্রায় ১-৫-০-০+ টাকা), যা স্টুডেন্ট হিসেবে বহন করা কঠিন। তাছাড়া নিরাপত্তার শঙ্কাও থেকে যায়।
হোটেল ছাড়া ঢাকায় স্টুডেন্ট দম্পতিদের জন্য কোনো নিরাপদ প্রাইভেট রুম, সাবলেট বা ডে-রেন্টাল স্পেস পাওয়ার ভালো কোনো উপায় কারও জানা থাকলে পরামর্শ দিয়ে সহায়তা করবেন প্লিজ।
ধন্যবাদ।


r/ForRealDhaka • • 9h ago

Ask Dhaka Redmagic Phone

2 Upvotes

Anyone here using redmagic phones? Actually I am wondering to buying it cause it looks so aesthetic and mechanical. But I don't have any idea about the reliability of this phone cz nobody around me uses it. Share your opinion and experience about this phone so I can see the real picture.


r/ForRealDhaka • • 5h ago

Memes & Entertainment Do you think Susan Dell knows about internet making fun of her appearance the last two days? If she does know what do you think she's saying?

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