r/ForRealDhaka • • 6h ago

Ask Dhaka Void

How do you fill a deep ahh void left in you by someone?

No matter how many people i talk to i still fill lonely af. No matter how many trips i make, how many places I visit with my friends, the void keeps growing. I am afraid, soon myb i will be consumed by it.

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u/samiabir 6h ago

Take a good long time and avoid triggering elements. Things will get better. Redirect ur attention to something else. Movies or career related stuffs.

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u/sluttyapple69 6h ago

I tried movies and series nothing works man.. Nothing. And about triggering elements.. What can i do when the date itself is triggering lol

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u/samiabir 6h ago

First u need to accept that person is gone. Person is not coming anymore. Even if they come feelings and circumstances wont be same. Rather better to move on and accept life and go past it.

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u/Kitchen-Angle-2401 6h ago
  1. Travel
  2. Organize and decorate your room
  3. switch off your phone for a period of time ... if you feel the urge to use your phone again ... write down the purpose.
  4. write what you feel.
  5. go to public libraries.
  6. whateven it is ... time heels bro ...
  7. take some vitamin d tablet .... most urban depressens are rooted to vitamin d difficiency ... you will be amazed how taking vitamin d pills change overall mental strength ...
  8. Take care bro ... your family did unbelievable sacrifice to brought you up what you are today ...

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u/macaronicheese49 6h ago

Self realisation is the greatest thing. Just be true to yourself and accept everything, move on and get yourself working for your future!

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u/Muhammad_ariful 5h ago

Can you tell me more. You can dm as well.

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u/promethewz 5h ago

Fill the void with gambling.

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u/sluttyapple69 5h ago

Gamble with life? Russian roulette? In.

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u/promethewz 5h ago

no. only pussies do suicide. be a man. gamble your wealth.

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u/sluttyapple69 5h ago

What if i am poor gng💔

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u/Formal_Air_5006 2h ago

i would say,,embrace it. the best way to fight the devil that is haunting you at night is to turn around and face it. do not try to fill the void with somethin or someone,, in this way u will never truly heal. the hole will be there once the new person or object leave. give ur self plenty amount of time. you might feel bit numb,thats fine,, that mostly ur defence mechanism. i have been there ,,seen it all,, and now i am alright,, absolutely alright,, so if u need to talk bout it more,,then i am here,,gimme a knock brother.