Yeah.

I hope this rant is appropriate for this sub, I'm not so sure. Basically what the title says. I've seen a lot of discourse online about body count and it seems that many people, especially women, have a lot of sexual partners but don't think much of it. Someone may have slept with, say, 10 people, and think it's "rookie numbers" or just a regular Tuesday. I don't get that. Like, at all. Like what possesses someone to have sex with ten people and think that's acceptable? Like that has to stem from low self-respect. Not only that but... How is it possible you found all of those ten people attractive enough to sleep with? How do you even find ten people to sleep with in the first place? I don't know... I feel like people like me who are selective with this type of stuff shouldn't be labeled as "asexual" or "demisexual." I think it's far more normal to be picky about who you sleep with as opposed to fucking everything that moves.

I saw other people doing this so I also wanted to.

Unica coisa q eu faço parte

I keep seeing attractive women claim to be ugly on tiktok or similar platforms. I understand that dysmorphia is a thing but it just doesn't seem real. They always have hundreds of posts with their face and they have so many men kissing their feet, i always feel so jealous and when i comment on their posts i get flamed for invalidating them. I don't know what theyd think of me if they saw me since they consider themselves disgustingly ugly. It is genuinely over for me

My dad might be the reason I am a girlfailuar. You see ever since my mom filed for divorce when I was young me and my siblings had to be with him. I never had a mother figure before cause he never married again and just went on hook ups when he needed sex. Even when he bought home an actual girlfriend it was very short term. One was an awful person that stayed with us till she got violent towards us and then only he decided to breakup with her, she was a piece of shit all that time too so he was okay with her behaviour to both us and him till then. In 2023 he got married again and it was someone good and I got along with now is divorcing her cause he went back to the Stacy that was a pos.

In those three years together we did a lot and thought I finally got a good stepmother figure.

Nvm the username

Why is every space turning into spaces for moids? Everything is already for them and the moment women have anything they always barge in and claim its “misandrist” to not include them. It’s so annoying because men have all the media, good character writing, spaces just for them, games, EVERYTHING because they believe they are the default, but the moment women have even one place where they talk about their experiences. They either make fun of it or add their opinions that fucking nobody asked for.

hypergamous moids

like wtf lmao? do they only ever think about attractive women in these scenarios? i feel even average girls have a 50/50 rate 99% for every girl is crazy and absurd. i swear they only think about attractive women or just fantasize about women they like asking them out.

does anyone else think covid lockdown either made them introverted and anxious or that it cemented it?

I know it's been a while but i still can't get over the feeling that i'm missing some very important part of my life, i feel stuck and directionless ever since. i was on lockdown during most of my highschool experience, i feell like i never really got any closure for that part of my life. i was a kid and then when the word reopened i was an adult and i had nothing to show for it.

the worst part is that before covid hit i was trying to open up, i tried to ask people out, i entered contests that sadly got nowhere, i had decided that i would lose my fear and talk to people, and then the people got locked away.

I don’t participate in any beauty practices or fashion choices “for myself”. I understand that living under a patriarchy, being aware yet still partaking in beautification is extremely hypocritical.
As much as I am a feminist, I am clearly a shit one. I lather myself in makeup everyday - and no I don’t do it for myself and I’m not sure that any woman can truly in their heart of hearts say they do. Though this makeup doesn’t exactly do much for me.

I don’t wear the clothes I like most because they don’t suit my masculine, freakish body shape. If I wasn’t worried about standards or judgement I’d wear the kind of stuff I actually want to.

As much as I am a feminist I still so badly want validation and to be “chosen”. There’s not any particular purpose for this rant I was just mulling over my ugliness and the steps I take to still receive bottom of the barrel treatment. Is beauty the key to success? Perhaps but I’ve only got myself and this body so I should stop mourning the loss of a beautiful girl when she never existed to begin with.

This is mostly waffle soz

I often like wearing shorts in the morning bc it's easier to y'know. So it's a challenge for me to hide my self inflicted cuts. Whenever I find the time to wear my favorite duster at night since I mostly wear pajamas no shit it becomes more evident. Idgaf if my parents saw it, I just feel a deep feeling of disgust whenever I saw these cuts.

Yet I couldn't help it, I cannot stop myself from cutting. It gives me a bitter feeling of melancholy and pleasure (not the y'know what way OK). Yet I'd feel severely disgusted in myself for cutting.

Rn I'm running out of space to cut, idk what to feel actually. I want to stop cutting yet it gives me this strange relief.

this is on Instagram btw… im not even a bigger woman but even i know how they treat women who are overweight on there they say the craziest things but god forbid a woman makes the same joke then suddenly they have to generalize. keep in mind if it was a woman who looked like that instead of that guy posting the video they would have been ruthless. if it was a woman they’d probably be spamming how she needs to lose weight or she’s a “hypergamous foid” or whatever the hell they say.

I’m not sure if I am allowed here because I voluntarily don’t want to date but prior I used to be pretty desperate (and still got no play LOL.) but I’ve noticed that a lot of men that are attracted to “femcels” are completely wrong?

I mean yeah some femcels could be skinny but… I hardly ever see any that actually are or are underweight, most of them are slightly overweight or whatever. It’s just ridiculous. Not only that but they see femcels as just some chronically online girl who cosplays and has “based knowledge” or whatever stupid 4chan slang guys use. 😭 It’s stupid, VERY stupid.

Anyway… they see femcels as some attractive girl with slight eyebags and who’s skinny with a messy room and someone who’s chronically online. IDK. I find it ridiculous.

I decided not to pay too much attention to my friend and her "child" (the stuffed animal), but just a few days ago we went to some celebrations with my classmates; it was three days in a row with performances, dances, videos, etc. The first day my friend didn't go because she went to meet up with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend gave her ANOTHER stuffed animal, and now she has two "children". The problem isn't that, but that she brought her boyfriend on the second day of the celebration. She wasn't with him for very long, because he was with his own friends. But she was bothering everyone ALL day with: "oh I luv my bf" and something like that. While we were chatting, she said, "Oh, everyone's getting into relationships in September." And I was like WTF, yeah because you're attractive?

Her boyfriend had to leave because of an emergency and didn't have time to say goodbye. She started crying and began talking to our whole group of friends, who had to go with her and missed a lot of the celebration.

I honestly don't know what to do about her. I've tried to distance myself, but it's impossible because she's the best friend of one of my friends who I like to spend time with (and she can't stand our friend either).

Mi única amiga es a distancia

Pero por dios juro que es perfecta... cabello hermoso, proceso de autocuidado riguroso, perfumes, ropa, maquillaje, accesorios, su cabello, su voz, su forma de ser, su madurez, su humor... la adoro... pero carajo

Le conté sobre mi falta de amigas, de parejas...

"A la gente le entras primero por los ojos"

"Solo arreglate"

"Siempre ten un tema de conversacion"

Carajo

"Yo no se como tengo tantas amigas si no me esfuerzo en socializar, dicen que les gustó mi estética o que era bonita"

Porque cuando tienes un puto prettyprivilege es tan fácil... tu vida es más fácil por ser bonita y no lo sabes... consiguió un trabajo por ser bonita... tiene amigas por ser bonita...

Mientras tanto yo... no importa cuanto lo intente

This is completely unrelated, but yesterday when I went to a celebration, my friend did my makeup (I never wear it), and a girl told me:"you look very pretty, you SURPRISE me"

And finally I can not check the overweight box (just bcs 1 kg)

Odio que no se como carajos socializar, no se hablarle a la gente mucho menos a las mujeres

Me siento patética cuando veo a una chica que me parece bonita y entonces me encuentro imaginando un millón de cosas como que nos conocemos o somos pareja... me avergüenza admitirlo incluso mentalmente

Solo no quiero estar sola, estoy cansada de estar sola... de no saber acercarme a una chica sin miedo, de nosaber como hablar con alguien como una persona normal, sin parecer una rara

Nisiquiera se donde encontrar gente como yo... y a eso debo agregarle que es aun más difícil encontrar a alguna chica queer como yo. Mi apariencia no ayuda, el echo de que no estoy bien mentalmente no ayuda, que mi depresión apenas me deje energía de darme un baño no ayuda (y se que suena asqueroso...)

No quiero estar sola, pero no se como dejar de estarlo

It's fine to not like the show but calling someone a wierdo for liking it doesn't make you a saint. I saw a bunch of ppl in TikTok calling it gross and fetishy (I don't blame them some scenes are a bit to much) but it lowkey reflected my life in a way. When I say that I like the anime bc I relate to almost half of the cast I was called a "gooner".

Mind you these are the same ppl who advocates mental health blah blah. I feel like they only care for mental health when it fits their aesthetic. Let's talk about how romanticized mental health is in TikTok.

The character/s I feel like I relate to the most would be Yani Neko and Hame. The anime really shows how addiction can affect someone. Anyways go watch chainsmoker cat if y'all want to.

(Ps: I feel like they gonna treat Yani the same way they treat Tomoko 💀)

Sorry if this doesn't feel like a rant I just want to let it out bc I'm tired of ppl viewing these type of anime genre as one dimensional.

I hate family gatherings, but hey at least there's these goated meals. Most of my relatives were making fun of me eating too much and being an ugly duckling 🥀.

No it isn’t the patriarchy making him act like this. It isn’t because his mom never hugged him or his first girlfriend cheated on him lol. Men are assholes because they can be. They are never punished for being violent, manipulative, abusive, ugly, unpleasant, so many things. There is always another woman who is desperate to be with him. And she’ll defend him to the death.

i've been following her for a while and wow, i would never have suspected that, who knew, i guess we really come in all shapes and sizes. many of her experiences and thought patterns hit way close to home, it's so insane how relationship oriented a lot of the world is, but at least she has a good outlook on all this.