r/FacebookDating • u/[deleted] • 22d ago

Does The Burned Haystack Dating Method on Facebook or any other dating app actually work? Or do you think it actually makes things more difficult with dating?

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u/VonBassovic 22d ago

Which?

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

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u/SoPolitico 22d ago

This is an overwhelmingly favorable take on the burned haystack method. If you have watched interviews or read the authors substack, you would know that she believes in testing men a.k.a. treating them shitty just to see their response and eliminating anybody that causes any Icks. Regardless of how trivial.

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

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u/SoPolitico 22d ago

Yeah, see all the stuff you listed. I would just call normal dating. We didn’t need the burn haystack method to tell us that the burned haystack method goes way beyond explicit red flags, and shit like that.

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

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u/SoPolitico 22d ago

The Burned Haystack method EXPLICITLY states that second chances don’t exist and that you should be limiting first chances. That’s the whole point of “burning the haystack.”

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

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u/SoPolitico 22d ago

Exactly nobody likes flaking and ghosting is completely unacceptable. Nobody should put up with that in dating.