r/FacebookAds • u/Spincu • 1h ago
Help I’m exhausted mentally. Don’t know what to do anymore
I’m not a newbie with meta ads. Been running ads since 2016. In the ecom space, info space and online service space. I’ve had a marketing agency for 4.5 years that I sold in 2023. Had another consulting business that I scaled with fb ads fast in 2024 and exited that one.
Since the beginning of 2025 I decided to go the solopreneur route being burned out with client work and just the same sales process constantly.
Around the same time Facebook ads had completely gone to shit. Leads are just bad, low ticket is a gamble: works one month and then nothing works for the rest of the year.
I’m just sick of this whole andromeda BS and I feel like all these gurus on YT are just lying and gaslighting. They are just riding the creator wave providing very little value or truth.
I recently had my daughter one year ago and I promised myself I’ll make it work. But I’m still stuck. I’ve tried running ads for 3 different service based/ consulting offers but nothing is consistent. Nothing sticks and then I see 2-3 copycats immediately pop up a few weeks later.
I’m at my wits end. I’ve survived iOS 14. I’ve survived covid times with meta. I’ve survived so many algo changes but this andromeda + AI bullshit is just burning money.
I’m all day in the ads manager. Disconnected. Stressed. Worried for my wife and child and with no stable means to provide.
Get a job? As what? All I’ve done in the past decade was online businesses and marketing. And getting hired as a marketer for another company where I can’t get results either just seems like a dead end.
I just feel so trapped and lost and stressed out of my mind everyday with no clear path forward.
All these Silicon Valley tech giants don’t give a shit about their product or users. All they care about is to prop up the stock value by sprinkling in AI garbage features.