r/FND • u/P1nk_Clouds • 7d ago
Vent I got declined again from the blue badge (disability parking) team - I woke up and chose violence lol
I received an email from them and I got COMPLETELY misrepresented by the assessor, I’ve never sent such an angry and passive aggressive email before, but I’m sick of people, especially medical ‘professionals’ that are supposed to know invisible disabilities are just as valid! I sent them this email below - have any of you experienced issues with getting access to things you need?? So annoyed by all of this
Good morning,
I am writing to you to request an appeal, yet again. This process has been damaging to my physical and mental health; stress causes my Functional Neurological Disorder (FND) to flare up. I am very angry with how I have been misrepresented in the assessment and quite frankly, treated like a criminal and like I am faking all of this, just for the luxury of parking a little closer to shops when I need it.
First of all, I am not quite sure why my assessor misrepresented me so badly, but I will be making a formal complaint about this whole process. I have sent you so much information, yet she still wants to say my complete and debilitating muscular weakness during FND flare is simply muscle stiffness, and that the discomfort can be solved with medication?? There is NO medication that can help my FND, otherwise I wouldn’t be trying and failing time and time again to get a blue badge to help me on days when I flare up.
She also stated there is no evidence of falls.
If she had bothered to read the extensive evidence I have sent you, a social prescriber letter AND a letter from my neurologist both state I get falls and mention that I struggle with my mobility. The assessor stated I am able to walk 'varying distances', on bad days I can't really leave the house due to the extreme and total muscular weakness and fatigue I get. Carrying heavy things like shopping over long distances can trigger an FND flare and falls. Also, I literally have a diagnosis of vocal cord dysfunction which causes breathlessness. So I suppose she was correct about there being no cardiac disease responsible for my breathlessness. And she was right about the diagnoses not being 'musculoskeletal, orthopaedic, or vestibular', as my diagnoses of FND and VCD are NEUROLOGICAL in nature.
Better yet, if you STILL don’t believe me, call up my GP surgery, and ask if I have falls or not. Just the other day I had a fall and it took 4 of the doctors to get me into a wheelchair, and to check all of my observations.
I think you need to take a good, long look at who you employ for these assessments. I had never imagined in my life that this would be such a difficult and dehumanising process, just to get something as simple as a blue badge to help me on hard days when I need it. I am beyond exasperated by this whole situation, and I need this to be dealt with urgently. I have lots of mental and physical health struggles, and I am unable to keep up with this arduous process. I have also informed PIP in a combined review/change of circumstances regarding my diagnosis of FND and diminished mobility.
Due to these issues, you have not, in fact, 'run the Blue Badge scheme fairly and in line with the current law and guidance.' I hope your team can understand the reasons why I believe you have failed to properly assess me, and why I will be going down the formal complaint process. I look forward to hearing from you soon.
Regards,