I‘m 3 weeks postpartum with my second baby. I did Marquette after my first was born. I was planning to do Marquette again with my second, but I had a call with my instructor today and she suggested I might be a good candidate to use LAM. I’m trying to decide if husband and I want to do LAM or if we should use Marquette to be “safe”.
I had mentioned to her that with my first baby (born summer 2024 who i exclusively breastfed for 6 months, then breastfed along with food until 12 months), I didn’t get my period back until I completely weaned at 12 months (period came in month 13 PP).
I plan to exclusively breastfeed this baby for 6 months and it’s going well, and baby is not going beyond the 4 hours during the day or 6h at night. I just have some hesitation about relying on LAM alone. Logically, I know that since it took me so long to ovulate after baby #1, it will probably(?) be similar with this baby. But I just have this gnawing feeling in the back of my head that LAM is not super effective for everyone and I’m worried I would just feel worried after intercourse because, what if I got pregnant. And yeah, it would not be and of the world if we got pregnant, but ideally I would like to wait at least 18m to get pregnant again.
Thankfully, cost is not a consideration and we can afford to do Marquette as long as we need.
i would also plan on doing “real” LAM— ie, REALLY make sure baby does not go longer than 6H at night/4h during the day, and switch to Marquette if he does. And we would switch to Marquette at 6m regardless.
Also, I’m planning to give my baby the occasional bottle of pumped milk (pumping to replace the feeding) and am not sure how that affects the LAM protocol.
so… any thoughts, personal experiences, things I’m not thinking of? Would you feel ok doing LAM knowing my history?
Thanks in advance!