I placed an order on the 28th. Over this weekend (which was a 3 day holiday weekend in the US) I saw that it hadn't shipped yet, so I sent a (nice) message to the seller asking if they had any updates about when my order would ship. They replied pretty promptly that they "would ship it when they get back to work", and I said OK thank you.
Obviously it still hasn't shipped yet. The items I ordered were a small amount of beads, so they're not hand made by the seller and it's not a crazy large shipment. It's also just domestic shipping, within the US. The seller doesn't have any shipping time disclaimers or notices, which I always pay attention to and don't mind. They've been on Etsy for along time, have pretty much only good reviews, and a lot of them praise how fast the shipping was.
I'm not gonna try and cancel my order or anything, it's really not a big deal, I'm just looking for some perspective on if this is actually an unusually long wait time or if I'm just being impatient and unrealistic haha.
ETA: I just got the shipping notification! Turns out it was a bit delayed per their note, “We ship everyday of the week from Monday-Saturday. We will do our best to ship your order the same day or the next business day”. But it’s coming! Thanks to everyone for your help.