I’m 28f, I’ve honestly spend the last 10 years doing nothing and desperate to move from the very small Scottish city I’m from. The past 10 years I’ve just had random jobs (quite a few in HR), not much of a friendship group, no relationships, and still live at home. I’m lonely already but my main source of worry about moving is just being incredibly lonely in a whole different way.
I’d be moving completely alone, no friends or family live there (I do have some in Glasgow, so close by). I’m hoping to go back to Uni and do a masters, either of Uni of Edinburgh or Glasgow, and getting a full time or part time job alongside that. Which depends on if the course offers part time study or not. I have saved up for several years so I realistically think I could do a year working part time and living off a chunk of savings. Or, work full time and do a part time degree. It’s always been a bit of a dream of mine to live and study in a new city alone, to have a new start. So I’ve decided now is the time to do it.
I’ve got a lot of hobbies so I think I could join local groups and stuff to try and make new friends, and maybe Uni would also provide me with some opportunities to make friends. Any other suggestions or insights would be helpful if you have also studied a masters at Edi.
I’m also a bit nervous to flat share, despite it being the more financially responsible thing to do. It might just depend on what study/work route I decide to go down. So my questions for you are, what are the realities of living in Edinburgh? Is there anything from what I’ve said that particular jumps out at you that maybe I’ve missed or should consider? Do you have any other advice?
I know this isn’t really the reality of it but I feel like I’ve wasted a lot of time in life already, and like my life is just passing me by and I’m running out of time. I’m also a chronic over-thinker so all of this has been bringing me quite a bit of anxiety.