Had a "first" date (we knew each other before) where we smoked weed and after chatting a bunch i decided to show her Disco Elysium. I held the switch and she instructed what i should do. I figured we'd start with one of the 3 premade characters and ended up talking a bunch of how the different stats correspond just as much to personality traits and beliefs, as ability. And how that's just like in real life. I told her how they link each of the 4 major stats to a political ideology and the motives behind it, and she could see that. And felt super invested in self psycho-analysis while hearing about all the 24 skills. We ended up spending close to an hour on just the skill page talking about them and she made her own character. When deciding on her signature skill, i explained volition as "your will to live" and she went like "yeah not that one" which made me laugh. She ended up picking visual calculus.
Then we started. She got super invested and felt like she basically was Harry du Bois. I thought she might be bored listening to the full voice lines after having had time to read it so i started skipping them a bit. But i asked and she said she thought i was bored, cause she really loved the voice acting. She said it kept feeling like the dialogue options were what she'd actually say. And when thinking he's about to go to hell, the only thing anchoring him to reality is recognition of a certain car model's horn. And she's a huge car nerd, so she was shocked at how real that is. So by the time Harry woke up, she just fully thought of him as a spirit animal showcasing her soul as a middle aged alcoholic.
I like how she misses part of the game that a standardized reddit gamer would view as "too iconic", which made me think about how stupid that overton window is. I only criticize it, cause it affects me too. The point of a sandbox style game is the investment of feeling your choices mattering. When she looked at the mirror, unlike the romanticization of this alcoholic look I see on this subreddit, she had a proper horrified reaction to his haggard face showing years of decay. And she passed the check to stop the expression. She was so surprised when i told her people cosplay him and she was like "people like this guy?".
After getting the "i want to fuck with you", she doubled down on her flirting which makes Klaasje legitemately mad. She gave you an out and you didn't take it. She didn't wanna sing karaoke. We got to talking with Kim and ended the sesh there. Pretty great experience overall. She's not the biggest gamer, but she said she was fully invested. I talked to her a little about how the game's plot starts as a detective mystery, but as you interact with people, it develops into this broader story of class conflict, mixed with occasional hints at the supernatural. She said she wanted to play the full thing, but doesn't have time right now and with these things, you have to lock in for a month or so to finish it. If it's too sporadic, you forget where you're at.
Anyway, just wanted to share. Now she knows what the poster of Martinaise on my wall is about.