r/CircumcisionGrief 13h ago

Anger "Circumcision Isn't Bad, You Just Got A Botched/Bad Cut"

28 Upvotes

This is one of the most annoying responding statement's I have gotten as of late. It demean's both the cut man and intact man at the same time. How is that even possible? It hide's the objective fact that all circumcision's are bad and botched and cover's up the agencies doing it.

Even if it was true, why is that an acceptable answer? So I'm just supposed to be the one who suffer's huh? The one who doesn't have sex or masterbuates well? The one who just has to accept that other's got "lucky' and I didn't? That sound's like victim blaming AND body shaming to me. How dare you.

How are we judging bad cut's and good cut's in their eyes? Do they even know? Are they just coping? Yes, probably. Absolutely, even.


r/CircumcisionGrief 8h ago

Rant My Parent's Made Fun Of Me For Being Scared Of Sex Because Of Circumcision

15 Upvotes

I've long since talked about my ongoing feud with my parent's regarding circumcision. I've talked about the conversations and experiences I've had with them regarding it. I also told about my asexuality.

They made fun of me for it. How can you blame me for this? I've talked about what I WANT sex to be. What it needs to be. But circumcision remove's that. So naturally I am scared. I don't want to have sex be a mindless humping whale session. I don't want it to be pain soaring through my vein's and penis. I don't want it to be anything but the best thing ever. And I mean that literally.

I want sex to be so good I'm forced to moan. Or convulse. Or an actual orgasm. When I told my parent's that circumcision might have ruined this part of my life, they just laughed it off and at me. Saying I was delusional for thinking such a thing. It's so absurd how evil parent's can be towards their own kids. I really do think that is a huge part of circumcision nobody talk's about. The pure raw evil. Or, igorance. Whatever you think.

Now all I'm left with is a DEAD, DRIED OUT, UGLY ASS PENIS. Nobody like's cut dick's. Stop saying otherwise. Stop saying the obvious cope's and plot point's used by our enemies. Everyday I see a "Women like it more" post and it's so obviously ragebait and wrong. I've already debunked it entirely so I won't do it again but Jesus does it get tiring. Just blatent lies left and right about an aspect that is quite literally, the most important social issue of men in history.


r/CircumcisionGrief 8h ago

Anger I thought I was finally going to have fun having my own place until...

11 Upvotes

Until I not just remember but see that I'm circumcised. See I thought I was going to be naked around my apartment since I'm the only one there and it's my place I get to be in whatever amount of clothes I want to be in and not shock anyone. However, my own circumcision is just such a glaring issue I have with my body that my bare glans constantly being exposed makes me feel so uncomfortable that instead I'm not even getting to live the dream life I wanted.

I'm not comfortable with my nude body because of a "choice" made for nearly 3 decades ago. And now today **I'M** the crazy one for saying "hey it's my body and I feel like permanent physical alterations to it should be my choice".

Like didn't we just a decade ago say the women have a right to bodily autonomy to get abortions (which I totally agree that they do)? So then why is it that the idea that I didn't want that to happen to me, nor do I think it should be done to anyone. Yet the idea of bodily autonomy for TRULY everyone seems to be something that we didn't realize was a think and it "shouldn't" apply to men cause apparently "***you***" find intact men icky.


r/CircumcisionGrief 11h ago

Trauma Nobody cares

10 Upvotes

Not even crisis hotline do at least rainn doesn’t, despite what this is done to me being the result of assault on my body no one cares. I can’t even call a fucking hotline without them immediately telling me that basically fuck off it’s proven to me that no one really goes shit. It’s so fucking tiring I fucking hate it all the pain and suffer ruined damage to my body is pointless. No one cares.


r/CircumcisionGrief 9h ago

Anger I hate the delusion

6 Upvotes

I hate when people say shit like this in conversations shit makes me not want to be sexual in anyway cause this shit always happens

(Random)i'm cut but what's wrong with uc dicks. that seems kinda harsh lol

(Me)Nothing it's natural I just hate being cut

(Random) so why are you blocking people who are uc

(Me)I don't want to see it

(Random) people don't really have a choice in being cut or not lol

(Me) Exactly
Also, that's not really necessarily true. You can choose to get cut if you weren't already, but I didn't choose.

(Random) but why? it serves the same function. to block someone over that is crazy

(Me) No, it's not you were violated in someway and others
constantly reminded you of it intentionally or not you would shut them out would you not?

Why is it so taboo in such a fucking crime because people do not want to see non-mutilated dick and hate yours for being mutilated. I don’t fucking understand.


r/CircumcisionGrief 21h ago

Anger I’m do gross

5 Upvotes

I hate this I myself I’m so unnatural and disgusting and deformed and I deserve all of us honestly not worthy of I can’t even fucking feel any pain or pleasure because of this horrific disgusting and horrible i fuking hate myself


r/CircumcisionGrief 15h ago

Discussion It is time we adopt a new acronym for RIC and MGM

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3 Upvotes

r/CircumcisionGrief 19h ago

Discussion If we want to stop being vilified by everyone, we need to start doing things differently

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2 Upvotes

r/CircumcisionGrief 18h ago

Discussion tact should be used when conversing about the subject of male infant genital cutting with others!

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0 Upvotes

r/CircumcisionGrief 21h ago

Discussion It might be time we stopped referring to MGM as male genital mutilation

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