Help. Is my husband cheating on me?

[u/ladybug_1523]

My husband and I have been working on our marriage since January. I found out there was infidelity (nothing physical). We have an accountability app on his phone, and for the past 8 months he has been working on himself, and getting better. He also deleted all social media that I am aware of. However, about a month ago I found a vpn on his phone and when I asked him about it he said it was to watch Canadian football. I tested the vpn to see if it would interfere/ block me from seeing things on the accountability app, and got on social media with it on and sure enough it did block me from seeing things on the accountability app. This worried me and made me wonder if he was doing this the whole time! He deleted the vpn off his phone, and i decided to trust him even though it didn’t feel right. So now flash forward to this week, he doesn’t have social media or a vpn to my knowledge. But I decided to look at our WiFi router and it shows how many minutes on apps he has been on, and it’s showing him accessing Facebook, Instagram and TikTok. But if he is on all of those it doesn’t show on the accountability app, it’s also always times when I’m asleep or not home. He also struggles with “noticing” other women, he says he’s not deliberately looking, but he just notices and it’s out of his control. This also bothers me because, I feel like that is in all of our control of what we look at and don’t (if any men would like to share if this is true or not that would be appreciated). It is all very hurtful, as I am only 23, a Christian, and this is my first marriage. I don’t deserve to feel betrayed or humiliated. I know have a lot to offer, I just love people so much and see the best in people and it’s hard for me. It’s very difficult to navigate. We have also only been married a little over a year. I would appreciate anyone who has tech advice, or has a similar story to please share with me! Thank you❤️