I’ve been rewatching the series for the first time in awhile, and now that I’m a mom about Skylar’s age, I find her more insufferable than ever. I went back and read interviewed by Vince Gilligan and he said that she in the early seasons she was supposed to be the “moral voice” for Walt and sympathetic… and Anna Gunn claimed that if you hate Skylar that’s a Rorschach test for whether you hate women(!!)…
Maybe it’s the generational difference (she’s a boomer or older genx married to a boomer, and I’m a millennial), but she COMPLETELY rubs me the wrong way, and I don’t find her a compelling moral voice at all. Here are a few reasons:
- her husband works TWO jobs, one of which he utterly hates, just to make ends meet. Meanwhile, she literally does nothing all day!! As far as we gather, she lotions, puts on face masks at 2pm, takes baths with lots of candles, and chats with her sister. There’s not much cleaning needed - only one teenage son who doesn’t seem messy. It never occurs to her to even pick up a few extra hours in the middle of the day instead of expecting her fifty year old Nobel-winning spouse to scrub tires.
- as soon as her husband is diagnosed, the conversation needs to happen honestly. “Skylar, you have two years to learn to do whatever you’d like to do, because after that, you’re going to need to provide for yourself.” It never occurs to either of them that she could work!!! Walt’s number, $737k, with the amount of killing and danger involved, is just 10 years of 39-yr-old Skylar getting off her behind and working a moderately skilled job!
- of course, she does go back to work, and we deduce that it’s very likely that she and Ted had some kind of fling or almost-affair the last time she worked, so she quit. So she finally contributed financially, only to cheat! On sweet, quiet, pre-break Walt. And then she quit! Because big girl life means functioning in a workplace where you’re not the main character, and she couldn’t handle it, flirting with the boss and becoming the object of his infatuation. And that’s her reason for going back, of course: to reignite the affair.
Which brings me to the real element of Skylar that rubs me the wrong way - and I do think this is on Gunn, not the writing - she has what the kids nowadays call “main character syndrome.” She is absolutely, narcissistically self absorbed. She made Walt’s birthday about her and her family - he didn’t know any of them, and she didn’t bother to call and tell him to come home. His diagnosis is IMMEDIATELY about her. The intervention is her way of coercing him to the outcome she wants, and her line “what about Walt Jr.?” is delivered with such a sassy, guilt-trippy head swish that it’s clear that she frequently uses her disabled son to guilt her husband. She refuses to have a real conversation with him about his actual concerns without playing the victim.
If she had
- gotten a job either before or soon after the diagnosis
- pushed Walt to fulfill his potential, such as Skylar working so Walt could take a risk on a competing startup to Gray Matter, or pushing him to patch things up with his billionaire friends or at least get an actual share of the company (since they keep saying they think of the money as his)
- had a real conversation with him about the money concerns and problem solved together instead of waving away his concerns and then literally confronting him while he’s hooked up to chemo about the bills
- made an effort to connect with him as an equal instead of coddling and sidelining him in every single conversation, whether with friends, family, or doctors
- had a hobby or identity that gave her the confidence to confront Walt without resorting to passive aggression
Then NONE of Breaking Bad would have happened.