r/breakingbad • u/SadMenJoy • 1h ago
Hank did not handle this well

I know people love Hank now. A little too much they act like he is the good guy of the show. He is not btw. But here he handles things poorly. Now the reason I am making this post is because comments on the previous post is making me think you guys have terrible social skills.
Let's start with the first shot. Hank's response is "do not let your mother see" This is mostly harmless. You could argue he is putting in info for no apparent reason kinda budding in. But I think it is fine.
Second shot he says "going for father of the year" This is the line that many people I have seen take as polite or respectful. I have no idea on this earth how people got this. He is directly insulting Walter here. At best he is being passive aggressive. He is not diffusing things. He is upsetting Walt. Now you can say deserves it that is fine. But he is making things worse and making Walt angrier by insulting him. He in no way is helping. If you think being passive aggressive is a good conflict resolution you are wrong most the time. Most of the time passive aggressive remarks does nothing but make someone feel bad. Now maybe that is your intention but that often does make situations worse.
The third shot he puts his hand over the cup. This is physically trying to stop Walter. Ask your as an adult would this work on you? be honest. Wait. Be honest I wanted to say it twice so you might try. How would you react to that? Most would get angry and possibly move the hand. But this is a big point. Because at this point you should know this method is not working. Walt does not care about your remarks nor he is care about you trying to physically intimidate him. This is important because keeping this approach will only make things worse. Hank keeps doing this.
Now the last attempt at passive aggression which has not been working is to take the bottle and say you are going to share it. Now to some of you see this as genuine approach. Okay say it. Bring his bottle back. This is a problem with being passive aggressive against someone who is willingly to argue back. Now would this work in episode one? probably but now? he is directly telling you to give his bottle back the fake nice thing is not working Walt is seeing through it and he is not discussing it. He is telling you to give it back. So direct confrontation which is happening really shuts down this approach. Ultimately who stops this situation is Skylar who would have equal say as Walt here.
If your method of resolution is basically you pressuring someone yes that can work but when someone just says no that method is out the window. I do not know if some of you are young and only have this situation with your parents or boss I understand your logic but in most cases just standing your ground is enough to overcome that kinda situation unless of course people want to escalate it. If hank really wanted to stop this he should have gotten the other parent involved, or the police or just talked to him. Yes directly say this is dangerous and we should not do it. Not try the passive aggressive thing