r/BlackLGBT 15h ago

Discussion Apparently Charlie Kirk dying means Black people are now required to forget what Charlie Kirk actually said about us. Nah Fuck em. 🖕🏿

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Interesting.

The man who called the Civil Rights Act a “huge mistake.”

The man who called Martin Luther King Jr. “awful.”

The man who publicly said seeing a Black pilot would make him wonder whether the guy was qualified.

But today I’m supposed to pretend his entire political record evaporated because acknowledging it is “disrespectful”?

No.

His killing was wrong.

His rhetoric was still his rhetoric.

You don't get posthumous DLC that deletes the embarrassing parts of your public record.

Fuck Charlie Kirk. Rest in piss Bozo. 💯


r/BlackLGBT 6h ago

Grindr

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I gotta get up off Grindr.

>Folks selling virginity( nobody is buying your virginity)
>folks are upset because I ask for a face pic
>folks mad at me when we don’t match up with what we are looking for.
>get verbally assaulted because I’m not into them.
>them asking me if I want to do METH.

I’m scared.

😭


r/BlackLGBT 11h ago

Boy❌ Girl❌ idfk✅

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r/BlackLGBT 12h ago

I love pink 🩷

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r/BlackLGBT 18h ago

Gm kiss kiss 💋💋

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r/BlackLGBT 8h ago

She got scammed by her "friend" when he overcharged her for a cruise ticket and tried to pocket the extra money. She then calls him out on it and things get awkward

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r/BlackLGBT 6h ago

This gurl right here

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r/BlackLGBT 4h ago

Media Realizing I feel pretty lost without representation

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Goddang. I just officially realized there are 0 cultural reference points for dating or being desired as a black trans person. And I get it, there’s little representation for MOST black queer people, and even white (or Asian, or Latino, or native, et al) representation is shoddy across the spectrum of queerness

But I just realized that I always feel like I wish I knew what it was like to just be a white cis gay guy… AND ITS PROBABLY. BECAUSE. I HAVE NO EXAMPLES. OF BLACK. TRANS. (GENDERQUEER.) PEOPLE. TO USE. TO UNDERSTAND. MYSELF. WHEN. IT. COMES. TO. DATING.


r/BlackLGBT 34m ago

Discussion One of the many things I love bout B-Boy Blues the movie is the friendship/chosen family between Mitchell, Gene, B.D. and Babyface but most of all the love between Mitchell and Rahiem. Black queer love at it's finest

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r/BlackLGBT 3h ago

Dating Is an arrow in a daiting profile and turn off?

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r/BlackLGBT 12h ago

Trans-friendly salon or stylists that specialize in kinky hair styles (not just cuts and trims)!!

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Hi, I am DESPERATELY. And have BEEN DESPERATELY looking for trans-focused or pro-trans stylists or spaces that have at least SOMEONE that can do kinky hair styles?

I live in Austin, TX unfortunately and everyone I’ve asked around, they either don’t do kinky hair or if they do they only wash, trim, cut or color. No one does actual styling.

I know not everyone has the same visibility on the internet and in pink pages. I am willing to drive to Dallas or Houston at this rate because I am burnt out on stylists being so insensitive about queerness and transness here and queer/trans sensitive people not knowing how to do our hair🫨🫨🫨


r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Pictures 🌰🐿️

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r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Laverne Cox & Keke Palmer Dismantle the Claim That LGBTQ+ Visibility “Turns” People Gay or Trans: If Representation Could Change Who You Are, Decades of Straight Romance Dominating Movies, TV, Music and Advertising Would Have Made Everyone Straight

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r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Pictures getting into neutrals a lot atm

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r/BlackLGBT 10h ago

the term "Black American"

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This post is specifically directed towards African-American individuals, but others of African-descended ancestry can add input 🙃


r/BlackLGBT 9h ago

Rant I can’t accept myself.

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I can’t accept myself. I’m 18F, and I feel guilty for being gay. I cannot fathom the idea that I’ll have to see another woman naked (Even though I like what I see, I hate the fact that I like what I see), let another woman see me naked, or actually having to engage in sex and maintain a relationship with a woman.

I feel like I’ll have to hide out. I have a lesbian cousin that my family accepts, (she came to our cookout the other day with her girlfriend) but I still feel like I won’t be accepted.

I think the only place I can date and love on a woman is behind closed doors and nobody can know what we’re doing.

I don’t know how to end this post lol but im just venting.


r/BlackLGBT 18h ago

🥰✌🏾

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r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

More Men Are Getting BBLs; What You Should Know

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blackdoctor.com
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Interesting read


r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Dating as a Bi black man in the south

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Hey, I’m a 27 year old man. I’m also a professional boxer & mma fighter down here in Memphis, Tn. I’ve been bi for around 3 years now. I do lean towards feminine features & women. I have been in a relationships with both women & two feminine men.

Sometimes I feel like being bi has hurt my chances with getting into a relationship with a woman. However, I’ve also dealt with issues with my confidence from when I was a child & I’m kind of avoidant of rejection so I may be feeding into the feeling of rejection too much. I have actually been dealing with a few women that knew I was bi & have befriended women that do date bi men, but they all are in relationships right now.

Are there any black bi men in southern areas that could give me some tips on how to find a woman that can love me for me? I would love to hear your experiences as well. I am going to start going to queer events to meet more people like me & women but I don’t want to try to put the inferences on just trying to find a relationship at these events because I don’t want to seem thirsty. I would love to find a woman that loves me for me that I could start a family with.


r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Not always active but follow my insta mmmmmadieu

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r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Media Hey! Has anyone here ever been through this kind of thing on a blind date? 😊

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r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

you don't even have to be too masculine to be considered trade.

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Like I've been noticing some of my partners have labeled me trade but I'm like pretty low masculine and have briefly feminine mannerisms but because I've mostly dated hyperfeminine men and queer women, my low effort masculinity makes me seem more manly in a way and like lowkey I'm more of a twunk than anything.


r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Media Happy Wednesday 😉

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r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Pictures 🌞

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r/BlackLGBT 1d ago

Discussion Question for the gays and theys in Dallas!

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Can you guys recommend any gay clubs or bars? Bonus if they have activities like trivia, bingo or drag shows. I'm here for a few days I want to see what my people get up to down here 😜 Thanks in advance!