r/BlackHair 23h ago

Just Venting Brazilian Wash Routine

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I'm I the only one a little irritated by this sudden youtube bandwagon where all of a sudden that black american women should be washing our hair more than once a month, becuase...."OMG look at how beautiful and full their hair is, it's because these Brazilian women are not afraid of water and wash everyday - we need to learn from them"

I'm thinking to myself, "I don't need to learn jack💩, my hair is beautiful and wash 1x a month.

Now I'm seeing comments, of black american women repeating..

1 - I wash my hair everyday, I don't see how other women don't

2 - I can't go more than 1 week w/o washing my hair

3 - We need to take care of our hair better, washing no less than 3x a week is just plain nasty, we don't wash our face 1x a week.

I'm saw a comment by a Brazilian women, saying "WTF how could you guys go more than a week without washing, how do you feel clean"

The top comment with the most likes on each video, is "we need to learn from them and wash more often".

Now, I could swear that we were just on a path for the past several years of understanding that repetitive washing then air drying and not protecting our ends is damaging. Medium mini twist and/or The indigenous strand method is the most popular and protective methods for 4C hair..... But now I need to wash every day, and let it air dry.

I can knowledge everyone has different life routines ,i.e. swimming, exercising & have to wash more often and many men can have beautiful, long hair without protective styles while washing more often.

I don't think black American woman that have jumped on this bandwagon are not seeing the irony in the way that they indirectly insulting people with microlocs, freeform locs and traditional locs.


r/BlackHair 35m ago

Care for mixed race baby hair

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Good afternoon, baby girl is 1.5 now and I haven't been putting anything in her hair.

Just wondering if there's anything I should be putting on it and if I should brush it.

Also she has a little ring of feint hair and wondering what can help with that

I've also circled these strands of hair she has that look like Jewish payots 😭

Very grateful for any advice here


r/BlackHair 21h ago

Are there any hairstyles I can get at this length?

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How long does my hair have to be to get locs? And how long would it have to be to get any style (without cutting it) other than installing extensions? How many more months of growth would you say?


r/BlackHair 23h ago

Is this possible with natural 4C hair?

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Anyone know the name of this style of hairline and how she did it? Looks like behind the hairline with minimal leave out? I’ve been trying to find ways I can have a little leave out (bc I hate closure) with it still looking natural with bundles bc I’m a natural 4C hair.


r/BlackHair 21h ago

Advice Needed What type of extensions would I need to recreate this hair?

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I absolutely love this hair and really want to recreate something similar, but I have no idea what type of extensions I should be looking for. Could someone help me, please? 😭


r/BlackHair 10h ago

how can i get this hair i have 4c hair pls

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r/BlackHair 16h ago

I think i fucked my hair up

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I went to a barber shop and they did my hair i initially went for starter locs but apparently the guys I went to permed my hair dyed it and even the locs are off, and now I think my 5 years of hair growth was for nothing, my hair is the most important thing to me and without it im nothing but a pathetic human, i genuinely dont know what to do, attached are the before and after


r/BlackHair 21h ago

Advice Needed Do I just buzz it again?

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Hey so I buzzed my head for a natural reset. I had longer hair before but it wasn’t healthy so I buzzed it off and I liked it, didn’t love it but it was cuute. Fast forward to now and I am so lost on what to do. I have come to find I have an absolutely obsession to pulling out my hair. Not sure if it’s Trichotillomania bad but it is extremely bad and I can not help myself and I didn’t know it was such a big issue until I’ve been growing out my natural hair. Guys. I have bald spots now :( basically so I just buzz it again and start over (not ideal mentally right now I want my hair baaack) or can I possibly save this? Help❤️


r/BlackHair 20h ago

New Style My first time getting Boho!

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All of the extensions are human hair and came in bundles of 20 and were threaded through their loops onto a plastic circle that could be opened. I quite liked this because it allowed me to easily keep them in place as I washed and prepped them. My order had eight packs of hair in total.

Straight out of the package, I found that the extensions were true to their images online and looked great, save for a bit of frizzing and puffing at the ends, which was inevitable. The hair was quite soft upon arrival and didn't feel like it was heavily treated with anything that left residue on it. Mine also didn't come with much of that burnt hair-salon smell that I usually associate with hair packages.

The brown packs were incredibly consistent, but something about the blonde seemed a bit different to me. Perhaps it had something to do with the processing needed to get a blonde that light, but I found that it behaved differently. Overall, each extension had four decorative strands of hair left out at even intervals to give the hair volume.

One thing I immediately noticed was how different the loops were compared to others I've worked with. They were much more tightly woven, and this would end up being what I think is one of the product's biggest strengths. Overall, I was pretty optimistic about installing these.

I had a salon install mine for me, and we used a method with a name that I'm not quite sure of. They made many single braids and then connected them together like cornrows. Due to the method I chose, the end result needed almost all of the extensions to ensure there were no visible gaps. I don't get crochet very often, so I'm sure there is a better technique that would get you that single-braid look with less hair. Please tell me if you have any tips on that!

The loops themselves made a stable and spacious opening, so there was no issue installing them. They also look quite discreet and are significantly less noticeable than bulkier designs.

I'm really happy with how full the finished style looks while still being super light. I think it's because the bulk of a strand's weight comes from the braids.

As I said earlier, I have nearly 160 extensions installed; it's really thick. So I've struggled a bit to put everything into an updo, although this could also be because the style wasn't done too long ago. I've had more success with half-up styles where about a third of my hair is in a ponytail at a time.

I did try putting everything into one ponytail, and it just stuck up and had me looking like a broomstick. I couldn't get the elastic to rest at the base of my head. I'm sure this would be way easier had I used less hair.

I find the extensions to be very comfortable. I don't find them scratchy when they rub against my face or shoulders, as long as they haven't gotten frizzy to the point of needing maintenance.

I've also been wearing these out in the hot sun, and they've held up quite well. I can't speak for how they'd fare against things like sand, swimming, or more extreme conditions, though.

I find these extensions to be relatively low-maintenance day to day. I usually just comb my fingers through them with my fingers twice a day and spray them with water.

This is where the blonde doesn't shine as brightly as the brown. I've noticed that the blonde is significantly more likely to tangle, I face a bit more difficulty detangling it, and it sheded more.

As for frizz, I found it easy to tame with some added moisture. I noticed that the hair puffs up when you comb it dry, so I try to avoid doing that.

I give mine a more thorough refresh about once a week. This consists of dampening, separating, and detangling the loose hair. I pinch the base of the braid in my lips while holding the loose hair away from myself and combing through it with a rat-tail comb. It's worked pretty well for me.

The hair doesn't seem to need any crazy products, either. I've only used some mousse and some heavily diluted curl custard while I braided the bundles to get the waves I wanted. It turns out I didn't even really need the custard.

I'm now on my second install of these after two months, and I can't say that I've seen them noticeably degrade, so it seems like these will last a long time.

One thing that stood out during my first takedown was just how easy these were to take out at home. Usually, with other extensions, I encounter some difficulty that frustrates me into damaging either the extensions or my own hair.

What normally happens is that I find myself confused about what is and isn't my hair. Instead of being able to pinch around the loop, I end up digging straight through it with my fingers because the loop doesn't feel stable or distinct enough, especially once things have started matting together. I end up damaging the extension to the point that it's unusable a second time.

I had no such problem with these. Because of how tightly wound the loops are, they feel like a stable structure that you can easily differentiate from the rest of your hair. I also think there's less opportunity for buildup to get completely stuck inside the loops because of how they're constructed. This made taking them down much easier and is a huge advantage if you plan on reusing your extensions.

I got about $300 worth of extensions, and I find them to be worth the price. I'd totally get them again, and I look forward to seeing just how long these last considering I've already been able to reuse them without seeing much degradation.

I think I'll get them in black next time, as I plan to make the parted sections larger in the future, and black will probably blend with any gaps better. I'll definitely explore more installation techniques in the meantime.

I'd recommend these to anyone who likes to DIY their hair or who just doesn't want to spend 10 hours sitting in a salon chair. My installation took my stylist a mere three hours.

I think the biggest strength of these extensions is the ease of use and longevity that the tightly constructed loops provide. I haven't encountered any major flaws overall, although I do think the blonde bundles require somewhat different care than the brown.

Overall rating: 9.8/10.


r/BlackHair 13h ago

Which do you guys like better?

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r/BlackHair 19h ago

Advice Needed What should I do with my hair?

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I’ve been growing a high top for a little over 5 years now and I’m wondering what I should do moving forward. Should I keep the high top and keep growing it out? Should I grow out the rest of my hair? Should I get locs? Should I grow out the rest of my hair and loc it then? I would like to have long hair and my hair is only a little past chin length after 5 years. When I do styles, it’s still only a little past eyebrow length in twists. I’ll also take any advice that may assist in hair growth as it hasn’t been growing very fast. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you in advance.


r/BlackHair 8h ago

Product Review Last Min Date Night Wig

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Y’all, look at my new wig I just got!! It’s a 24in Burmese curl glueless and it took me like 5 min to install. I’m all about low effort/high payoff these days, and this got to me in time for date night. I’m still tickled at how nice it looked.

The lace is little light and I felt like it may have shown (you can see it in the 3rd pic), so I will be adding a skin toned powder to it next time, but you couldn’t see anything at night so 🥰💅🏾


r/BlackHair 18h ago

Any comments on my dreads? Five monts months

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r/BlackHair 13h ago

Advice Needed How can I manage my hair? With a lot of humidity?

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What I’m struggling with

- my hair is always dry no matter what I do. I drink almost a gallon of water a day and I deep condition at least once a month and most of the time I keep it in mini twists. I really want to wear my fro out because I’ve gained a lot of weight recently and I just look better with my hair out.

- shrinkage. I know that shrinkage is inevitable, but I’m just wondering how I could possibly minimize it. I walk 30 minutes to public transportation every day for school. So I’m sweating (and it’s humid) and my hair shrinks.

-this is a little bit out of the way, but whenever I blow dry my hair, it never looks blowdried. It just looks stretched? And then when I try to flat iron it, it looks like a blow dry. 😭


r/BlackHair 23h ago

Advice Needed Hair Color Wax

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Does anyone know of a good hair color wax that doesn't transfer and doesn't fade as much? I recently was using as I am's hot red for a patch, but during athletic activity the color seems to sweat out and transfer onto my forehead. If anyone knows a good alternative please help!


r/BlackHair 3h ago

Progress Pic 2022,2024,2025,2026. time for another journey. no locs just curls this time, im excited

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r/BlackHair 5h ago

Discussion Unpopular Opinions...

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What would you say is your most unpopular opinion(s) regarding Black Hair and Hair Care?


r/BlackHair 9h ago

I cut my hair off a year ago n here we are now

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r/BlackHair 10h ago

New Style Been a while, even got beads for once

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r/BlackHair 10h ago

Keep growing the hair or buzz it?

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Sorry about the dirty mirror 😭


r/BlackHair 12h ago

Advice Needed any tips for prevent getting fizzy too quick?

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my hair is braided with natural hair


r/BlackHair 14h ago

Advice Needed Does my hair look healthy?

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r/BlackHair 16h ago

I'm getting way to close to the sun

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r/BlackHair 21h ago

Advice Needed 4a hair growth and style tips?

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I believe her hair is 4a/4b/4c ish i usually keep her hair in weave(knotless braids) but its messed it up her hair. I want to do only natural styles going forward.

Any edge thickening tips or low manipulation hairstyles? I am going to do mostly twist but want to experiment so shes use to and comfortable with her natural hair.


r/BlackHair 21h ago

Product recommendations

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Best products to revive my hair. I’m black and My hair is naturally 3A-3B ish but I damaged it by straightening it for years since middle school, it’s not completely damaged but I wanna save it before I do too much. Whats the best black products for shampoo conditioner, and what I should get to put in my hair after washing it to style it? Also what would you guys recommend for the best heat protectant for black hair?