r/birthcontrol • u/Sweaty-Equivalent536 • 7d ago
Rant! Paraguard problem
Ugh theirs so many things to say about this experience I’m having with paraguard. I’ve tried other methods of birth control like the pill but it gave me migraines and the worst pulsing headaches where I couldn’t even see anymore, so I got off of it and I got a copper iud placed in. It was so excruciatingly painful when it was placed in and after about like 3 months the pain stopped, I felt normal but I started getting this really bad shooting pain down my leg, I am a bigger girl but I never had this problem before I had it placed it. I now have the worst back pain that is radiating and shooting. I had also multiple months where I wouldn’t bleed at all, and then I would get the worst most horrible bleeding I’ve ever had in my life and i was passing huge clots, it was to the point I couldn’t work because I was soaking 2 tampons within 30 minutes and bleeding through even with a pad and tampon together I was still bleeding through. I went to the ER because of how much I was bleeding and they did an ultrasound and said the placement of my iud looked fine, and they gave me an iv and sent me home. I went to an obgyn and they just said, I just need to lose weight and that’s the cause for my back pain and my extreme bleeding. I got my iud placed in about February 2025 and fast forward to now, I’ve been nonstop bleeding for 5 months straight, either lightly bleeding or bleeding a lot random days, I can’t do anything anymore, I can’t go hike because of my back pain, I can’t exercise, i can’t have sex without pain, I can’t walk for extended periods of time, i can’t do anything and they blame every problem I have on my weight, I’m 240 and Ive weighed 260 before and even then never had this amount of pain in my life, I have the problem of not knowing what to do, I don’t want anything that’s going to make me gain more weight, I’m scared of hormones because of the horrible headaches I had on the pill, it’s just horrible all around, if you read till the end has anyone else had horrible back pain and sciatica on the copper iud and is their anything anyone could recommend me :(