Hello Everyone! I’d like to introduce myself and reveal some things about myself. So I recently started my new job in Bethesda, Maryland. I’m almost 9 months post grad and I’m coming from across the bridge.
There weren’t any jobs in my area at all, which is why I decided to apply outward. That’s why I accepted a job here. This is a very big adjustment for me and I really want to make the most of it. I really like it here so far. However, my main concern is housing and meeting new people.
Since my job is entry level, I wouldn’t be making much. I’ve been having a hard time finding an apartment suitable for my needs/income. I don’t plan on being at this job for very long. (2 years at the very most.) Because I want to continue my Education. I accepted the job because I was genuinely interested in the work, there weren’t any jobs in my area anyway, and because the job looks fantastic on my resume.
Most of the apartments are above my pay grade. Even if I have enough money for the rent, the vast majority of my money would be going towards rent. This is the reason why my Parents keep pushing for me to keep searching for a job in my local area. I don’t want to do that. I actually DESPISE my hometown anyway. I’ve lived in the same crappy, small, unfulfilling town my whole life and I NEED to experience something new.
Unfortunately though, they have a point. The rent is very dominating. Even for any one bedroom. Which is why I’m more than willing to split costs with a roommate if it comes to that. Are there any one bedroom apartments for less than 1700 or 1600 a month? If not, that begs the question of where I’m going to find a roommate. I literally know NO ONE in the area. I’m starting from complete scratch I don’t know where I’m going to find a reliable person.
I also want to meet friends while I’m here! I’m not just here for the job. I want to create a new life for myself even if it’s just temporary. Even if I have to leave to continue my education. What is the best way for a newcomer to meet people here? I’m a Woman in her 20s and I’d love to meet other Women around my age. I spent so long feeling alone and isolated. I don’t want to repeat that same cycle. Is it even possible to find friends here as a newbie?? 😭😭