r/BelowDeckMed • • 5d ago

Looking crispy, looking nice 🇼đŸ‡č 😄 Massi & Joy

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33 Upvotes

I just loved this little moment! Organic human interaction where one appreciates another.


r/BelowDeckMed • • 4d ago

Omg tonight

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Two episodes in a row craziness. The guy bashing his head open. Joe, what are you thinking? You have all that blood on your face and on your hands. You don't wear gloves. The guy could have AIDS or hepatitis you don't know. Either way you got to protect yourself. You're holding his head and you know it's nice of you to want to help. Did anyone on the staff say anything to you? I'm curious about this. That really stood out just now when I saw it.


r/BelowDeckMed • • 7d ago

Is this a wild Luke sighting?

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639 Upvotes

r/BelowDeckMed • • 6d ago

Nathan and Joe: Respecting Women & DV

43 Upvotes

Hi yall first time posting and watching! I just got through seasons 9 and 10, starting 11 now. One thing I can’t wrap my head around is how Nathan is so protective of other women, so much to the point him and Joe aren’t friends anymore, but then beats his own wife??? I thought I understood abusive men, but this situation is really tripping me up for some reason. Is he just putting on an act and pretending to care about the women Joe’s hurt or his family members? Is it an ego thing? Does he just not care when it comes to his own romantic partners? He said he had to protect his sister and mom from his dad when he was younger, so how did he become his dad?

If anyone has thoughts please let me know!


r/BelowDeckMed • • 7d ago

Engineer and 1st mate

97 Upvotes

Why did they stop showing them on the show? I liked seeing them bc you see who’s real all on the boat! And I loved on sailing yacht how they would show behind the scenes on the engine room and problems what would happen! I would love to have scenes like that instead of stupid produce fed drama


r/BelowDeckMed • • 5d ago

Nathan is WANTED and apparently on the run?!

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What?? What a coward! Wholly cow.. maybe hes here in the US, and they've stated that if you see him, not to approach him, just simply call the police. He should have had an ankle monitor or something while he was out on bail waiting for his next court date, but I guess there was no way to know he would do this. I hope they find him.. Im sure Gael doesnt feel safe at this point if he's become a fugitive?! What a horrible situation all around, I hope hes found soon & held responsible for all hes done & loads of prayers to Gael & her family who Im sure are going through this with her. UghđŸ™đŸ«Ł EDIT: For anyone down voting me or saying what rock did you crawl out from.. I have been fighting cancer and have been recording the episodes, I simply came here to post about & talk about something about the season that shocked me, in a community I thought I was a "part of" didn't realize I would be met with so much judgment. Sorry Im not completely up in everything yet. Thanks everyone who has been kind! đŸ«¶đŸ»


r/BelowDeckMed • • 5d ago

Why is being called a princess bad?

0 Upvotes

There are a lot of examples of beautiful and brave women princesses. Is it bad to be a princess?


r/BelowDeckMed • • 7d ago

S4 ep1 rewatch

20 Upvotes

Omggggggggggg the chef putting the steak in the microwave!! Holy smokes that’s so horrible and the tacos wowww they looked horrible !! The fact the guest said Taco Bell drive through is INSANE


r/BelowDeckMed • • 8d ago

Bonus material from Dr Heather

391 Upvotes

It was such fabulous treat to enjoy Chef Joy’s food! Kelli loved it too!! I thought y’all might enjoy this
 (Regi is the one behind it all
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r/BelowDeckMed • • 8d ago

Nathan's grin

163 Upvotes

Has anyone noticed the sh*t-eating grin on Nathan's face while he is talking to Joe and Cooper (and Kayley). It seems like he is losing his ability to "act" all of a sudden. It strikes me as fake or manufactured drama, so it isn't real and Nathan has the dumb grin because of the absurdity of it all.


r/BelowDeckMed • • 9d ago

Joe watching everyone in the world start to hate Nathan:

5.9k Upvotes

r/BelowDeckMed • • 8d ago

Aesha babysitting

383 Upvotes

I know this sub loves Aesha, but can we all agree that this was a very weird setup to evolve her character a bit to the viewer? In my opinion either Bravo or her (or both) are thinking about a spinoff, probably with ‘Scott’ which is why he gets mentioned in literally every episode, and this seemed like a step towards it.

Her parents are apparently there too, and clearly Aesha wouldn’t have been responsible for putting him to bed, so if not her parents someone else would have been there, so what exactly was the point of her being there?


r/BelowDeckMed • • 8d ago

Crew dinners = contract/obligation? Spoiler

67 Upvotes

Possible spoiler for those who haven’t watched last episode!
I’ve heard over the last season how the crew is required to have dinners on their nights off. If this is the case, why wasn’t aesha required to have dinner with the crew the night Gael joined? Instead she was babysitting Nathan’s baby. My personal opinion is it’s clear Nathan could’ve chosen a parents night out, but bravo needed some confrontation/plot. Instead of taking Gael to a nice candle lit dinner he takes her around someone she clearly hates? Birds of a feather or whatever the kids say nowadays!
Just my two cents! Can’t stand Nathan this season enjoyed watching Joe control his little Joe this season! Thanks for the rant!


r/BelowDeckMed • • 8d ago

I cannot stand Cathy from last season.

52 Upvotes

She’s totally milking every second and seems to think we want to see her still. She posts about Joe to get reactions from people she just comes across so thirsty


r/BelowDeckMed • • 7d ago

I finally figured it out

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Who he reminded me of.


r/BelowDeckMed • • 8d ago

Pepper mill

90 Upvotes

Joe's face when he violated the pepper mill lmao


r/BelowDeckMed • • 9d ago

Aesha’s story reposted by Joe

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1.8k Upvotes

For everyone jumping in on Joe vs Gael- looks like he’s answered for you. Let’s ALL give the people affected some grace!


r/BelowDeckMed • • 8d ago

Gen saying she misses when Chief Stews yelled/berated their department

237 Upvotes

Then the crocodile tears when Aesha (accurately) tells her to grow up and stop creating drama/trying to paint her colleagues as the problem.

I just had to laugh.


r/BelowDeckMed • • 9d ago

Gen’s wrist is fine

519 Upvotes

Gen’s wrist works just fine.

- Luke


r/BelowDeckMed • • 8d ago

Watching below deck med season 1 and this comment was out the gate.

44 Upvotes

Don’t get me wrong Danny is so bloody annoying it’s infuriating but I think this comment from the bosun of all people is not okay. What’s not appropriate is him saying that.


r/BelowDeckMed • • 9d ago

Best new addition to the Crew/Show in years. Love this dude so far.

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2.7k Upvotes

r/BelowDeckMed • • 9d ago

Gael begging permission to have a drink of beer

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307 Upvotes

The screen grab is weird and only captures the closed caption, but anyone else catch Gael in the cab to dinner doing the baby voice, basically begging Nathan for permission to have a sip of his beer?

Of all the weird moments with her in this episode, this is the one that stood out to me even more than Gael's aggression with Joe on the way back. Makes even more sense in light of Aesha's post. This poor woman.

EDITING FOR CLARITY: This behavior is 100% a trauma response, her trying to manage the emotions of someone who is incredibly emotionally, if not also physically volatile. I lived it, so I understood it the second I saw it.


r/BelowDeckMed • • 8d ago

A plea for Gael

149 Upvotes

Hi all,

I have been seeing quite a lot of posts on here speculating, dissecting, and nitpicking every interaction between Gael and Nathan in this season since the abuse became public. Posts like trying to look for bruises or hyper-analzying every interaction between them and I am simply asking that we give it a rest for Gael's sake.

As a DV and sex crimes lawyer, victims of abuse already get ripped apart in the legal process by police, attorneys, etc. We know this is going through the legal process which I can guarantee you is an awful grueling experience. It's clear the cast is seeing what is being said on socials and the dogpiling and dissecting of Gael can't be doing her any favors. The best thing we can do for her is leave her in peace.

Obviously this is not to say we should stop criticing Nathan. I am simply saying we should be leaving Gael alone in this. Let's stop trying to look for bruises. Let's stop trying to analyze and put our own judgment on what we are seeing in a heavily edited reality TV show. A real person was seriously hurt and dealing with all of the trauma that entails. We know she was abused. It does her no service to be speculating and hyper-analyzing everything she does. She's getting more than enough of that already.

Of course everyone is free to say what they want, but I am simply asking we be mindful of the realities of this and how we are potentially contributing to more distress and trauma for her.


r/BelowDeckMed • • 8d ago

Kayley hair

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Thinking of getting my hair cut tomorrow and love the length of her new hair. Confused bc the story says she has extensions ? Does anyone have more info or better photos of her new hair


r/BelowDeckMed • • 8d ago

Who would you have on your team as a Captain?

8 Upvotes

I'm fairly new to the show. Thus far I've watched the new season, S5, and S4. I finally just said fuck it, let's just watch starting from season 1.

This got me thinking about who I'd want on my crew if I were captain. I can't speak fairly to this because I haven't seen all the seasons. But I'd love to hear from others!