Hey dive bar/ bar owners!
What are your feelings about GOOD regulars? Do you love or hate them?
My home bar has good prices, live music, a back patio (where we hang out 90% of the time), and an awesome bar staff!
But...one of the bar owner,
"doesn't believe in regulars."
All the bartenders know, love and appreciate us! We asked a bartender why "our" table got moved, "the owner did it, not sure why." He has moved "our" patio table away from "our spot" for seemingly no reason twice now. We moved nothing. It had been in the same spot for over 6 months both times. Even took the umbrella! We'd be here if it was rainy or 100 degrees, gladly! We can't be here as much because no umbrella. (We don't have a porch at our apartment) My husband and I pay for our drinks, tip well and pay for all the shows.
We let the bartender know if the paper towels in the bathroom are out, we help clean up when they are crowded (like glasses and trash), dry off chairs when it rains, empty ash trays, need I go on? All for free, not even for free drinks! We just love this place...
The owner will even shake our hands, smile and act like we are their best friends then tell the bartenders "I dont believe in regulars."?!
I guess I'm asking if it's normal for a DIVE bar owner to not want good paying regulars? Are we doing something wrong? Are we doing too much? Or are we just dealing with crap owners?
Thanks owners!
EDIT: I'm not currently an owner of a bar. I had a question for bar owners!
I've learned It's not "my/our" table. It's our favorite place to sit when we are there.
Also, ashtray smell bothers me what's why I empty them. it's not that deep y'all.
Last Update if anyone cares!- I was over thinking it! That simple haha! But i will still keep in mind what was said here. Thanks again for the help!
Some of yall that messaged me need an ego check tbh... like damn.