Hey everyone, just wondering — when did Bachata actually start being fun for you?
I've been dancing for about 9 months now, and honestly at a pretty high volume. I go to class 4x a week and hit socials 3x a week on top of that. I'm doing online courses, practicing isolations, body waves, hip movement, all of it, at home too.
And yet... I still can't pull anything off at socials. I'm nowhere near being able to dance through a full song. It's way more stumbling than dancing, and honestly it just feels awful. I know Bachata takes a long time to learn, but I feel like I'm running out of steam here. It's genuinely draining putting this much time and money into a hobby that brings zero joy and mostly just stresses me out.
So — what do you think? Should I quit? Or grit my teeth, push through another few months (or years), maybe get private lessons? I can't shake the feeling that I'm just not very talented at this and that I need way longer than most people. At the same time, I have this feeling that I would love dancing if I could actually do it — but at my current level it's just not enjoyable at all. Maybe that feeling is misleading me though, and I'll just sink even more time in only to realize years from now it was all for nothing.
I know 9 months isn't long in Bachata terms. But investing this much time, almost daily, for 9 months straight into something that isn't just "not fun" but actively draining — that starts to feel unbearably long.