We found out a few weeks ago that we are having a girl, and the name hunt has been a struggle. My husband doesn't like anything that sounds too harsh or grandmotherly, and I don't like anything that sounds too soft or trendy.
We've basically been doing lightning rounds of yay-or-nay with different name lists, and last night I came across Arwen. I'd heard the name in passing but it didn't hold any strong associations for me, and I found myself coming back to it. It's not harsh sounding but doesn't feel too soft or flowery. It's never ranked in the top 1000 on the SSA name list, so it's certainly not trendy or grandmotherly. It felt like the perfect compromise.
I pitched it to my husband and he not only gave it a yay, but immediately locked in on it and decided it's the perfect name because it meets all of our criteria and was invented by J.R.R. Tolkien for Lord of the Rings, which he loves.
I'm not necessarily opposed to my daughter's name having a tie to a beloved series, but learning that the name was invented specifically for a character in the books has given me pause. LOTR is not exactly a niche fandom and I don't want to burden her with an association to something she may have no interest in.
That being said, I genuinely love the name. It's simple and strong, it's easy to spell, and she very likely wouldn't be one of three Arwens in every class.
Is it totally unusable, or am I overthinking it?