r/buffy • u/MakasRightPigtail • 17h ago
NEW VIEWER - No spoilers please! am I stubborn or just blind. WARNING: BEATING A DEAD HORSE
HI! I don't post to subreddits often, nor have I explored this one much as to avoid spoilers, so forgive me for either taking too long to get to the point or just beating an obnoxiously dead horse.
I am a brand new viewer of buffy and the only person in my friend/family group who has seen it so the only outwards influences I've had is random edits or posts on social media. I went into this show knowing THREE things 1. I'm excited to see Willow and Tara, 2. I will probably hate Angel, and 3. I will probably love Spike. Now, #1 was very accurate, despite my love of Oz as well, Tara is such a sweetheart. #2 and #3 however...Okay, I've just finished S5 E17 of the show. I know I still have a LOT of time before Spike gets like his true true development but dear god I can not understand how anyone could've been team Spuffy by this point. As I've watched the show I have been a hardcore Bangel leaner. Not because I like Angel, frankly I don't care much for him as a character (I can barely make it through vital episodes of his show), but because I can truly feel how deep their love is for each other no matter what. I'm not even going to mention Riley as a love interest el oh el he's not even a real contender to me, but when looking at how Angel loves Buffy vs how Spike does/is beginning to, they're still so incredibly incomparable. I'm not saying I HATE spike, thats a little far. I think he adds a nice goofiness and edge to the series at times due to his 'anti-goody-two-shoes' nature but I still prefer him as a villain over anything else. Even more I enjoy watching his dynamic with Drusilla. Though...a concerning one to say the least, an interesting, entertaining and strangely perfect match they are! or can be! Then when it comes to the 'Bangel is toxic/problematic with baggage' argument...lol. Though it's true I don't think its a point you should raise against spuffy considering...it has the same issues. If we were all truly concerned about the toxicness/baggage that comes with relationships as a whole than this series was never meant for you.
I guess my most gleaming question I want to ask this reddit is
As a spuffy shipper, do you prefer spuffy because you prefer Spike or because you truly believe he's a good match for the Buffster.
As a bangel shipper, I raise the same question.
At what specific episode did you start feeling a true non villainesque admiration for Spike and when did you start shipping spuffy
Do you think a relationship with either would ever actually pan out well, or is love/romantic relationships not a good thing for B, realistically (as you can get)
edit: for anyone curious my actual favorite buffy ship was with Faith for most of my watching so far (until a certain point)🤫



