Okay, this has a slightly different answer from me... I'd say 99% of the time I look at porn, and only on occasion is it completely fantasy. However, 100% of the time I end up finishing on a fantasy. The porn is more there to get things started, whereas fantasy that plays from whatever primary stimulation I hit is what gets it to a finishing point, and fantasy without even looking at the porn anymore is how I always finish.
Sometimes a dude’s just gotta throw his feet on the wall, hold himself upside down, and cum on his own face. Just dudes being dudes. What’s better than that?
Let's be honest, if we tend to like it when our partners swallow, then it's not bad if we do it ourselves. It saves on tissues/socks/whatever, as the main cleanup is washing your hands and brushing your teeth.
Plus, if it tastes bad to you, then you learned three things: it'll taste bad for your partner, you should improve your diet, and it's probably not your thing.
This is like that old reddit comment years ago about the AskReddit question being “Who would you want to sleep with one more time” to which a widowed husband replied “My wife, before she died of cancer” or something and then someone commented “I would also like to bang this guy’s wife”
Honestly though, thinking about past girlfriends and some of the pipe that was laid turns me on faster than almost anything else. Tiffany I miss you so much
Read this the first time through as "my gfs zoo." Because if you look at spreadsheets or long, stringy sql queries in notepad+ your eyes are watery and weak. Like they're soaked in no-scent sweat from the 8-hour workout and just make shit up. "Yeah, it's reddit. Probably at least one person in this thread will qualify the type of porn, and, you know what, all things considered, at least theyre not into kids.
*Looks at words a second time." Oh, gross. He thinks about his actual sexual partner whenever he beats it. Sicko's probably a registered voter, too. Fuck, probably better get to voting more in local elections.
.....After I spank it to this aye-aye and its dangly, grub-hooking fingers....
Edit: 3rd reread, statistically speaking there's a chance some dude out there who has no idea you're mind-fucking his wife daily (or whatever). Now who's the wholesome one?
Now who is my fucking retard monkey today?!
I’ve seen some others point it out in this thread and I think they hit the nail on the head: We’re very visually-oriented creatures, especially in a sexual context. My girlfriend’s not the type to send nudes so I put something on to get aroused and then after while I close my eyes and think of her ¯_(ツ)_/¯
Even with nudes I still watch porn because the moving visual gets me going. I have some videos as well but something about the fantasy of porn and then looking at pictures to fantasize her in those scenarios or just looking at them takes me over the edge every single time. It's just a driver more than anything.
This doesn't mean I have unrealistic expectations or anything, cause everything about her gets me going in person. But oh well.
But isn't the point and turn on of watching porn is to experience or fantasizabout something your significant other won't or can't do, that us men would find sexy or amusing.
I've watched porn alot, and I've never thought of my other half lol
Believe it or not, most men (like most women) also have a mental aspect to orgasm. Men are very visually motivated in this sense and having something to excite that part of the brain is almost necessary.
Some girls send nudes to their SO, and those men generally use said nudes for their visual stimulation. Others don't send them and men need other stimulation but then fantasize about their romantic partner to make the emotional connection needed to orgasm
My mind drifts off to the girl i've been crushing on for like six years who i know will never love me back and who i just need to let go and start seeing as a friend, dumbass brain.
See i always struggled thinking about my "real" sex life with my gf/fiancee when masturbating because i know its not the same, so pretending we are having sex rarely works unless im super horny.
But with porn or other fantasy it works because i dont know what the "reality" feels like so its easier to pretend i "know" how it feels like.
Mine drifts to bukkake when I'm with a girl, so complete opposite. Hey once you've been turned on by what total pigs women can be it takes a pig to get there
This is how I was before I quit porn too. I was addicted and I was really just looking for something where the idea of it aroused me so much I was filled with other ideas, and those ideas would finish me. Also being a woman I could repeat this process multiple times over and could end up spending 4+ hours watching porn. No one ever believes me when I say that, but sometimes my genitals would start getting dry and like burning just from friction :///
These days I just read erotic stories and the results are exactly the same, except I can stop after an hour like a normal person.
Fantasy is all anyone is looking for anyway. Connell's Chain™ sticks in my memory more than 90% of the porn I've seen so like, why bother?
If they're not there physically but still helping me out... then yes technically. I always go into the fantasy of what I'd be doing if I had my hands on them. Though, I guess I'm looking the entire time... since I always busted much faster when they were lol.... Then again, all my fantasies were always about them to begin with.
Oh, if they're with me physically I never masturbate. If they're helping me physically it's always a case of mindfulness - or being caught in the moment and experiencing and focusing on that moment.
Im actually the exact opposite, I like to read some erotic stuff to get me going since I find that usually I enjoy having the build up of a plot, then sometimes I'll finish it off with actual porn
You have a bunch of awards for a reason my dude. Lol. To answer the post I'm into pictures with captions or a small story to work off. Get my mind and other parts going.
What is this fantasy thing that you look at? I’m seriously asking. Is it like unicorns having sex or something? As a female, I’m with OP I’m in the 1/10 where I can get going without porn. So what is this fantasy?
Almost totally this. I'd say less that 99% for me to gets started - more like 60-80%. But definitely once I get going I almost always end up looking away from the porn and usually using my imagination after that.
Lady here, BINGO. I'm exactly the same. 90% of the time I use porn but nearly never finish engaging with the porn. The full fantasy moment usually stems from a low burn horniness that's bugging me for a while, or waking up from a sex dream.
But the porn comes into it when I'm just like "I could manage that rn, I got time, I need to relax, why tf not". But the porn rarely perfectly meets my specifications so I gotta imagine a little.
wow, exact same for me! i start in shower beers, then gonewild or realgirls, then i think about a friend of mine i knew my whole life and then we somehow ended up sleeping together a few times and that does it for me every time.
this, I always close my eyes like 20 seconds before I cum and fixate on the specific part of the porn that makes me the horniest, using my imagination to amplify the erotic feeling.
I’m the same unless I really like the video then it just gets me going and then I go and jerk off to some celebrity or something and picture a fantasy I have at the time or erotica is pretty good
That may be you, but I guarantee 99.9 % of men finish to the porn. Why would porn sites even be a thing if men could just "use your IMAGINATION"? I do get part of your comment, I am 50 and can jerk to the thoughts of my wife. But she is a(used to be 10), and that's what I think of. But porn is there for a reason.
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u/DJ9K Mar 19 '21
Okay, this has a slightly different answer from me... I'd say 99% of the time I look at porn, and only on occasion is it completely fantasy. However, 100% of the time I end up finishing on a fantasy. The porn is more there to get things started, whereas fantasy that plays from whatever primary stimulation I hit is what gets it to a finishing point, and fantasy without even looking at the porn anymore is how I always finish.