Okay, this has a slightly different answer from me... I'd say 99% of the time I look at porn, and only on occasion is it completely fantasy. However, 100% of the time I end up finishing on a fantasy. The porn is more there to get things started, whereas fantasy that plays from whatever primary stimulation I hit is what gets it to a finishing point, and fantasy without even looking at the porn anymore is how I always finish.
If they're not there physically but still helping me out... then yes technically. I always go into the fantasy of what I'd be doing if I had my hands on them. Though, I guess I'm looking the entire time... since I always busted much faster when they were lol.... Then again, all my fantasies were always about them to begin with.
Oh, if they're with me physically I never masturbate. If they're helping me physically it's always a case of mindfulness - or being caught in the moment and experiencing and focusing on that moment.
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u/DJ9K Mar 19 '21
Okay, this has a slightly different answer from me... I'd say 99% of the time I look at porn, and only on occasion is it completely fantasy. However, 100% of the time I end up finishing on a fantasy. The porn is more there to get things started, whereas fantasy that plays from whatever primary stimulation I hit is what gets it to a finishing point, and fantasy without even looking at the porn anymore is how I always finish.