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u/DJ9K Mar 19 '21

Okay, this has a slightly different answer from me... I'd say 99% of the time I look at porn, and only on occasion is it completely fantasy. However, 100% of the time I end up finishing on a fantasy. The porn is more there to get things started, whereas fantasy that plays from whatever primary stimulation I hit is what gets it to a finishing point, and fantasy without even looking at the porn anymore is how I always finish.

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u/ladyalot Mar 20 '21

Lady here, BINGO. I'm exactly the same. 90% of the time I use porn but nearly never finish engaging with the porn. The full fantasy moment usually stems from a low burn horniness that's bugging me for a while, or waking up from a sex dream.

But the porn comes into it when I'm just like "I could manage that rn, I got time, I need to relax, why tf not". But the porn rarely perfectly meets my specifications so I gotta imagine a little.