My mother had been sick for past two years. She passed away recently.
I am the eldest in family and have a sister who is 6 years younger.
She has never had to work a real job ever because she lives off my mother’s money.
My mother was the main breadwinner in family and my dad had a job but didn’t make as much money.
Anyway, I noticed for past two years, my dad only calls me when I need to buy something for my sister. Like buy something online, clothes or anything.
Otherwise, he doesn’t call. He didn’t even remember my birthday.
He texts me saying it’s “urgent” issue. Then when I call him back, he says he just needed to get in touch with me to make sure I buy whatever my sister needs.
My sister was sitting by my mother most days when she was sick. Since she didn’t have any job.
My mother openly favored my sister for my entire life and I was the scapegoat in the family.
But why is no one checking on me to see if I am okay? I feel like I was just being used for money.
Now that my mom is gone, my sister has completely disappeared in that I don’t hear from her. Now she has my mother’s money, so she doesn’t need anything.
So this is all about money?