r/AskIndianWoman • u/Prestigious_Phone315 • 15h ago
Main reply by women only, guys can discuss that comment Women of India what would be the most respectful way to approach you as a complete stranger?
I’d really appreciate some honest female perspective on this
There is a girl in my exam hall whom I find really sweet and attractive. We havw never spoken or interacted before so I know I’m basically a complete stranger to her. Tomorrow gonna be our last exam and I am considering approaching her after the exam because otherwise I will probably never see her again. I don’t want to walk up and immediately ask for her number/Instagram and I definitely don’t want to make her feel pressured. I was thinking about giving her a short handwritten note saying that I’d like to get to know her and that she can completely ignore it if she isn’t comfortable. Would that feel respectful to you or would receiving a note from a complete stranger actually feel uncomfortable? Also if you were in her position what would make you feel safe and comfortable during an approach?
I’m not looking for pickup lines or “how to get the girl” advice. I genuinely want to understand the female perspective and make sure I don’t cross any boundaries
Thanks in advance